Breakingthewall

I didn't say that, I said that in the past I searched a kind of "spiritually and intellectually compatible " that was not compatible with sex flow, then I had sex flow with who wasn't not compatible in that sense according to me in that moment, but now i see "spiritually compatible " in a very different way, much more intuitive. Nothing about whores and that

You have to open the experience to realize the absolute. You're supposed to be interested in spirituality, right? Why do you think there is an experience? what is its origin? What are you before there was experience? The absolute cannot be thought, you can be open to it, it is like opening a dimension in you that was closed. Why do you think they say that: the tao that can be said is not the true tao? Do you think they were stupid or were they acting interesting? There have been people who have realized the absolute at any time

There is existence beyond the experience, the experience is the manifestation of the absolute. The absolute is not an experience, that the difficult point. It's very difficult to understand , meditation is needed. The absolute is the source of experience, or where experience happens. The experience is the absolute reflecting in itself you seem a smart one

I respect everyone, I never would have sex with anyone I don't respect, that's sick shit Romantic sexual relationship is something genetically encoded whose purpose is reproduction. That white thing that comes out of the dick is for that 😅. Everything else, attraction, communication, the bonds that are established, are adaptations of the psyche to the given vital moment, modifications of the same pattern: the reproductive impulse. When you fuck with someone, even if you use a condom, all your pleasure, communication, sensations are aimed at reproduction. Another thing is that you are not aware of it. The more conscious you are, the more carefully you choose your partner. The last time I had casual sex with someone who didn't really fit what I'm looking for, I couldn't sleep for two nights. A few years ago, sometimes I would go to parties with some people and fuck with 3 girls in one night without even knowing their names, and I would leave there absolutely happy. Now it would seem unthinkable to me like a dirty sick shit that creates horrible karma.

Something similar has happened to me, with women with whom sex flowed perfectly, on an intellectual and spiritual level, something was missing. Over time I realized that the one who was missing something was me, my masculinity wasn't complete, I was looking for a type of relationship, friendship, complicity, that is not compatible with the romantic sexual relationship man/woman. Perhaps this sounds sexist but for the romantic sexual relationship to work, the man must be complete and assume his role as a man, that is, not look for a partner/accomplice/mother/friend in the woman to take care of him and you care of her, but rather a female to whom than honor her femininity by making love her with the intention/possibility of making her a son and with the intention and capacity of being strong, whole, solid and never weak. I mean, your sexual romantic partner is not your friend, it's different type of relationship. It's a selfish relationship in the two sides with the purpose of making a family, starting a clan, continue your genetic line. Then it's a shit 🤣😅 but it's what it is. Kinda old times, that's why they invented something so horrible than the marriage. But if you are very lucky, who knows, maybe you find one and your souls merge and be one, thats beautiful, at least for some time Then the question would be: do you want that game, or not? Not simple game imo

we need serious people with whom we can discuss enlightenment, or perhaps the topic is exhausted? I don't think so. It's just starting.

The whole issue of spirituality is to increase the identification, perception, of your essence and decrease the identification with your circumstance. At a certain point you may realize that the difference between you, Hitler and a fish is merely circumstantial, you are essentially the same. So you realize that your essence is immortal, and your circumstance has a relative importance that becomes zero when you are dead, but your absolute essence is reality itself, and remains immutable. If you are totally identified with your circumstance, as it's usual, this sounds weird and impossible, but if you are not so , sounds more normal and real. The spiritual work is moving yourself to that direction until you are one with the absolute and the circumstance is irrelevant (not my case ofc)

I never call clown to Ramana maharshi, neither leo , I'm using his forum so I'm thankful, and that Adams I don't know who is him. What I mean by openness to the absolute is that what we really are is the absolute, but the absolute is not an experience, it is the nature of reality itself, the existence. Experience is the absolute reflecting on itself infinitely, and this reflection veils the true nature of reality, you perceive yourself as the experience, not the nature of the experience. Opening the experience means accessing a dimension that is hidden by the movement, the absolute dimension or the nature of reality. It is hidden by yourself, by experience, apparent movement. To open the apparent movement you must stop it as much as possible, go deeper into yourself, then your true nature begins to manifest, it shines through the experience more and more, this is opening yourself to your essential nature.

I never said that but anyone knows that enlightenment is open yourself to the absolute, that is the nature of reality.

Good to read that from someone who's really in the path and not playing

Anyone reading these conversations will think this is a schizophrenic forum. If he believes that you are imaginary, why does he want to convince you that he is imaginary? Does this make any sense? Furthermore, enlightenment is not knowing that others are imaginary, it is opening yourself to the authentic nature of reality.

And that experience made you realizing that it's impossible to be experience out of your experience? Why? And why that is important?

It must be taken into account here that the only reason why people think that it is impossible for experience to exist outside your field of consciousness is because a YouTube guy has said it with great confidence, stating before that he has a direct line to God, like Muhammad. People are mentally weak, and gullible, so they believe these dogmas of faith and build their mental structure around them

Well, as I see, The mind is the reflection of the absolute in itself, not the absolute. The absolute is nothing, as james say, but it's everything, because it's the total potential. You can't perceive the absolute, you can be open to it, that is , open to yourself. Perception is in the absolute, is the reflection. But anyway, Im sorry for being idiot saying that of you are not awake , etx . We seem arrogant retarded saying those things (I use to be, I can't avoid the arrogant preach, sound so messianic, I love it🤣). This is very personal, the best is explain ourselves and maybe someone could resonate and share the same vision

In fact, the absolute is not a void, is not infinite, unfathomable, spacious, enormous, smart, or anything. The absolute is impossible to think, impossible to define, but is absolutely you. It's nothing and everything same time, because it's not dimensional, but all the dimensions happen in it. You, the experience, are a dimension. Understanding is a dimension, there are infinite dimensions. No one can define of encompass the absolute, because are arising that happens in it. Why do you think that they say: the tao that can be talking is not the real tao, and bla blah? Because they are dumb? They knew what they were talking about. Open yourself is overcome the experience. You are talking of the experience, all that about solipsism is experience, is the useless trial of define the reality with a sistem that arises in the reality. It's completely imposible

Ok, sorry for what I said. Do you want words? Let's see if you or anyone can follow me (I'm humble I know) Well, the point here is "mind". That's the problem. In Leo's ideosyncrasy, reality is a mind because he identifies himself as a mind and therefore reality is an infinite mind and the things that appear in that mind are thoughts in the mind, and therefore not real, are "only" thoughts. Well, this is not like that. For anything to appear there must be duality, and any duality is the absolute reflecting on itself. It is impossible for it to be anything else because only the absolute exists. So, for a thought to appear, the absolute must be looking at itself, this means that a thought or a stone or the universe are equally real, because they are all the absolute reflecting on itself. Consciousness is the fact that the absolute is reflected in itself. So you, what you perceive as you, are not a mind nor are you the absolute, you are a reflection, nothing more. you are the reflection. awakening is opening the reflection and realizing that you are not really the experience, you are not "mind", you are the absolute, and this is not definable or thoughtful. It's not happening, it's not conciousness, it's not a mind. Then, when you say: only me exist and others are imaginary, you don't understand that imaginary means nothing, everything that appears is a reflection, and it's created by infinite other reflections. What you are as an experience, this reflection, is one between infinite others. What you are as absolute is always the same absolute, the reality, the totality, but this is not an experience, it's not happening and it's not possible to understand, because understanding happens in it, understanding is a movement, a reflection, an experience . The only thing that you can do is open yourself, the experience, and let the absolute manifests. That's all, and this is enlightenment

Maybe you are right, but chatgpt is more accurate in spirituality than 99,99% of people if you ask correctly

Conciousness isn't one because conciousness isn't something. Conciousness has not absolute meaning, just relative meaning. It's the fact of being concious of something, then needs a subject and an object. Conciousness is the reflection of the absolute in itself, then it's not "one", it's multiple, infinite, because it's a fact, not a thing, something that happens, not something that is. Could you see the difference? Then this happening is not one, because any happening in absence of limitations happens infinite times

It's because you don't understand what awakening is. For you is a kind of realization that you are god , that happened to you after listening a video where leo explained that you are god. Believe me, you can't even imagine the path that you have to walk, you didn't even started! It's so obvious to me. But you can't understand me, then, I'm not going to tell you more things directly.

Exactly, and more than that, if you cut the trousers, you don't want to stitch them, you want to be naked, not dressed with a modified trousers. For me it's astonishing who's possible that here, in a spirituality forum, nobody understands what spirituality is about. All people want to have a spiritual trousers, and no, you have to be naked. Naked means absolutely open. In the absolute openess the absolute reality manifests, but here people want to "know" the absolute reality

How to explain you that this is a differentiation that happens in the conceptual mind and that has meaning only in the dimension of the conceptual mind? Awakening is out of any dimension, is where dimension happen. A lot of meditation is needed to start understanding what is the conceptual mind.

No, its the openess to the absolute glory of existing.

Fired due low quality! Hehe. We need more effort here, do our best, push in the direction of enlightenment, nor just "I'm sooooo special" 😉😉

@James123 in my playlist now, thanks for sharing

You didn't create nothing, the creative power of existence is not you, is the absolute reflecting in itself infinitely, it's a unleashed power, existence without limits that Express itself in all possible ways, that are infinite. There is not control or intention, just positive impulse to be. You, the individual ,just can align yourself with the power and flow. There is only one reason: existing, and it's inevitable . As much the individual could be trascended and the absolute realized, less resistance, more freedom in the flow, because everything that exists is the absolute, and the absolute is glory of being