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@Thought Art It's all about your attitude and how you carry yourself.

One time I asked him why he doesn't like dating older girls, or girls his age, he said something along the lines of "Well they already established certain way of thinking and nothing can be changed about it". ? And I knew right there that sounded wrong. Why would he want to "make" someone change their opinions to suit his? And why is it bad that someone has established way of thinking? Why do you need someone to think exactly like you all the time? That's controlling. Such a mess.

I just now randomly remembered how my ex most of the time tried to convince me to think the way he thinks and whenever I had different views on certain things, instead of respecting our difference in opinion and my thoughts, he would always try to argue how his POV is one and the only truth. Would always say "You're not right". My god. I just now realize more and more how unhealthy that dynamic was. Who is he to impose on me his opinions on things? I am my own person, he is his own. Of course people in relationships won't always agree on everything, but he was literally trying to make me think exactly like him on every aspect of life. And whenever I would think differently, he would almost shame me for it and make me feel like I'm stupid (that's how I felt) because he was very good at debates (he learnt that for some kind of course before) and also I thought he was smarter because he was much older. Bs. I went out for pancakes with new girl I met in organization and when I was briefly explaining my situation with my ex, she said herself that he sounds immature. And I didn't even make her say that, she obviously concluded that based on the story I was telling her. So that says a lot. I'm just now glad that I know what I (don't) want. ✅ I want someone who respects my individuality and difference in opinion. I want someone who will not try to control how I think. ✅ I want someone who shares similar values with me in life and who is open-minded and allows me to express my authentic self. Someone who will let me be me without controlling me in any way. Someone who won't impose his views on me and pressure me to adopt his way of thinking.

@LostStudent just do what you feel like and don't stress over it. If you feel like masturbating, do so, nothing bad will happen. It is only bad if you think of it that way.

@Federico del pueblo hey thanks a bunch for taking your time to write all those recommendations ? appreciate it a lot! ❤️

@Ananta wow, what a story. I think I have also had success in other aspects of my life where I ignored something and it went away. I don't know how smart it is though. It's very risky to do that. I think in some cases you can do it and it becomes success, but in other cases it can lead to nasty things. I mean people have been saying for years that you cannot sweep your problems under the rug because it will come and bite you sooner or later. So I don't know. I don't know when one would use this method and when not.

This is how I envision future medical health care system. But this is the right way to go about it. I don't know do doctors know that for autoimmunity, curing symptoms is not enough. There's a root that should be identified and cured. ???

Yes but also it's because traditional doctor operates from scientific paradigm and uses tools that have been proven to work by scientific community, nothing outside of that. But medicine is far more broad than that. I think it even goes so far into an unknown field that cannot be measured by numbers or any other scientific tools.

Wow, that's inspirational. This just shows that onr has to be absolutely dedicated to understand what's going on with their body, be attuned with it and listen to it. I just get discouraged because there really are SO many factors. So many that I don't onow if you can be aware of all of them. Sometimes they are hidden, but could make a big difference if only you removed it. Oh absolutely. This is very important to know, not to waste money on people thay don't know whay they're talking about or have some other bad motive, thanks for pointing it out.

So by his interpretation, what is he suggesting then to do about it? Because body attacks that "virus", but it seems like body itself actually suffers. Does he present a solution?

I've heard of him. Though I didn't know Wim Hof method could actually positively affect the condition. They could like literally cure it? But yeah it feels true what you say about breathing and realigning with God, therefore healing occurs. This is why some people say that when you're feeling bad, it's because you're disconnected with God.

Could you think of some book/document where I can find such stories, based on true story ofc? Yeah they are very good at curing something that can be seen, or conditions that are monocausal (injuries, operations etc). But I have a deep intuition that medicine and human health is far more broad than that, sometimes even going into unexplainable field. Sometimes we can hear almost magical phenomenon happening, like placebo effect for example. There's just too many factors playing their role and affecting human health. If traditional medicine says something is incurable, it's because they use very limited (non-holistic) knowledge they acquired in medical school that is based within scientific paradigm. They surely don't teach things that are unexplainable by the science. They view it as a coincidence.

Omg

@Leo Gura low quality post ?

It sounds like LOA thing. I will definitely daydream more about things I want. If anything, for the reason that it feels good. Have you done this and received/experienced what you want?

Instant turn off lol Relationship. I invent new abbrevations

How are you not in rs by now?

I also had an interesting dream I didn't want to wake up from recently lol. It was very... Interesting. This dream involved passion and desire and sex. All I remember is that I felt deeply desired and craved for, which of course deeply flattered me lol. Wish I can have this dreams become reality. Felt pretty good.

My god... A guy that is in my team treated me like a princess some days days ago (Wednesday I think it was). He subtly would put his hand on my shoulder or somewhere near me... He also at one point pulled me towards him and started caressing me gently. I think he meant it to be "pal" like. And when our meeting was done, he helped put my jacket on and even help adjust my hair after that lol. He was just too sweet. Is a real gentleman ovarall, I am freaking impressed.

@Raptorsin7 ?

@Raptorsin7 You're comparing two totally different things. Masturbating and watching porn is not harmul to your body. You can't become ill from it, whereas you can die from overly consuming drugs...

@Raptorsin7 those things are only bad/harmful if you make them so.

@Roy She obviously thought she was secure and "cool" about it, but in the end realized she is not. Continue doing and watching what you were warching, I guess that's normal and natural, just make sure that she doesn't have a reason to doubt yout love and devotion for her. All she cares about is that you absolutely adore her physically and as a person. When girls get angry and insecure about their bfs watching porn, most of the time it's because they doubt their love for them. They interpret it like by you watching porn it means that you have lost attraction/love for her so you're doing these kind of things. We just like to get assured over and over again that we're desired by you.

@Federico del pueblo I have diligently studied and analyzed every fap post out of 103628194 of them and now I'm writing a book regarding this important subject that every guy needs to read - Interconnection between enlightenment and fapping (limited edition). ?

Yes, I have made it my morning routine, apart from skin care. ???