Breakingthewall

There is no problem with hedonism at the time, but at other times what is necessary is direct, serious action, in search of your limits, your capacity for real suffering when facing human life. you have to build solidity, and for that you have to hit the hammer. If you don't do, you wont scape to suffering, and the game can take very dark faces. Every.year that pass brings you closer to a point where things are going to be defined. and you don't want the balance to tip towards darkness at that point. This game is no joke, you either win or you are screwed to levels that can be horrible. Depression, isolation, darkness. life doesn't joke Maybe that's not your case and I'm exaggerating, because people has a huge capacity of evasion, then can stand all life fooling themselves, but I'd say you are too smart for that

Your problem is simple, and millions of men have had it, and those who have had balls have always known what the solution is. The problem is that you live in the shell, and therefore you don't know who you are or what you want. The solution is to expose yourself. travel for a year without money, go to a war, volunteer in a leper hospital, dedicate yourself to climbing 200 m walls without a rope, do things that bring out the real you that hides under mom's skirts, and that real you will not have doubts, you will always know what to do, because you will know who you are. For some that is not necessary because they just adopt the norm and their only objetive is to fit in the norm, but that is not your case. You want to walk alone, it's the best option but balls are required . Maybe it's not necessary to test yourself so hard, but I'd say it is necessary. If not the fear is always in control Walking alone means looking the life directly, without filter, then you will see that you are absolutely exposed. That's fearful, and we as hive have been adopted a lot of filters, we are full of fear. This fear must be faced, the existence must be faced without any trick, be open to it. Then you will know exactly what to do , in fact it will be unavoidable, as a natural phenomena

Good one! Deep perception. I would say that impermanence, constant change, occurs due to the absence of limits. the very fact of infinity prevents stability. The only thing stable is infinity itself, and this is what we ultimately are. enlightenment is to become literally infinite, and becoming infinite entails seeing everything apparent as false in the sense that it is just an image. See your life as a mask that the infinite wears, since given its infinity, it will always wear one, then you can put aside the mask and be the total depth that it is regardless of the form it takes, and perceive your ultimate essence, in the opening of the total bottomless abyss, the infinite, that is, you, smile. that is its essence, since it is and it's freedom is total

DEPTH

Suffering is absolutely necessary, because to completely remove yourself from the superficial layer, let's call it the mask, deception, dream, requires an absolutely unbreakable will to break your experience, without reservation, almost to the level of a suicidal desire. I suppose there are also different cases, spontaneous, Ramana Maharshi, people like that, but the normal thing is that at a given moment you realize that your life, your human existence, is truly miserable shit that can only get worse, a trap terrible, a joke of the gods, and you make the decision to break up, without caring about the consequences. Then you can open the apparent and see what is behind. Then the apparent closes again, but everything has changed, you have seen, although you cannot remember exactly what, your entire being has been rewired, the door was opened, the glas filled, the prodigal son returned. achieving a new opening is easier, although still difficult, there is still a lot of confusion, but the determination is still strong and the suffering continues to exist 24/7, little by little, with each new opening, you as a reality are rewiring yourself, reconfiguring your energetic pattern, and your density is decreasing. The experience becomes increasingly transparent, and the focus on the present increases until it becomes total. Perception goes from being linear, seeing life as a temporary process, to profound, seeing existence as a vital energetic pattern that is now. At this point, the openings are easy and more or less normal, although they require deliberation. The experience continues to be the protagonist, chopping wood and carrying water, which can be scientific research, business, deep human relationships or anything else with real meaning. At a given moment you realize something: the suffering has disappeared, completely. You go through life dancing, everything is colorful and there is no fear. There is confidence that things are as they should be. Even so, you would not like to have your arms amputated or sentenced to life imprisonment in a Russian prison, but everything has a cosmic, relative and necessary meaning. You are flowing, surfing the wave, in synchrony. Then, I guess there is or could be another stage, where you are absolutely out of the world, of the human movent. Maybe life leads you to that point by an accident, like ram Dass, just getting old, or by vocation. Then maybe you could perceive as deep as an human can, and be totally focused in mystical perception. Id say that in the future, many humans will reach that point

Most of the time, attachment is something that you yourself provoke and develop out of fear of losing that girl. On the one hand, you want to be independent and free, on the other, you can't stand the idea that this certain girl could escape your sphere of influence. The only solution to this, in my opinion, is practice. It's dangerous because you can stay hooked for years on something you don't really want, but you have to play this game. If the gods are on your side, they will send you some toxic bitches who will play with you like a doll until you have no dignity left, and this will serve as an antidote to getting attached too quickly. Also It is always convenient to have several in your agenda, so the attachment is not so focused, but it still happens. good luck

You are always what you are, but you wear a mask, this mask is this life and all its meaning, its temporal movement and its qualia. Taking off the mask and being the absolutely naked being and perceiving yourself as the unfathomable eternal, and clearly perceiving the nature of what you are, is not easy. There is a lot of deception to remove, until there is absolutely nothing defined or concrete left, and then you can expand to infinity. It is not something simple, obvious, easy. It is a difficult achievement

I wouldn't say that this is enlightenment. What you mentioned could be the consequences of enlightenment but not enlightenment itself. It is to break totally the illusion of this life and become totally conscious of your true nature, that you are the unfathomable abyss that exists and realize how you are creating this moment and be aware of all it's depth . Then you see clearly through life and death, and you identify with existence. It is a specific mystical opening that if it occurs many times begins to be your natural state of being and your understanding of this experience deepens.

Ok, but you could say that if you have all meanings simultaneously, that doesn't mean nothing. Meaning is linear, limited, because for a meaning has meaning should exclude the other possible meanings

Yes , that works for the firsts breakings, without that it's very difficult, almost impossible I'd say. You really have to perceive the human existence as an horrible trap, an scam, and want to exit of it. Then, when you already broke the human many times you start to love the human, and then the real opening can happen

Nah it's not me, I like breaking walls to see what is reality without walls, not for the breaking itself . About bias, it's necessary for there to be separation, without it there is just unity, and since there can be separation, there is. Just for pleasure.

Not so sad because the message that yo have analyzed it very well in your post, it is still intact. It is incredible that it has lasted when almost no one has really understood it. is a message of enlightenment, of total surrender and truth. a message of openness, which has been transmitted by closed people. Not sad but funny, they didn't know what they was saying

You can't talk or think about god because talk or think is inside the dream and it's meaning, god has no meaning, it's in another frequency, impossible to think, that's why the game is not simple

Having a real awakening, in which you realize that you are the total depth that exists, and that this life is a mask that you wear, is not something that happens easily. People can say what they want, it is this, that the present, blah blah, they don't have the slightest idea of what they really are. The way to achieve it is with absolute honesty and with psychedelics, with 2 balls, without jokes, going to the bottom, completely disintegrating the mind again and again, until you are always at 1 mm to the breaking, then you open the reality often, and you start to live in the other side

Satan is the engine of movement, without it there is not evolution, just stillness. The imbalance, imperfection and suffering are needed to complete the cycles. The challenge for us is accepting this in the world and in ourselves, and love it as a positive thing. No fear for pain, suffering and misery since they are for the sake of the depth

The problem with this is that it is not something cultural, a complex or something that must be fixed, it is something real, genetic, intrinsic to man. Man is programmed to face challenges, to be courageous, and if he is not at the level he will always feel diminished, lacking something. Man today lacks these challenges, masculinity is not necessary anymore, and man feels irrelevant, a pet, a shit. And this is translated to the relationship with women, where the man must give himself, and he find that what he has to give is not enough , then the man dont give, want to take from the women , like a baby

without bias there is no form. any form has a total bias to be that form. If it were not so, it would immediately disappear. An electron wants to be an electron, and does not want to not be an electron, and so on, even a universe with trillions of galaxies. So the answer to why reality creates bias is because reality contains everything and for everything to emerge and be, it must exclude what is not it. God, as a creative cause, does not create the bias, it is the bias, but is more than the bias because it's more than creation, since creation is just illusion, same than bias. Under the form is the substance, the abyss that exists and has not form because it's everything.

In the Philippines there is a low level of development. The majority are Christians and are quite tolerant of sexuality, gays, lesbians and transsexuals. In the Muslim part they are extremely intolerant and violent.

That's the big problem of islam, that makes it a trap, something extremely toxic.

The dilemma of love and sex is a very son of a bitch genetic trap. Its goal is not to make you happy but to keep you moving. Reality doesn't want happy couples, it wants competition and drama. Every time I have been in a relationship I have seen that corrupt component and my option is: love and sex are separate things.

Statistics work in your favor, and also against you. If you approach hundreds of women, there will be a good chance of success, but the majority after, for example, 70 unsuccessful approaches will collapse, who could stand 700 fails without get depressed?

Maybe really is the heaven for the one who's being tortured, but seems a hell. It's just life getting deeper in itself, and this sometimes could be painful

Imagine that your cousin, King Ashurbanipal II, is jealous of you, and since he is a very son of a bitch, he orders that they put you in a box from which only your head comes out, and that they take you to the field. There they will force you to drink sour milk and your excrement will attract insects, which will begin to slowly devour you. The king's son of a bitch has told his guards that you must stay alive in this state for at least a full month, only to end up being completely devoured by the insects in that period. They will force you to eat and drink, then you could feel every second of that party. In the eternal cycles, much worse things will happen. Because they are inside of the unfathomable well that you, as existence, are. Yes, existence is paradise, but it has a price: the hell. Yin and yang. Creation and destruction.

Reality is what it is, and as is obvious, it is in perpetual motion. You can say that this movement is just appearance, but it is the same, it exists. On the one hand, the absolute is immutable because it contains all mutation, and on the other, you are the movement, the evolutionary cycle in which the absolute creates itself as relative. So, there is no escape, the game must be played, it does not allow passivity. It will restart again and again, for all eternity. can you perceive the absolute now? Behind the movement, the abyss of existence is immutable. but so what? the game goes on, we have to play it to the maximum

Why you assume that?