Oppositionless

I wanna find a wing and go out the next day or same night

Sounds about right for something free. Still , I'd regret not taking such an easy oppurtunity

This seems very promising. Have any of you guys done it?

My game would improve overnight if I was surrounded by edm wooks most of the time

When I first learned about the double slit experiment, I was also getting into spirituality. So to me it made perfect sense that the observer in quantumn mechanics was consciousness. In fact, there is an interpretation of QM called the Von Neumann Wigner interpretation where this is the case. However , this is not popular. Most physicists believe that any classical system can be an observer. They say that the measuring device used in the double slit experiment can be an observer. However I read something from Bernardo Kastrup in his book, Science Ideated, where he stated that the measuring device is not the observer, because until a conscious agent reads the results of the experiment, both the measuring device and the quantumn particle are in a superposition . But I do not think I really understand what that means. I think he means that the result of the experiment is not known and could be affected by conscious observation . I also wonder how any classical system could be considered an observer, because I can't imagine that if that were the case, we would ever be able to observe quantum effects to begin with. After all, the room itself in which the experiments are performed is itself a classical system. As you can tell, I do not have a background in physics. I've been reading independently on this topic for years and don't believe I am any closer to an answer than when I started. if someone with training in physics would like to help, that would be appreciated.

That actually sounds a lot like QBism! There's a theory of everything episode that talks about it.

Did you find that your wing pushed you to do things you wouldn't have done otherwise? Id love to meet someone who can just look me the eye, say "go talk to that girl" and I just do it automatically despite my anxiety

Hell 👏 yes this is what I needed to hear Your comment about in person coaching is also inspiration for me to move to a big city. I live in a small town in the southern United States. One of the worst places to do game, but then again I figure if I can learn do it here I can do it anywhere my buddy recently moved to Denver. He sent me a video from red rocks. That place is absolutely phenomenal.

I'm realizing now that Osho was a pickup guru in his past life, before he was a spiritual guru. Master of enlightenment and master of game.

Time for to leave the Bible Belt

When I go out, especially lately as I've been working on my inner game, there's a 50-50 chance that a woman will approach me. The last time I went out two very hot women were grinding on me. So that shows me that I have an innate seductive power. I guess I have two complaints with my game The first is that I rarely approach. I want to. I visualize approaching and I go out frequently, but the anxiety consistently convinces me to not approach. the second is closing. Those two beautiful women were grinding on me, but I couldnt bring myself to number close. I still have the programming that doesn't believe I'm attractive enough, I tell myself even if I get the number they'll just flake so there's no point.

consciousness exists as a kind of monad in an intimate relationship of an infinitely loving, intfinitely intelligent, infinitely complex organism consciousness can become infinitely more conscious of itself. awareness comes and goes and yet it only inhabits the single space and always arrives in exactly the same state

@Ulax your tips were helpful, I've been slowly working up the courage and making gains , starting with 1 second greetings, now doing minute long conversations @NoSelfSelf you pissed me off so bad I took action. I've approached a woman every day since I made the post Thanks guys

I'm at a coffee shop right now. There's a really cute girl at the other table, and I did a 0.5, meek hello at the counter . I feel pretty good. But I want to go over there and start a conversation.

Im trying . I listen to a guided affirmation religiously, multiple times a day. I felt like I had a break through today and complimented the woman on her bike. That was the most confident I've felt in awhile . I'm gonna try saying the affirmations from the video to myself when I'm out. noself completely destroyed my momentum though .

I told a woman she had a nice bike today . Therefore I can approach.

Is your only goal to make me feel like shit

God damn it

But how do you make yourself approach

Fine , I'm a disgusting loser, you're fucking right , any time a woman approaches me it's because she knows how disgusting a pitiful and easy to take advantage of I am

No

I'm not

Wow! That's a big perspective shift. I thought I was weird for not easily approaching... but I have ,in fact, done more than zero approaches in my lifetime. Guess that means I'm winning.

I don't know if you'll read this because this thread is already quite long but, just a few hours ago I was complaining that I wanted to kill myself because I can't cold approach. My situation is quite like yours, how you took calc 1 three times, I went out every week for months , and continue to go out, but... nothing, not a single approach. I even punched myself in the face as hard as I could to motivate myself to do it. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it's very difficult when you have an ideal for yourself and you don't live up to it. But life goes on, and maybe everything isn't in vain. I dunno. I would think so. There's probably no real sense in killing ourselves. There are still things to be happy about.