Breakingthewall

You see your life as a career, as a page to be filled in the best possible way, a perfect resume. this is a completely wrong view that prevents you from relaxing. You live in anxiety, clinging to what should be. life is the present moment and success is being that present without obstacles. play music as a master, be the best at something, a number one... that's nothing, zero, banal, it lacks the slightest importance. it is ego, narcissism, an anxiety-generating disease that can destroy you. our society rewards this, most people think like you, only they are weaker and do not try so seriously. Do you understand what the ego is, the idea of yourself? has you trapped. past, future, achievement, fear of failure. If you want your life not to be a sterile misery you have to get out of there, stick to the present. that does not mean that you are going to stop exercising, you will do it because you like it, not because if you do not do it etc... and so on with everything. Not easy to change the angle of perception, but totally possible

when I have been self-destructive it has been because I had so much anxiety that I had to escape from it as it was unbearable. I don't know how it was possible to live like this, there was so much dissonance inside me that there was not a second of peace, so you use drugs, you get into toxic relationships, you do dangerous behavior, you are aggressive, addicted... all to have the feeling of that you escape even momentarily from the madness that is in you

Well, think of your problem as a very common one: an idiotic narcissistic parent who makes your life an obstacle course that seems impossible to solve. what you have to do, in my experience, is run that race. How? Well, with effort, determination and intuition. get out of your comfort zone as much as possible, gain self-confidence, cultivate understanding, meditate, know yourself. If you need to climb walls of 300 meters, compete in boxing, do it. whatever you notice touches your core of insecurity, of fear. you have been built in a way and that way is not optimal, it hinders your life, relationships, everything. you have to rebuild yourself. This is hard work, titanic I would say. don't take the challenge lightly when you have done the work, you can turn inward and go beyond yourself. Meanwhile, you will be trapped. It is like a game. you have to complete it or your life will be miserable. just my point of view, there are probably cleaner roads, but I don't know them on the other hand, there are cases like eckart tolle, who were mentally screwed up, with a crooked life, a succession of traumas, who were freed in one day. I understand how it can happen, but I don't know how it can be caused

no, because they would have different neural connections. if they had the same neurons, the same molecules in the same places, then yes, but they would be the same person

I wouldn't follow either one, I'd read both if they seemed interesting to me, and I'd stick with snippets that resonate with me right now. maybe trump has some kind of deep wisdom, who knows. What I wouldn't do is admire someone and accept everything he says because he seems like an exemplary guy.

if it is to haggle in a market in Morocco, trump. If it is about meditation, I would listen to Buddha, but in both cases I would listen to my intuition.

It doesn't matter who offers the advice, the important thing is what resonates with you at a given moment. don't judge the messenger, just see what the message does to you. and if in 5 years you hear it again and it seems weak, think that it was another time, another life

Good insight. That's what psychedelics are for. you cannot free yourself from you because wanting to do so is an action of you. you can meditate a lot until that happens, spend many hours in no activity, without wishing for anything, in silence, or take 5 meo that reduces activity in the frontal lobe and does that for you. if you take 5 meo you can see how you dissolve. You think: I'm going to dissolve, but that's impossible, because if I'm not there, what would there be? It can't happen...and it does.

the non-dualistic perspective would be: there was no big bang, there was no origin or evolution. there is only now. now you're imagining the big bang, what's more, now you're imagining that 5 minutes ago you wrote this. everything is created in this instant. there is nothing else

stop your mind . stop thinking completely for 5 minutes. you can't, but if you could, you would see that reality is bottomless stillness. In that bottomless stillness there are no others, no planet, no colors, no universe, no nothing. but you are. not the you full of memories, but what you are. Now plug your mind back in. the colors, the sounds, the different things, come back. You see that they are like a dream that you are imagining. Without that activity, anything is equal to anything else. They are nothing because there is no differentiation. it is you who makes the differentiation, and thus you create reality

what does that mean? I think it would be interesting to understand. what is discord? for me discord is the opposite of concord, I mean fight. I fight with myself, so what you're saying is remove that fight instantly, not work on it. That's what you mean by dedicating time and attention, right? but can it be removed from the root without paying attention to it? Are you sure? perhaps the discord arose from thought patterns perpetuated over time. Perhaps to exorcise it you should do something, confront her on the ground where she arose, for example. Or maybe you could cut it in the root as you said. How?...well I don't know if you meant that i understood With respect to momentum....I'm lost, what do you mean?

your post is interesting, if you analyze it yourself you will see that all the negative quality that you attribute to reality is your projection. Why something is horrible? what makes it horrible? you, obviously. If you're not here, nothing is horrible, it's just perfect. it is very difficult to really see it, since we each have a trigger that makes us see horrible things, and since it's difficult to see the equation without "you"

It would be necessary to see those people when the end comes, which is usually very slow nowadays, what happens in their minds. or when they are alone in a nursing home. what happens is that our society hides that very cleverly. Agree, In the case of a total dissolution, in which there is nothing left of a separate individual, we do not know how we would react, what our place in society would be, if there were any. Are there people like this today? What do they do? trying to fuck in las vegas clubs with random girls? ?, live in caves and no one knows about them?

it depends, I think that the closer you, as an ego, get to be aware or the truth, everything acquires a more authentic, luminous quality (that's why enlightened), joy, although at first it may be horrible like being alone. on the other hand, the more you you walk away, everything becomes more strange, sinister, lifeless, terrifying, sad. so for practical reasons, there is only one way. that you end up isolated from society? I don't think it's a necessary condition, but if it were, I prefer that to living in madness

It means if I stab you, I'm stabbing myself. you do not exist, you are just an idea in my mind. but I don't exist, I'm just an idea of your mind. we are literally the same. exact, nailed, doing a magic trick involving time, movement and multiplicity. high five, because you are me, exactly, without nuances, right now. It's quite horrible, right?

@Vido No idea, just speculation. the guy will try, with concepts and ideas, to make you go beyond concepts and ideas, I suppose in a particular way adapted to each one. is this possible? who knows. is he a genius? everything is possible. is he selling you a damaged motorbike? It can also be, although seeing his career, I imagine he will be doing something he believes in. and earning money, of course, that's what everyone work for

La Gomera, canary islands

leo's highest teaching is: stick 30mg of 5meo in your ass and then do it again. but strangely, this teaching, which really works and is revolutionary, nobody puts it into practice

I never talk about that, that's what this forum is for. With people I talk about what interests them, so at least you get something interesting. if you talk about spirituality to someone who doesn't care, you're just going to look like an idiot. also remember: the tao that can be said is not the tao

alone, others, perspectives, dreams, god, awake...all of these are concepts. As long as you remain attached to the concepts, your mind will be partitioned off, walled off. you have to flatten your mind, stop making differentiations of everything, and allow it to be formless, to expand. what happens is that this is threatening, it gives you the feeling of letting go of the grips and sinking into quicksand. you have to sink. if not, you will only be going round and round to some ideas or others

because seeing through the illusion of being a separate individual and stepping out of the hysterical chimpanzee mind makes the experience 1000% more beautiful, rich, pure and joyful.

@Parashakti don't be a believer man, If you want to be of a religion, become a Christian, or a Buddhist, they are tested. leoist of solipism takes you to the madhouse

There are many valid answers. one of them is: your bodily functions are a thought

@Inliytened1 thanks!

because you see that it was the ego, a fictitious entity, who introduced the idea of imperfection, of how things should be for his benefit. without this activity, everything acquires a perfect quality, since it is exactly as it should be