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It’s not about getting her the best kind - it’s about listening to her and what she wants. I personally don’t even think she should be asking anything before you are actually her husband. It’s just that particular example with a bd present - I let they guy know what I want when and IF I get asked, it’s not like I come at him myself out of nowhere “heyyy my bd is coming up this is what I want, take notes”.

@Federico del pueblo birthday are just easy opportunities (out of many) to express your love for someone, to make her feel loved and special.. it could be perfume it could a dress it could be whatever, who cares. What’s important and that the message is being relayed to her that you love her by giving her/doing something that she WANTS, just for her, without you trying to derive any sort of benefit from it for yourself (like you with your dildo). That would require for you to understand female psychology in order to see why small shit like this matters. Which you don’t but I hope you do learn one day, I don’t want you to be one of those guys who get blindsided by a breakup/divorce, completely shocked that she leaves because he thought “they were happy together” lol Just like saying things like “I love you” to her on a regular basis (I know lots of men are oblivious to how important this is because in their logical mind it’s obvious that they love her why tf repeating the same shit over and over again (they are with her after all aren’t they and if something changes she would be the first one to find out) yet doesn’t work quite the same way for females - we need to hear it. what else. Oh. Dating/courtship, that’s actually how I’m screening for men, by observing if he’s listening to my needs, my wants, and doing things for me “just for me”. This one dude has been giving me gifts etc. but guess what he doesn’t fucking listen, when I mention what type of chocolate I like to eat, for example, the next time we hang out he brings me the kind that I don’t like (because he works at a place where he can get chocolate for free) so instead of going and spending money to buy things that I like he’s just giving me that garbage… And I register things like that, and the more instances like this I register the less I want to be around someone like that..

@Federico del pueblo sad. “Hollywood programming”.. There is also called something called wanting to do something nice for the person you love. I guess it takes knowing what being in love means in order to relate to what I’m saying. Also not exploring the context of one exploiting the other - if the bitch is dropping shopping lists trying to use you for money, that’s something very different. Also come talk to me about how money is not important when you have a family/children that are hungry and someone needs to feed them

I guess she’s gonna have to buy that perfume that she wants on her bd herself then.

Lol why? You would hate your gf so much that you wouldn’t want to make her happy on her bd? Lol or you’re bothered by the fact that she is being specific in terms of what she wants? You’d rather try and “surprise” her hoping you would guess what she wants (and fail, of course)?

Definitely cut

@Leo Gura Imagine your gf’s bd is coming up and she told you what type of perfume she would like, sent you the info with picture of that specific kind etc. You go to the store to buy it and see that there’s another one on sale 50% off - same brand but different kind, smell kinda similar though - what would you do? Get her the one that she wants, or the one that’s one sale?

Report her to her psychiatrist, tell them her condition is worsening and she needs reassessment due to getting more violent and that you no longer feel safe being around her. That might get her institutionalized

Oooh looks like someone’s got a sense of humor ; ) Very nice

I didn’t - the passion always just takes me lol I’ll be sure to let you know if that ever happens. so you can be my first client

I’m really starting to have regrets that I never got into pornography especially this whole findom bdsm etc type shit. I have a feeling that I would have been pulling some serious cash from it - I really know how to humiliate someone. fuck lol

@Loba ….. that’s so fucked. Okay yes this is it/this is clicking with me, thank you so much! I’m sure it won’t help control the hair from raising up on the back of my head every time she says something stupid lol but switching the frame should definitely have the aggression dissipate much faster and easier, thank you!

I’m a female. It’s a new semester and there’s this other new female in my class who’s acting provocative - dressing up slutty/showing off her skin,legs, takes up class time by asking semi-irrelevant questions and giving lengthy answers to the Professor while playing with her hair. I have a feeling the bitch has a crush on him, I can just tell. My question is how can I ask her politely and without getting in trouble to shut the fuck up during lectures? Is it a legal/appropriate practice in the US colleges to ask another student to not ask questions during lectures? I don’t want her to complain on me, at the same time it really is affecting the quality of my studying - every time she engages with him I just want to throw her out of the window, so I’m losing focus and have to calm down and ending up missing following the lecture material that’s being presented.

At this moment she hasn’t shown herself to be someone that I would want to associate with so no.

@Etherial Cat What is THAT? Haha Thank you for trying to help but it really has nothing to do with envy and/or trauma The classmate is just an annoyance that I am hoping will go away soon - when the material starts getting too advanced for her to continue playing with it.

Many good input here, thank you. It really has more to do with what @Etherial Cat said about “and unproper use of sexual energy, which "cheapens" the collective power of the group”. The classmate definitely realized she has some “powers” but she hasn’t learned how to harness them yet. She doesn’t have integrity, and life has taught me that it’s something you either have or you don’t. This is the type that will be willing to sleep her way through to the up and if/when things don’t play out well will bitch and moan about how men in power tried to take advantage of her, fuck her, rape her, abuse her etc. Reminds me of that famous quote about how things that you owe end up owing you. And yes, I do have violent temper I don’t know if that’s something I can change or work on. My theory is that as long as I don’t physically harm anyone I’m good to go lol It’s just genetic/ I have inherited my father’s character and it seems like undoing it/rewiring the entire personality will be more work than the output/profit from it so I just don’t think it’s worth bothering trying to change. In terms of this particular case - the bitch is stealing my time by taking away from the professor’s attention, if she wants to suck him off she has to not use shared time to advance her purposes but do it on her own free after class time. She is being rude and inconsiderate of others.

@Bando I don’t feel comfortable telling him what to do but I might do some eye-rolls to send him an indirect non-verbal cue that I’m not happy idk I can rephrase I don’t mind - what do you want the title to be?

@Preety_India xoxoxo sending you love ❤️

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“Great” advice! what are you trying to do - insinuate a catfight? Lol Technically, he is mine - my Professor, had him before in other classes

@AuroraDream I was hoping to find a way to handle this without getting him involved but it’s an option! Thank you @Terell Kirby @Thestarguitarist14 no crush @Hardkill There are certain standards for academic setting. @something_else I can definitely relate to that, in a way pandemic has been a blessing because when you’re on Zoom with them all you had to do was press a mute button;)

Darkthrone /about recording the album:

Did you complete writing the paper? It is an interesting subject. Linking NSBM as I believe this type of content is worth investigating and can offer deep insight into how music can not only influence political views of its listeners but radicalize masses. It is also probably the most graphic representation of music gone political.

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Was it this guy who said that if you’ve come to my show you deserve to get beaten or raped? Lol Wondering how many people in his audience even knew that he had AIDS when he would throw his blood on them. Rare freak