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@Javfly33 Wow, you got it. Yeah, social anxiety is basically a refusal of the psyche to get real. Pain happens when there is connection. When there’s no connection, there’s no pain but there is anxiety.

Testosterone is a non issue. It means far less than you or pretty much anyone else thinks. Sensitivity to it can vary anyway, so even if it did matter, the actual concentration in your blood wouldn’t tell the whole story. Over 900-1000 ng/dL is going to lead to much faster hair loss anyway, even if you block DHT conversion — because while DHT strongly induces miniaturization of hair follicles, so does testosterone, just to a slightly lesser degree. If one has low T, then they probably should have low T given their lifestyle — if you’re doing regular intense exercise, your testosterone will slowly increase to the level needed for optimal health. It might take months or it might take years, but it will be fine in the meantime even if it’s somewhat low. If it’s low, it’s often because you haven’t given your body a reason to need it in higher amounts. I would say, if it’s low, then have good sleep and exercise and diet and stress management, but that would be misleading because it would sound like I’m saying higher testosterone is better, which it isn’t necessarily. Ignore testosterone 99.9% of the time. Just train your mind and body hard, and treat it well. After all, its effect on libido is only mild as long as it’s not super low (like <300 ng/dL), and its effect on muscle mass is even smaller — perhaps the most notable effects are that it increases sensitivity to adrenaline, and thins out the hair. The only time testosterone and androgens are truly significant, for muscle mass in particular, are when one is either 1. not exercising, or 2. taking anabolic steroids (which can destroy you inside and out).

Most of it is toxic. Not all of it. Consume the info with both a skeptical and open mind. However… you better pray you have the intelligence to separate the wheat from the chaff — And to be honest, most people absolutely can’t do that. I’ll give y’all a hint: Todd V may seem like a good source. He ain’t one. If you’ve fallen for that, you have a lot of work to do.

Didn’t have to even watch the video. It’s either good or it’s not. But if it’s good he will be doing a few things: 1. Speaking with no filter. 2. Thinking he is awesome. 3. Pushing things forward (closing) with either physicality or number.

The thing is, death is ever-present. You never actually left it, so how can you return to it? Also, if we just think about it logically: to know what happens after death, certainly one way to accomplish that would simply be to know what always is. However, just like how a joke becomes less funny the more it’s explained, the more what always is is described, the further it is obscured. How could one describe everything? — there’s nothing that's not it. Though what always is is actually simply what is.

And you know how after you successfully share an awesome sexual experience with a girl, you kind of think “wow I did well there...” ?? Well, if a woman thinks you’re awesome, and shares an awesome sexual experience with you on her end as well, she will think exactly the same sort of thing — “wow I did well there...” What can really help your game is understanding that you're sort of becoming a better male sex object for the female gaze, just like they’re a female sex object for the male gaze. Realizing this is what’s happening results in a more mindful and congruent view, and women want to see you right down to your view. They want to know that you know that you’re a male sex object for the her, the female gaze, and that she’s a female sex object for you, the male gaze. This is one of the subconscious fantasies they often seem to have.

Yeah that’s why I’m telling you. I feel like many guys are just going to give up and think they’re failures when they think 15-20:1 is awful when actually that’s not that bad, and it’s never going to get better than 10:1 no matter what you do (for cold approach), unless like many guys you basically only go for a sure thing in your friend group etc where it’ll be a way better ratio than that, sometimes nearly 100%. No guy is every girl’s type, and not every girl is trying to have sex right now. That’s why being immune to rejection is important — by its nature, game is mostly rejection, so once you realize that, you can get on with getting experienced.

Whatever dies is born. Whatever doesn’t die always was.

Emptiness and Love (which he calls agape), and freedom from suffering (happiness as a permanent state — which is nothing like fleeting happiness, which is wantable, as permanent happiness can’t be desired if one knows what it is).

This is true, however, women still expect a guy to be very smooth and lead them to a sexual encounter with minimal discomfort and anti slut defense. They will be most affected by those types of guys. But yes you should be very suggestive with those types of girls from the very beginning (hand on lower back sometimes within 10 seconds of meeting for the first time) — using sexualizing speech and jokes too. You still want to be smooth even with women who are only looking for sex (though even then, they’re still hoping they’ll eventually find a long term partner).

@Javfly33 If you know girls ahead of time as in they’re from your friend group, it can suffice to only talk to a few at a time, but one thing you have to realize about cold approach is that even if you do everything perfectly, the phone number to sex conversion ratio is going to be 10 to 1 at best. It’s much better if they’re already in your social circle. So cold approach is a numbers game. Never expect it to actually work out with any one particular girl — of course in the moment you want to assume attraction (and assume that everything you are doing is awesome), just don’t be surprised when it doesn’t work out, because again the number to close ratio is going to be no better than 10:1.

@Javfly33 Yeah they generally aren’t going to be invested until sex happens (unless they’re really crushing on you and think you’re above their league). But after it does, there is usually way, way more investment. Especially if it was really good. And even if sex doesn’t happen, IF the foreplay was good, it will probably still be on — unless it got all the way to getting naked or either person touching either genitals bare-handed/skin-on-skin (either their self or the other) and sex/penetration still did not happen before you two parted ways, then the girl will often feel like a slut if she were to see you again and so she just won’t see you again.

You brush twice a day and floss once a day even if you’re fasting. Rain or fucking shine.

One who 1. Loves 2. Protects 3. Is strong (there are as many ways to be strong as there are people)

Exactly. Great way to put it. Sorry for the multi posts, I’m on mobile and it’s preposterously harder to respond to multiple users in one post.

A hard no is any actual no whatsoever. Any no other than a joking no perhaps (not very common to begin with). Though of course you get “no not yet” which is to be expected if one sufficiently understands women at the level of casual sex, but some (few) guys hardly even get much “no not yet” if they’re good looking or just kind of laid back or charismatic to begin with and extremely confident and aware of their ability to give the girl probably the best sex she ever will have (so he could kind of just take it or leave it anyway), and able to treat these women as equals (or at least not as above them somehow) and preferably with respect and a conviction that the best way for a woman to grow spiritually and emotionally is with the guy in question.

Exactly.

Yeah it’s kind of like playing them like an accordion and hitting the wrong note. (that was a joke) It’s generally a bad idea to think of it in such a way but still that’s definitely fitting in a sense. (Not that you’re ”playing” anyone. The point is not to play them but to just play and surrender all seriousness.) There’s a finite margin of error, is all. You see, this is why it’s so important to speak with no filter. Attraction switches in both women and men can get flipped both on or off very easily, and women in particular can sense fakeness really, really well.

Didn’t say he specifically had to regardless of his specific goals, it’s just if he wants to have the highest change of bringing a particular woman (who is behaving like the woman he describes) into his life. He can just find another woman, of course. And of course it doesn’t always work that way. Just giving my two cents for this particular, unique but also commonplace, situation. And, women are often expecting the guy to want sex no matter what (I’m not saying that’s a true belief), so if the woman wants it faster than the guy, she can perceive that as the guy being reserved with his true desires (self explanatory why that could be a turn off, but it can also seem kinda chickenshit and not representative of her once-building fantasy of “super awesome guy” anymore).

You kind of have to lead. If she’s willing to have sex faster than you then you have to push forward, otherwise they will sense reservation/hesitation in you.

Game really is a bit of a spiritual / law of attraction sort of endeavor. The reason for this is how perceptive women are. They see through all your words right down to your mindset. Luckily this makes things simple, but also hard because mindset isn’t easy to change and requires facing your fears. You need to speak with no filter, which takes balls. If you don’t do this, she will perceive that you are monitoring what you say and this signals to her that you’re not good enough for her on your own, you’re having to “use tricks.”

Well it requires two hands so it’d be a two-piece set. Too many moving parts ?

Get better at it. Two fingers for g spot (up and down rapidly in pussy), other hand’s thumb for clit. At the same time. Then after 5-30 seconds, just look at her orgasm.

Yes. Flip the script. Seek strength and integrity rather than pleasure. Simple. Difficult, but solid. In other words, fully authenticate.

Anavar is an anabolic steroid. This will result in torture for the user eventually because they were too weak to get the results on their own and when you go off it you lose all the results. And it’s quite physically unhealthy and ages you quickly. So it becomes just like an addiction to any other harmful drug, albeit with far less fun. More importantly, it will make it completely impossible to actually learn how to train (which is nearly impossible to realize unless you’ve actually been natural for years and successfully built plenty of mass), and so their advice will be dogshit. Steroid use is a cancer, and a trap. other yt sources for natural bodybuilding: bald Omni man Basement bodybuilding steve shaw