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Happy birthday Leo! Your work is saving lives.

Because we are afraid of being alone and the ego interpets it as you being alone, but this is not a survival issue.. The ego belives its better to be seperated and be "alone" that way, than to be united and be alone ( the only thing that exsists). We depend on not being alone, but being alone, seperated is only from this construction. In reality there is no seperation.

Become the person you seek

You are awsome preety! Much love. So so happy for you? you go girl

I think it boils down to conciousness and being able to understand and ground yourself in truth. If that's your goal, there is always love, there is always hope - eventhough you lose it, you somehow know that you will get thourgh the hardships becuase you can intuit there is something " higher" to reality and that eventually getting there is your leading star.

Have a plan for when it happens and get amused by it while at the same time allowing yourself some space. I also like the laugh about it cause it's quite comical and funny. Here is this thing not wanting to be something, that it already is. That's hilarious. Try to not take it seriously. My go to plan is usally. 1: Go for a walk 2: meditate/ do wim hoff 3: Listen to Leo's ego backlash video. Have some things that you now make you feel better but also don't be afraid of sitting in your misery. I highly reccomend number 3 though, try making that your egobacklash ritual. This of course implies you notice it, which isn't always a given though.

I underdstand that this is really hard for you bro. Me, nor anyone else can understand fully and in total what you've been through but we are here for you. One thing I can say though is that I relate so much to the feeling that no woman wants to be with you. I know that it seems more like a truth because of the countless rejections over and over over again. For you that's not a feeling, that's reality. Atleast that's how it felt for me. I know how painful it is to be rejected and totally humiliated and feel so devastatingly seperated from woman that it feels like no woman will ever want you. When it comes to this, ive experienced it all. I even visited what I thought was my twinflame while she was together with her boyfriend and sang an orginal love song I wrote to her while she made out with her BF. I ended that night by crying 3 hours strait while I headed back to my home in another town. I know how that feels bro! Another example is when I got rejected on my 18th birthday by my classmate and then having to pretend that I was fine to my parents, to then having to sneek up in the middle of the night to cry in the living room to not wake up my parents. What I want to tell by this is that eventhough we or I may not fully understand your struggle, you are not alone in feeling like that.. and even more so, there is hope.. I lost my virginity last weekend after years and years of failure, trials, blowouts and rejections. Eventhough you are where you are right now, it doesn't mean that you're gonna stay there. I was at the bottom litterly. No girl ever wanted me, they all just said eww, but now the reality is the reverse. It is possible man, you can do it.@Kid A I belive in you, don't give up. Counterintuitively, the way you solve this issue is by integrating your feminie side/ anima. You are right now projecting your feminity onto other girls. That's why you belive they will complete you! Investigate the term anima possession and how to integrate your feminity. Good luck man!

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I finally did it, I got laid at 21 years old and I am thrilled about it... but the experience was lame. I wasn't nervous, it was just that I wasn't that turned on by her. I am sure exsessive porn consumption is one of the reasons.. or that I fapped before the same morning cuz I didn't expect getting laid. I didn't cum but I got it up, eventhough I lost it once. I pulled her from a bar/club. It was like the illusion broke. When she was there naked, the spell of desire and anticipation was lost. I just had it - and it didn't fullfill me, and it couldn't. Since then I haven't been horny at all. I enjoyed her feminine precense and cuddeling with her after a lot more than the act itself. For your information, I am 100% attracted to girls. It's almost comical becuase I used to think that it would be impossible for me to not ejaculate if I ever would have sex but now when I did have it, it was like I discovered the truth which was the opposite of what I thought. Any ideas what's going on here? Any resources for great sex? Thanks @Leo Gura

Thanks for the insights man!

Thanks brother!☯️?❤ your insights are invalueble.

Thanks Leo! Your guidence and experience/ insights/ understanding is your ultimate form of love you can to us. Its very much appreciated

Never had any problems

Gold man! Thanks. Ever since I was a child I was obsessed with the idea of having sex. Now I realize that it was a projection and not what my soul was looking for. Sex is amazing but it won't fullfill you. It's like any other need. You need it and when you don't have it its the only thing your mind is seeking... but when you do have it, we take it for granted and look for the next thing to fullfill us. Now I want to built up a new way of viewing sex and see and experience sex for what it is, not for what my mind projects about having sex.

???? Exactly, that's exactly it and the whole issue. I wasn't turned on at all and there where no real passion. I wonder if I need to have an energetic bond with someone if I'm going to enjoy sex?

I meet a lady today that is animus possesed and I had a very hard time relating to her. She scared me and made me uneasy. Her energy affefted me so much. Why is that? Any ideas what my kinks in the wheel are? Am I hesitant to my masculinity or is it because I still haven't integrated my femininity? Thanks in advance, love

I say it again. Be careful. If you are not ready and take to much it can fuck you up. I had an amazing experience, but it still was a lot to stomach, and I only took half a dose, half a tab. Start of slow.

LSD healed my low self esteem. It can be very dangerous If you are not ready and don't know what you are doing though. Be careful. As a general rule of thumb I like the the quote. " Don't go looking for psychedelics, let the psychadelics find you "

No. Hedonism doesn't give happiness. You need to realize Love.

@Emrie Lol. Had the same happen to me. It was actually quite funny. She flaked on me but I know that If I had been making better moves ect the possibilty would have been there for me to sleep with her. She was attracted but logicialy said " I want a guy who drinks " and I was like, sure but you know it doesn't matter cuz you're attracted to me. Then later she went to the bathroom and I lost her. Moral of the story: Don't let her use the bathroom ( XDXD) + more importantly, learn how to close. It doesn't matter, attraction is all relative. If you push the right buttons she will get attracted - generlly speaking, atleast if she hooks.

In practical terms, should you lie that you are not a virgin and say that you have slept with lots of girls or should you say the truth that you are a virgin. I mean, will it fuck your chances? Maybe its best to say that its a secret. What do you say? Lol @Leo Gura

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Okey got it, but lets say she asks. What am I supposed to say then? @Leo Gura