Tim R

@Someone here No it doesn't and no it isn't

@StateOfMind That's right! No Eminem allowed for people on this forum!!

Very nice video. I never thought about reassurance, but I guess it's true - it is among the most important elements of a happy life. It's hope. I's connection, it's calmness, it's help, it's really what we want. I don't know how many of you live completely alone, but I do and this video got me thinking. It can be very difficult for me to reassure myself that things are alright and that I'm alright, too. Because there's no one around to do that for me and although I know that all authority comes from within me, it's nice to have someone around to guide you, or at least to remind you of the essential things on the way. After all, it is doubt that drives spirituality and the desire to find out the truth. So someone who doubts reality to very intense degrees must know how to reassure him/herself, otherwise one gets lost. What are your techniques? How do you deal with feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? How do you reassure yourself?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ʻOumuamua Oumuamua is the first interstellar object passing through the solar system and because it's so weird, some people think this might be extraterrestrial technology. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXxcqpoNJKk Who knows what 2021 holds. Maybe we'll find out that we're not alone.

Ahh I love this kinda stuff. Great hippie music

@Potato People King Do you have a link?

This is one of the most powerful movies I have ever seen. I couldn't find a thread where this movie was discussed, so... here it is. I also found it to be of great value for people who are transitioning from Orange to Green. The cruelty towards animals on our planet is absolutely beyond any possible verbal description. In a materialistic and rationalistic worldview that honors neither consciousness nor individual experience, we deny animals both. This leads to absolutely unimaginable amounts of suffering, created by our ignorance and unwillingness to see the world as a part of us, not apart from us. Although most people in the west seem to understand on a conceptual level that we human beings are also animals, we don't feel ourselves to be part of the great family of life on this planet. Our unrestrained rational intellect inflates our human hubris until we run amok - torturing, poisoning and killing billions upon billions of beings that we regard as inferior to us. Out of all the animals whom we deny consciousness - it is us, who have the least of it.

@StateOfMind Do you mean "can awakening be understood like one would understand thoughts?" Or how exactly?

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That's it! You can't control them. That's your ticket for being able to let go. And as I said, acceptance is the key. Because acceptance = letting go

hahaha @Kalki Avatar why have you not decided to grow 30 fingers?

@Vision You're the one who raises the problem. There's no problem at all. Everything is the way it is, and it doesn't matter what you think about it. The clouds stay white and grey, the birds will keep chirping, trees keep growing, people will come and go and everything simply is. Everything is the way it always was, whether you "understand" or not. And there's no problem at all. So don't worry, it's alright. If you get busy, I promise that you'll simply forget about solipsism without even trying to do so. And one day you'll say yourself "hm... there was no problem after all I guess." And you'll chuckle and keep doing whatever you were doing, just like the birds.

By realizing that it doesn't serve you, at all. And furthermore, it makes no difference. Why would you hold on to something that isn't of any interest to you? Like the clouds being white; so what? Things are the way they are, why would anybody care about that? You're simply overthinking sh*t pal, there's really nothing to worry about, I promise You don't see me running around all worked up about that, I just don't care about it. And neither should you.

WHO CARES?! Screw it, what difference does it make?? You're like somebody who worries about the clouds being white, who gives a s*it? Yes, I am real. I'm sitting here at my desk in Germany and I'm trying to calm you down ffs, now if you would please get on with life and drop this whole thing? Of course from my perspective everyone is like in a dream, but why on earth would I care about it? It doesn't make the slightest difference, jesus

Go do that. Drop everything that doesn't serve you and move on. Remember, you can come back whenever you want. There's no hurry in this work, it won't run away Life goes on regardless of whether you worry about the metaphysics of it or not.

@Vision That's because you care. You pay attention to it. Get busy, do something. The reason why solipsism drives you bananas is because you focus on it, that's it. It really is that simple. It's exactly the same like with paying attention to your blinking. Once you care about your blinking, you are hung up on it and you can't not see it anymore. Just don't care about it, get busy and you're mind will take care of it automatically.

You know, sometimes I realize how absolutely nuts we must seem to "ordinary" people. I mean, we're of course also ordinary people, but we have settled into an epistemological and ontological niche so far away from "normal" Joe Schmoe -mind and -consciousness that if we were to talk about some of the things that we talk about here with normal folk, we would immediately be regarded as complete and utter screwballs who must've escaped the boobie hatch. How have you guys dealt with this? How are you handling it? I sometimes just forget that people who aren't interested in reality and truth etc. see the world in a radically different light, and I tend to forget how it was for me. I really love it to get lost in this philosophical rabbit hole that we all know and when I talk to people about the things that I think about or which I understood, I really forget that what I am saying to them must sound completely messed up. Even if it's metaphors that are quite easy to stomach like "well you're like a wave in the ocean" or whatever, most people already think that you've lost it. For god sake they think you're woo-woo when you say "money isn't actually real". Not to think about how it must sound like when you really go deeper with these topics "time is an illusion, you're God aka infinite nothingness and oh btw, existence is love, also, did you know that reality is your mind? The mushrooms revealed my shadow to me and btw there's this toad when you smoke its venom you realize you're God. Ever heard about 4-dimensional elves in the dimethyltryptamine-realm that make you sing objects into existence?" or stuff like that. Complete lunacy But we tend to take these sorts of things for granted to some degree, I think. What do you think? I'm not really concerned that people might think that I'm "crazy", that's not the point, but I'd like to know how you remind yourself that they see reality different? Don't you have the desire to share these amazing things with them? Even if it means that they might reject you?

Lol and I came here to see how Leo would solace you haha

Enlightenment isn't feeling nothing and becoming completely stoic and emotionally immovable. You can still be sad or worried or whatever, but you're not attached to these things anymore. In fact, you can feel your sadness or your joy much richer, but without being consumed by them.

Your neighbors' dog.

You say you've accepted them, and yet you still want to get rid of them. So you haven't accepted them, not really. It's not the thoughts that pose the problem, but the way one relates to the thoughts. To try to get rid of or resolve/dissolve your thoughts will not work, because every attempt to do so will simply direct your attention to the very thing that you're trying to get rid of and thereby create a vicious circle. It's exactly like saying "this medicine will only work if you don't think of a green elephant while you take it". So, acceptance is the only way out. But it can be a very difficult thing to accept these thoughts, because your attempt to accept them is done in a spirit of non-acceptance, you see? You have to try to accept that, too. And if that doesn't quite work the way you want, this must be accepted too. Then, what might happen is this: In your attempt to accept something that you can't really accept, you might get to a point of complete frustration. And at this point, there is the opportunity to drop the whole thing - and then you have truly accepted and therefore solved the problem. You remind me very much of a good friend of mine and he is in exactly the same situation as you. It's possible to get out of this, don't forget that.

No, because then you're not aware of the living room itself, but only of the camera. And the camera isn't the living room. This I think ties up nicely with what @Someone here says: yes and no. @BipolarGrowth What this means is the following: you assume that your bedroom is something different from your living room. Which isn't the case No matter where you are, you are always the same place where you are In other words, the distinction between being and non-being (bedroom and living room) doesn't actually exist - therefore your living room exists, because it's the same place as your bedroom. Because no matter where you are, your always the same place. Show me the difference between your bedroom and living room.

I don't see how anything could exist "outside" consciousness. Because whatever "proof" one would come up with to verify the existence of your living room, one has to be conscious of it. And the only real "proof" for the existence of your living room is to be (in) it by being conscious of it.

In this forum, especially in this discussion (meditation, consciousness, enlightenment, spirituality), there is almost always made a distinction between "high" and "low" consciousness. I think this distinction is rubbish. I say "rubbish" and "bullshit" not because I have any real aversion towards it, but because by going to the other extreme, I hope to bring some attention to this distinction, which is so eagerly and quickly drawn in many threads. It seems to me that some people here get thoroughly hung up on "high" consciousness. We discriminate arbitrarily and deny the word "high" to some things and are quick to label them as "low" instead. These are just substitutions for "good" and "bad". There is nothing "high" or "low". Yoga, psychedelics, healthy food, meditation, etc., none of it. None of it is "high consciousness", forget about it. But equally of course, it is not "low consciousness" either. Ego, devilry, evil, addiction, bad temper, none of these are "low" consciousness. And none of these are "high" consciousness either. I don't know if Leo has ever spoken about this trap. If not, it's high time he does so, because it's a very sneaky one. So... I wanted to remind you of that. I don't know how much influence this thread will have, probably not much, depending on how many people read it, but it's an important thing to be aware of.