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i would say only feed your consciousness with positive content good reading, good music, good company, good vibes, good food this is an old thread with some good love tunes

every bit of consciousness pain i observe within or without is for my benefit and my evolution it was sent to me to heal me and disabuse me of attachment, illusion, pride ... another piece of the jigsaw puzzle i enjoy giving the gift of presence but you have to do you and i have to do me i am happy to speak how i do me if the other enquires i am no missionary savior evangelist partisan, some smart well regarded role model who has life figured out

are you an entity that exists - no you are not so you are an entity that doesn't exist? no you are not you arise dependent on conditions and causes the mind births you as an entity which is your shape and your appearance but you true nature is voidness same for everyone and everything nobody exists how they believe they do a tree exists only if looked at ... it hasn't any inherent existence, it has imputed existence, imputed by the person who looks at it

being good in the streets is a far cry from being good in the sheets; in fact they are opposite one is measured, manufactured, fake while the other is spontaneous, instinctive, personal pick up is going through the motions, getting it on is a mutual give and take

cant see how dick has one shred of relevance, she is already a convert to your cause way before she gets a single eye-full of those goods, if you mess up in the bedroom you dropped the ball and it's your bedroom game that needs work still nothing to with a dick now money on the other hand, can be spotted from miles away

i know right ... wait til you see the 12in ... the song i mean

do everything, want nothing what's meant to be, shall come to me

for me it's, he brings the money she brings the honey show me the one who wants the unemployed barely making it guy, show me the one who wants the wall-flower gal with the walmart style she better be looking good, he better be doing good deny it all we like, everything else is icing we all want to continue the life of decadence we have thus far indulged in who wants to take a step down in status and standards in the name of love? no way! what would my parents and social media say if they saw me holding hands with such a person? have you lost your mind!

one is the scenic route one is the 100 meter dash i wonder which the absolute prescribes

he's the best ... lots of clips of him on youtube ... all his books are worth the time too Love is truly all that exists ...

ego propounds this perspective; and naturally so since meditation is its death sentence meditation is to tune into the god frequency and afterwards binning the cushion it's so simple but not so easy for the desire hungry ego with places to go and people to see

first you look then you see first is perfect then mind intervenes one is god one is ego sights delight, words destroy

learn true concentration, for example sit and gaze at a flower for increasingly long periods this is the superpower for taking change of life, you have to tame the mind the book The Mind Illuminated focuses on this

i do 3-7am since lockdown, took some time to get the full 240 minutes ... i factored in 2-3 sleep in's per month haven't had awakening, enligtenment, breakthrough, altered states i am happy to sit quietly without a goal or agenda i am still a beginner, i swallow saliva and adjust hands every 60 minutes and still twitch a lot the last hour not pleasurable but does get easier i dont rely on a timer, i know how many breaths for the whole sit and count along

dogma is trying to put truth into words but this can't be done notice the word backwards spells amgod start with i am god and meditate on that that is the first pointer to truth

on the path, we embrace the difficult means we don't seek short cuts and quick fixes it doesn't mean we are dumb and torture ourselves without reason by taking the crappest job having some comfort is okay and in fact the path is treacherous enough so be kind be gentle be easy on yourself give yourself every advantage every benefit every convenience possible this is maturity

you might be a rare exception but women in the main want entertainment not enlightenment just be fun wise-cracking silly, she is bored by your siddhis oh and the straighter your teeth the hornier she will get according to kim kardashian's man list:

forget the truth, it is too abstract what is the lie is the initial question just contemplate i talked about this in this forum plenty so won't waste your time

do i want a good dream or do i want more god hmm thank you @Moksha ?

a time machine?

to raise the white flag is to entrust yourself into the victor's hand ... please don't kill me or torture me and in return i give you all i am and all i have i am nothing except what you will have me be i abandon my old life and i embrace being your subject with no expectations or demands old me is dead, new me trusts what you provide for my life i was lost and now i am found, was bruised and now i breathe, was blind and now i'm see

there are two dual things space and shape, awareness and thought, selflessness and self in all 3 cases you are the former for example if you think something, what happened is a thought arose by its own volition, you can be aware of that and that is you selfless is to bring your being to zero to nothing to emptiness ... how? meditation, neti neti, self enquiry, contemplation, prayer ...

there is the truth and there is the lie the lie is what the mind claims to be truth namely the two sides of the story, one is good one is bad the lie is duality note that duality and non-duality is also a duality thus truth is not non duality truth is beyond both this is absolute truth relative truth is what mind takes as good in the lie mentioned above what i call good, you may call bad, and vice versa relative truth is your level of consciousness, different for everyone death penalty may be fine for me, and barbaric for you so never interfere, just recognise how conscious someone is and follow them or dump them

you are successful in life to the extent you hire a good middle-man-person selling a house is one of life's most fraught episodes pay 5% for the best middle-man so you can sleep easy or try it person to person and see if you can pull it off i did both ways and so i recommend a middle man

the direct path of self enquiry is a lofty bar for many; here is what the 14th Dalai Lama says: