Breakingthewall

Super common when you don't know yourself enough in the sex facet. It means that the sex you were having was not fluid, you were not totally open, there was no real connection (the connection can happen with a woman with whom you have not even said hello), you did not feel totally yourself, so all that shit is camouflaged for the fact that you are horny, as if you were drugged, and the moment you cum, the drug disappears in a second, and the sad naked reality is left, and you just want to disappear.

Yes, it's absolutely simple, but the human mind hates it.The human mind is a construction within a finite cycle, nothing is more alien to it than the infinite. it needs an idea of purpose, a starting point and a destination, a movement in one direction. Absolute reality is nothing like that, in infinity there is no real movement, any movement is only apparent, so if you want to open yourself to the absolute you have to leave movement. the human mind says: wtf?? This is fucking shit, malfunction, I need to grab something, be someone, have a goal. Well, all that is relative, that is, ultimately an illusion. There is no real movement, since movement is by definition relative. one thing moves relative to another. At infinity, point x and point y don't matter, you can advance whatever you want, which is an imaginary advance, there is no advance, no movement, nothing.

Exactly, that's the absolute truth 😅

Are long relationship with sex involved something that is not a hell in any single case in the history? I'm not sure

What I meant is that ultimately, infinity is absolutely empty in the sense that it's impossible that god wants anything, like being an individual, or hidden anything. Could happen relatively, in a given moment in the infinity, but in the whole infinity no, there is no intention, no real change, no movement, just because it's infinite. Then, any perception that we could have, even it seems very true, is just relative, not false but not absolute. The absolute is just total, is the essence, only the essence is real, and it's nothing that can be defined, just totality, existence.

Let's say (sorry for the monologue) that meaning is a linear dimension, or better, seems a linear dimension but it's a circular dimension, because the cycle. Without change meaning is impossible because it needs a starting point and a destination, therefore it is limited. The cyclical structure of our existence causes the mind to create time and meaning, and cycles are inevitable. Reality creates forms because it cannot be static since it is not limited, and not being static is flow and that in an infinite paradigm is equivalent to a cycle. So everything is cycles within cycles, which, being infinite, do not go anywhere. an inevitable infinite dance, which borders on existential horror, but avoids it because the absence of limits places you outside of any judgment. It is a delicate maneuver to shift from the point of view of the temporal cycle with meaning and trajectory to what lies behind the cycle, to bottomless existence, to the infinite space where the cycle occurs, the existence. the cycle goes into the background and completely loses its meaning. It loses its density and becomes empty. So you are free, but what about that? If you have a toy in your hands, you are not going to waste it without using its possibilities.

Yeah, that's the only meaning. Existence exist. hallelujah

For me it's simple, there is no meaning. It's quite difficult to be without meaning, the human mind is meaning. Without meaning there is no time, the time is a creation of the human mind made of meaning. Change is meaning, change without meaning is unchanged, because it's always the same, for all the eternity, even it apparently changes. One feels like an orphan without meaning, so alone. Without meaning, the others doesn't exist, the others are meaning. Without meaning, the infinity opens, and you are absolutely free, but you can't grab the fuckin meaning, even it's so tempting, so cozy, so serious and solemn, like a mythical warrior, as severe as a monk, so important, so great, so necessary to follow a path. There is no path, there is no objective, there is no destination, everything is illusory. there is only beauty, and the beauty is simple, it's just empty existence. Everything else is just a game, nothing important, but let's play.

You can easily embody all the knowledge of the infinity, it's very simple: nothing means anything, existence exist, there are not limits. That's it. It may seem anticlimax, boring, lacking in salt, but no, it is absolute beauty

And where does monogamy fit into this? I would say more in the neurotic section

God is a weird word, limited. What's the meaning? An entity, a cause that produces an effect, a will that wants things, a mind that imagine. It's an idea that the human mind needs to feel safe. If you break all the limits, there is no God, no cause, not a center, just unlimited existence.

I'd say that there is guarantee that your mind is lying you in an absolute level, since any explanation of infinity is false by definition. It may be true at a local, relative, cause/effect level, but at an absolute level the only explanation of infinity is that it is infinite. That is, at an absolute level, saying that God creates limited experiences for a reason is like saying that Toyota cars break down rarely. It is something apparently true, on a relative level, but from an infinite point of view it means absolutely nothing. Then that God that does things could be a cosmic force, the universe, anything, but ultimately finite. Interesting, but not absolute.

The problem with relationships is that they are limiting because they are almost always going to be with someone who is limited, and that someone wants you to be limited. So in your life, in your reality, there is a limiting factor that reduces your sovereignty, and this is incompatible, or an hindrance ,with spiritual awakening. If you have a partner who is not limited or limits you at all, then there is no problem

Regarding levels of consciousness, it would be said that less is more. sadhguru knows many things and is aware of much, but a fetus creates itself from a subatomic level, coordinating infinite dimensions, being. everything sadhguru knows is a joke compared to what a leaf knows, which is the entire universe. sadhguru is the tip of the iceberg, a speck of dust is the entire iceberg. The human mind is an illusion, a pale reflection, it means nothing. There is only one level of consciousness, the total level, Anything else are illusions

Absolutely. Something incredible happened to me recently in that regard. In my mind there was a sadness, an anger and a reproach to life. Something extremely negative happened to me with my family, something that was always with me in the background, something that was part of me absolutely always. Suddenly, it disappeared. It went away. It is not there, it does not exist, it does not vibrate, it does not appear, it has disintegrated. I'm free from my fucking disgusting karma

@Javfly33 if you ask for advice, I would say: forget the women, go for the spiritual 100%, then, when it's done, and that's not so far, go for the women and fuck them all. Or find your soul mate, or anything that it's your destiny

Maybe you should reconsider what do you like.

I wish but no, I meant "you". Posses your soul as they where a demon 😅

@caspex focus in why it's important if the others are real of not. Where is the difference, who makes the difference, what is the difference. Is there any difference? Before thinking that the others aren't real, you though they were real. What changed? Just your thought about it. What exactly are your thoughts about it? Are them the reality? Or are just thoughts? Means something? Or only Shiva means something? If is Shiva that means something, forget your thoughts and realize Shiva again.

The thing is absolutely obvious: you are a man and you need sex with women. This does not mean that sex is something basic biological despicable thing that you do as a necessity, but rather that the connection, the liberation of your masculinity in contact with the feminine, the flow as a man, is something you need and that's it. congratulations, you are a healthy guy. Now comes the problem: no one is going to bring them to your house. Then the problem 2 arrives: women wants something, always. They want you 😅 So, the thing is a mess, but who said that should be easy?

A mind is something relative to its content. What is a mind without the things that imagine? What is imagining? An action to do something. What is an action ? The problem about realizing the absolute is exactly this, that is not relative, is total. Anything you define is not, it's just absolute expansion, the totality without limits. In the very moment that you add anything, it's relative. Something that is moving, doing anything, wanting, creating, dreaming, hidden, is relative to anything else, and therefore it's limited. Even something that love itself is relative to itself, the absolute is absolute, impossible to think or remember, it's where the thoughts happen, has no will because the will is relative to something and limited to something, can't change because any change is in comparison to anything else, then relative.

Not just anthropomorphism, it's a root issue. Here it is said: "you are god creating reality." absolutely wrong. God, so to speak, is the reality, and he is not creating or imagining or doing anything, for the unavoidable reason that it is total infinity. Anything you do, dream, imagine, is relative, is within the absolute. The absolute does not explore itself since if it did it would have an intention, and any intention is relative. The absolute is total, that's it, there is no more. Anything you say is relative, it is within the absolute. The god you speak of is relative, there may be a cosmic entity that creates dimensions, but it is finite, relative. It's the same as an ant from absolute pov.

Then the absolute is improving and doing things like exploring, because there is nothing else to do. All of that are relative things. The absolute can't improve, can't do nothing, can't be more than it is, because it's total. That's why it's so difficult to realize the absolute, because it's not relative 😅

that is wrong. Nobody deceives anyone, nobody wants to do things like live experiences, if someone wanted to do those things, they would be someone relative, because someone absolute does not want to do absolutely anything, since if he wanted to do things, he would be relative to those things he want to do.

Sure, but the point is realize the absolute. It's a very twisted thing, a weird process difficult to explain, difficult to understand, you have to sharp your mind as much as you can. For me nothing else is more interesting, not far.