Breakingthewall

Before I was in a state of almost permanent dissonance, and the more openness there is in me, the less this happens. That contrast between high and low is not like that, it is openness or closure. If there is openness, there is happiness, without it there is anxiety. So I look for the maximum openness, to be unhindered in the most total way possible, it is like removing barriers and for reality to perceive yourself in all your depth, then nothing is wrong, it is a living reality, it flows, and it is felt as full. The ups and downs become increasingly rare, although moments of closure can and do occur, openness predominates. a sign is the total cessation of the addictive, including the addictive thought

Enlightenment It is knowing what reality is, and reality is obviously you. But countless things happen that distract you from that fact. The way to know what you are is to eliminate all forms until only you are left without form, and without limits, then you know that it is reality, it is that, it is always that, only with many appearances. What you cannot know are the appearances and their structure, because they are infinite, but you can intuit their process, their coordination, their movement.

If you have a real openness to reality, to the living depth, you like to treat with others because they are the living depth, the entire reality is, it is a dance and in others there is life, color, energy, and you capture it. and you taste, you see them. You are seeing reality and others are reality, you just want them to be more open, to see more in them, since what you are looking for is more reality, that is what reality does, go deeper into itself.

I like to talk to connect, then you ve to talk about things that are in the mind of that person, and share the things that are in your mind, but if you had a real openess about that life and death are, and you are open to the true nature of reality and the other person isn't, or is but in different way, it's stupid to talk about spiritual topic, because seem that you are putting like an above level, then it's not communication, is like narcissism

Socrates was wrong, I know everything: I am.

Sometimes I have glimpses of the dimension of what reality is, and indeed, as you say in your post, we have no fucking idea. It is impossible to intuit the dimension of the cosmic game. but there is something that you can perceive completely: its nature. what you are. this is enlightenment. It is not knowing things, you cannot know anything, because your insect mind is not capable of understanding the infinite, but even the mind of a proton can fully understand its ultimate nature. That is openness, open your heart and your mind completely, now. This, now, is reality, and its essence, its final nature, is you. Once you have that, you play the game, for that is what it is, but you play it consciously, intuiting every step.

Maybe I'm wrong, but my intuition makes me see karma in everything, I see life as a network that develops and creates patterns, and these patterns are lasting, transcendent to dimensions that I don't see. I perceive continuity, the butterfly effect, and out of pure practicality I try to make the pattern as clean as possible, this means doing what is necessary, providing a positive, straight, open push, which promotes the construction of harmonious patterns and not twisted hellish shit.

I meet a lot of people and never, absolutely never, I talk about spirituality. Talking about it to people who are not interested is very stupid and ridiculous, and very egotistical, it is to show how deep you are and such. When you interact with people what you try to do is connect, flow on the same frequency, don't blurt out lectures, it's the same as making love, you try to flow on the same wave, not show what a big dick you have, unless you're an unbearable idiot.

Artem It's completely fake, a wannabe sect leader, if Frank Yang hasn't detected something so obvious, well... it says a lot about Frank Yang.

I'm not good for a debate because I speak just in some moments when I'm open, inspired, connected. I don't know precise things about anything, but about the other option, I did a lot of exposed things, the most that I dare, that were not small 😅, and lets see what more could be done....or maybe no more? Really I don't know. From I was a kid I felt fascination for risk and danger, and that lead me here, to spirituality. Real spirituality is total exposure. You are totally open to the reality, totally exposed. It's scary, fascinating, wonderful, wild.

Trying to narrow sex down to something acceptable never works. The bad news for puritans is: sex exists, sorry! It is a primary impulse and is configured in an extremely unfair way, the way of life. life is unfair, sorry puritans. Then, we try to make it as fair as possible, but sex will always be wild

Porn is like weed, beer or anything else. Some is ok, too much is toxic

🤣🤣 An activist girl told me that the way roosters mate with hens is aggression and demeans the females.

I allude to you as an example because you are a person we know something about, because being a partly public character. Seems that you are someone who advances, that is the only thing that a human being should know as true, either you advance, or you sink. It is the nature of life physically and mentally. Human life is a path, this is not something relative but absolute.

The thing is to have the absolute certainly that you have to be absolutely serious in one direction , as you are I'd say. Then, you could be wrong in many things, it's sure that it will happen, but you will always walking, deepening, evolving.

The thing is impossible to understand. understanding is something that happens in this particular experience. Understanding is like seeing or walking, they are things that happen within the dream. If the dream disappears, understanding means nothing. You cannot see the panorama from a point inside the illusion, you must leave it, and outside of it, nothing that is thought in a structured way makes sense, since it only makes sense within the structure. The structure is a creation, the creation cannot understand the creator, it can move and dissapear a while so that reality manifests, no more

There is no problem with hedonism at the time, but at other times what is necessary is direct, serious action, in search of your limits, your capacity for real suffering when facing human life. you have to build solidity, and for that you have to hit the hammer. If you don't do, you wont scape to suffering, and the game can take very dark faces. Every.year that pass brings you closer to a point where things are going to be defined. and you don't want the balance to tip towards darkness at that point. This game is no joke, you either win or you are screwed to levels that can be horrible. Depression, isolation, darkness. life doesn't joke Maybe that's not your case and I'm exaggerating, because people has a huge capacity of evasion, then can stand all life fooling themselves, but I'd say you are too smart for that

Your problem is simple, and millions of men have had it, and those who have had balls have always known what the solution is. The problem is that you live in the shell, and therefore you don't know who you are or what you want. The solution is to expose yourself. travel for a year without money, go to a war, volunteer in a leper hospital, dedicate yourself to climbing 200 m walls without a rope, do things that bring out the real you that hides under mom's skirts, and that real you will not have doubts, you will always know what to do, because you will know who you are. For some that is not necessary because they just adopt the norm and their only objetive is to fit in the norm, but that is not your case. You want to walk alone, it's the best option but balls are required . Maybe it's not necessary to test yourself so hard, but I'd say it is necessary. If not the fear is always in control Walking alone means looking the life directly, without filter, then you will see that you are absolutely exposed. That's fearful, and we as hive have been adopted a lot of filters, we are full of fear. This fear must be faced, the existence must be faced without any trick, be open to it. Then you will know exactly what to do , in fact it will be unavoidable, as a natural phenomena

Good one! Deep perception. I would say that impermanence, constant change, occurs due to the absence of limits. the very fact of infinity prevents stability. The only thing stable is infinity itself, and this is what we ultimately are. enlightenment is to become literally infinite, and becoming infinite entails seeing everything apparent as false in the sense that it is just an image. See your life as a mask that the infinite wears, since given its infinity, it will always wear one, then you can put aside the mask and be the total depth that it is regardless of the form it takes, and perceive your ultimate essence, in the opening of the total bottomless abyss, the infinite, that is, you, smile. that is its essence, since it is and it's freedom is total

DEPTH

Suffering is absolutely necessary, because to completely remove yourself from the superficial layer, let's call it the mask, deception, dream, requires an absolutely unbreakable will to break your experience, without reservation, almost to the level of a suicidal desire. I suppose there are also different cases, spontaneous, Ramana Maharshi, people like that, but the normal thing is that at a given moment you realize that your life, your human existence, is truly miserable shit that can only get worse, a trap terrible, a joke of the gods, and you make the decision to break up, without caring about the consequences. Then you can open the apparent and see what is behind. Then the apparent closes again, but everything has changed, you have seen, although you cannot remember exactly what, your entire being has been rewired, the door was opened, the glas filled, the prodigal son returned. achieving a new opening is easier, although still difficult, there is still a lot of confusion, but the determination is still strong and the suffering continues to exist 24/7, little by little, with each new opening, you as a reality are rewiring yourself, reconfiguring your energetic pattern, and your density is decreasing. The experience becomes increasingly transparent, and the focus on the present increases until it becomes total. Perception goes from being linear, seeing life as a temporary process, to profound, seeing existence as a vital energetic pattern that is now. At this point, the openings are easy and more or less normal, although they require deliberation. The experience continues to be the protagonist, chopping wood and carrying water, which can be scientific research, business, deep human relationships or anything else with real meaning. At a given moment you realize something: the suffering has disappeared, completely. You go through life dancing, everything is colorful and there is no fear. There is confidence that things are as they should be. Even so, you would not like to have your arms amputated or sentenced to life imprisonment in a Russian prison, but everything has a cosmic, relative and necessary meaning. You are flowing, surfing the wave, in synchrony. Then, I guess there is or could be another stage, where you are absolutely out of the world, of the human movent. Maybe life leads you to that point by an accident, like ram Dass, just getting old, or by vocation. Then maybe you could perceive as deep as an human can, and be totally focused in mystical perception. Id say that in the future, many humans will reach that point

Most of the time, attachment is something that you yourself provoke and develop out of fear of losing that girl. On the one hand, you want to be independent and free, on the other, you can't stand the idea that this certain girl could escape your sphere of influence. The only solution to this, in my opinion, is practice. It's dangerous because you can stay hooked for years on something you don't really want, but you have to play this game. If the gods are on your side, they will send you some toxic bitches who will play with you like a doll until you have no dignity left, and this will serve as an antidote to getting attached too quickly. Also It is always convenient to have several in your agenda, so the attachment is not so focused, but it still happens. good luck

You are always what you are, but you wear a mask, this mask is this life and all its meaning, its temporal movement and its qualia. Taking off the mask and being the absolutely naked being and perceiving yourself as the unfathomable eternal, and clearly perceiving the nature of what you are, is not easy. There is a lot of deception to remove, until there is absolutely nothing defined or concrete left, and then you can expand to infinity. It is not something simple, obvious, easy. It is a difficult achievement

I wouldn't say that this is enlightenment. What you mentioned could be the consequences of enlightenment but not enlightenment itself. It is to break totally the illusion of this life and become totally conscious of your true nature, that you are the unfathomable abyss that exists and realize how you are creating this moment and be aware of all it's depth . Then you see clearly through life and death, and you identify with existence. It is a specific mystical opening that if it occurs many times begins to be your natural state of being and your understanding of this experience deepens.

Ok, but you could say that if you have all meanings simultaneously, that doesn't mean nothing. Meaning is linear, limited, because for a meaning has meaning should exclude the other possible meanings