Breakingthewall

That is. To achieve this, each one must be intuitive and do what is necessary, understand what hinders free flow, and act accordingly. sometimes psychedelics are necessary, other times meditation, also changing habits, companies, occupations. it is something that encompasses everything

It should not be easy to be in the spotlight and that does not influence you, preserve your integrity. but I guess if you've been doing it for many years, it becomes normal for you

you have to eliminate as much as possible, or totally, the narcissism from you, since it turns you into a puppet. any need for external validation is sapping your life. turning you into a sad clown. if you want to stop being pathetic, become aware of your narcissism and expel it. After that, you can start living with dignity

That is absolutely true. I don't like a girl who wants sex the day we meet. seems dysfunctional to me. I think she does it without real feeling, as for "try" to be a woman. I am not talking about a sentimental attachment, but about a real sexual feeling that occurs after 2, 3 or 4 dates, where it really flows. could be in the first, but almost never. it is usually forced and stupid to do so. on a disco night, the cheapest

I've been doing it since I started masturbating, at 11 y.o. With so much practice, I can achieve something that I call a semi-orgasm. I stay at the moment of orgasm for a long time without reaching it, and when it comes I stop, then I ejaculate, but halfway, without being a complete orgasm but the sensation is almost the same, the expulsion of lesser semen, the peculiarity is that you do not lose the erection and you can continue. I have done it up to 5 times in a row, the girls are quite impressed because it is not usual. If I have a complete orgasm, I can't go on, and really, normally I don't feel like another one on the same day, but this way I can spend hours.

getting girls because you're "somebody" sucks. the cold door is infinitely more beautiful. not only the result matters, beauty is in the process, it's magical

psychology tries to solve the labyrinth that is the human social ego, the trauma, going through it until you find the exit. authentic spirituality flies over it and comes out of it directly

I don't understand what it means. If you mean experience as something that is happening, I agree. the absolute is not happening, it is. happening is appearance. to realize god is to realize that you are, with unlimited depth. you can say: "realize" is an experience. well, we are in the apparent, everything is experience, but we experience that there is no experience, there is being

Why? Obviously reality is. Is=god. Seek in yourself. You are

If God wanted that, he would never remember being god. God wants things to be exactly the way they are, right? but those of us who seek enlightenment do so by our will, because we want that and we act accordingly. I guess you could say God wants us to. what you said before about the depth, I do not agree. I can realize God meditating for a moment, a flash, or I can spend 10 days drooling in ecstasy like Ramakrishna. they are both realizing god, but of different depth. I seek more depth, but not as much as a saint. the just one to live this life in total freedom. But who knows, once you start something you never know where is the end

You had a enlightenment experience of one day if I remember correctly. but then the ego came back. So, are you enlightened like your nickname says? obviously not. that experience recontextualize your mental landscape, but has the ego dissolved again? Is there infinity in your mind when you close your eyes? Or do you only remember that experience? That's ego, you are sleeping, even you awoke one day. The god realization it has to be at the present moment, if not, it's ego. remembering it over and over again makes it a religion. maybe that happens to you?

but there are different depths and different durations. and also different purities, there may be part of the ego, nothing at all, it may be a total trance that lasts a week, it may be an instant. everything is the same in short, but different level. Anyway, i think there are natural enlightenment that are more deep that with psychedelics, but only a belief, who knows, for now, diving in small depths

no, because reality is nothing. absolutely nothing has no limitations, it has nothing, so nothing prevents it from being. it's a very strange thing to think about, since there is only that, always has been and always will be. that we are. and there is nothing else, that's all, the bottom of reality.

Maybe it's true. will have to check it

It's not that it's this or that. is that reality is absolute but there is an apparent ego that makes it seem relative and limited. if you transcend that ego, everything collapses into one, and you realize the absolute limitless that you are. it can happen doing 5 meo or fucking with prostitutes while snorting cocaine, but it happens that in the second case it doesn't usually happen, and taking 5 meo there is a tendency for the dualities to collapse and to realize the absolute infinity. if you realize the absolute 100 times taking 5 meo, or fucking whores, you're more likely to realize the absolute when you're home cooking or when you wake up in the morning, or meditating. It's not so mysterious and you don't have to be a monk or have your teacher teach you koans, and talk In misterious way, it's simpler

You think that God is duality, and beyond God is nothing, and nothingness is enlightenment, right? But where is the difference? Nothingness is god, that's the point .

depends. I have moments in the middle of the night, or sometimes meditating in which duality completely collapses, and in my mind there is emptiness without limits, certainty that this emptiness is Everything. total certainty that there is no outside, the collapse of multiplicity. the sensation is of total freedom without limits, but after a while there is a reaction. the mind begins: then there is nothing... but that nothing is something, right, or maybe it is simply nothing and looks like something... etc. it is difficult to stay in that state. and then there is confusion, but the evolution is fast. 4 months ago all the mental space was much dirtier. 8 months ago, there was suffering, fear and rumination thoughts, 2 years ago, my mind was bit a hell and if i were alone a couple of hours i got full of hate. it is a process of tendency towards a clean mind, which seems quite fast

Your subjective meaning of life leads you to the depression. you are conditioning your happiness to other people's attitude towards you. this is a guarantee of disaster, of having an unhappy life. you must dig in and change your priorities. The reality is that everything you need is within you. It is not easy to get to this completely, but you have to try to get close. you voluntarily tend to the opposite extreme. disaster guarantee

The energy pattern that forms your apparent being, the person you are, has specific characteristics. This pattern changes as your life goes by. reincarnation would be the restart of the resulting pattern after the course of your life. many traditions and many mystics have spoken of reincarnation, I think we should to have an open mind to it

so that when the woman is pregnant you continue to bring food to the bonfire. and to keep the family together while the children need constant care. otherwise the specie would not have come out ahead

Could be. but it is not that the alternative is worse, it is that it is inconsistent, false. cannot be maintained. so the truth is the only option, and if the ego doesn't like it, it will have to adapt

The thing is: i want the truth, not because it's good or bad, but because it's the truth, and I'm going to take it whatever it is. If I don't like it, the problem isn't the truth, it's me. I have to bend myself as not to feel disgust for the truth, I am subordinate to the truth, not the truth to me. So, I want to open up to the truth, whatever it is

China is a great economic power. but its cultural thrust is zero. If China wakes up as a civilization, as a culture, and has something to contribute to humanity, welcome. for now it doesn't seem like it

Yes. Anyone who wants to continue in the normal human condition must constantly use avoidance and evasion mechanisms. if he were honest with himself, his natural state would be deep depression.

there are people who need to suck the energy of others to feel good. they don't realize it, they just act. They usually have low self-esteem. That guy looks like he was trying to get over you, I guess because he sensed he could. you always have to stop people who try that, so you create a pattern and you get the vibration that you are not someone who can do this with. if you allow it, the vibe will be that. so you have to deal with it. next time you say: hey, do you mind stopping touching me? and that's it . always direct, and always err by excess than by default. in the end it becomes a pattern and it comes out automatically