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do everything, want nothing what's meant to be, shall come to me

for me it's, he brings the money she brings the honey show me the one who wants the unemployed barely making it guy, show me the one who wants the wall-flower gal with the walmart style she better be looking good, he better be doing good deny it all we like, everything else is icing we all want to continue the life of decadence we have thus far indulged in who wants to take a step down in status and standards in the name of love? no way! what would my parents and social media say if they saw me holding hands with such a person? have you lost your mind!

one is the scenic route one is the 100 meter dash i wonder which the absolute prescribes

he's the best ... lots of clips of him on youtube ... all his books are worth the time too Love is truly all that exists ...

ego propounds this perspective; and naturally so since meditation is its death sentence meditation is to tune into the god frequency and afterwards binning the cushion it's so simple but not so easy for the desire hungry ego with places to go and people to see

first you look then you see first is perfect then mind intervenes one is god one is ego sights delight, words destroy

learn true concentration, for example sit and gaze at a flower for increasingly long periods this is the superpower for taking change of life, you have to tame the mind the book The Mind Illuminated focuses on this

i do 3-7am since lockdown, took some time to get the full 240 minutes ... i factored in 2-3 sleep in's per month haven't had awakening, enligtenment, breakthrough, altered states i am happy to sit quietly without a goal or agenda i am still a beginner, i swallow saliva and adjust hands every 60 minutes and still twitch a lot the last hour not pleasurable but does get easier i dont rely on a timer, i know how many breaths for the whole sit and count along

dogma is trying to put truth into words but this can't be done notice the word backwards spells amgod start with i am god and meditate on that that is the first pointer to truth

on the path, we embrace the difficult means we don't seek short cuts and quick fixes it doesn't mean we are dumb and torture ourselves without reason by taking the crappest job having some comfort is okay and in fact the path is treacherous enough so be kind be gentle be easy on yourself give yourself every advantage every benefit every convenience possible this is maturity

you might be a rare exception but women in the main want entertainment not enlightenment just be fun wise-cracking silly, she is bored by your siddhis oh and the straighter your teeth the hornier she will get according to kim kardashian's man list:

forget the truth, it is too abstract what is the lie is the initial question just contemplate i talked about this in this forum plenty so won't waste your time

do i want a good dream or do i want more god hmm thank you @Moksha ?

a time machine?

to raise the white flag is to entrust yourself into the victor's hand ... please don't kill me or torture me and in return i give you all i am and all i have i am nothing except what you will have me be i abandon my old life and i embrace being your subject with no expectations or demands old me is dead, new me trusts what you provide for my life i was lost and now i am found, was bruised and now i breathe, was blind and now i'm see

there are two dual things space and shape, awareness and thought, selflessness and self in all 3 cases you are the former for example if you think something, what happened is a thought arose by its own volition, you can be aware of that and that is you selfless is to bring your being to zero to nothing to emptiness ... how? meditation, neti neti, self enquiry, contemplation, prayer ...

there is the truth and there is the lie the lie is what the mind claims to be truth namely the two sides of the story, one is good one is bad the lie is duality note that duality and non-duality is also a duality thus truth is not non duality truth is beyond both this is absolute truth relative truth is what mind takes as good in the lie mentioned above what i call good, you may call bad, and vice versa relative truth is your level of consciousness, different for everyone death penalty may be fine for me, and barbaric for you so never interfere, just recognise how conscious someone is and follow them or dump them

you are successful in life to the extent you hire a good middle-man-person selling a house is one of life's most fraught episodes pay 5% for the best middle-man so you can sleep easy or try it person to person and see if you can pull it off i did both ways and so i recommend a middle man

the intellectual are about persuading, impressing and excluding the intelligent are about pervading, expressing and including intellectual is all about seeing things the way i do intelligent is all about seeing things the way you do if you are in politics or punditry or professoring, you have no choice but to be intellectual if you are in the awakening game, it is about upping intelligence the intellect adds the intelligence subtracts intellect gives you something to show for your efforts, intelligence is being a team of one

the direct path of self enquiry is a lofty bar for many; here is what the 14th Dalai Lama says:

absolute is the middle way not the extreme, it programmed me to do everything for my own betterment except in one tiny instance and in that one tiny instance is my freedom to say yes or no if there wasn't that one tiny slither of free will, the absolute's dream would be predictibly uninteresting the absolute knows how every portion of the dream acts save one case, the machine gets to either fold or hold and most times i have held to meditate is me folding my hand and making my way home

it is the only thing that can be done in violation of self interest everything you do, you want to do because it keeps you in the game you are a self enjoyment maximiser in all you do even so called hardship and sacrifice you do it for your greater good and your long term legacy all except when it comes to meditation you don't want to meditate, you have a litany of prepared reasons not to and i am talking real meditation not the schlock that passes for it on phone apps you meditate hand in hand with the absolute when it tells you to start playing a different game from now on your free will is necessary but not sufficient, you need the absolute to enter which is what is termed grace psychedelics meanwhile is game enhancement 101

you do everything out of self interest namely you have no choice but to except for one thing meditation meditation sucks folks, it is the only thing you do with is NOT self interest, in fact it is the apparent self's death sentence nobody want to meditate no matter what people on the internet tell you, it is damn hard work, rewards are dubious, the pay is peanuts and besides mind has you firmly under its thumb telling you that you need more sleep not mat sitting meditation is the only free will everything else you do out of l.u.s.t., likes upvotes shares thanks thank you for listening

and that is what needs to be seen through so that a new reality might flourish there was never two, i was mistaken for thinking so what do i do to reprogram myself? i walk the spiritual walk whereby i watch the thoughts instead of energizing the thoughts thoughts always come but i don't follow down their rabbit hole to partake in the division the drama the discrimination my identity shifts and i see the human form i thought i was and know that isn't me that form still continues on merrily and know realizes itself as infinite and lets itself be a mouthpiece of the seamless body of the cosmos

life is all about enjoying others, finding something interesting about them, marvelling in their uniqueness their talents their suffering their motivations you might practice doing that with boring dull unintelligent people you will discover there are no boring dull unintelligent people everyone has tons to teach me to show me to contribute to my journey it is fine of course to have preferences after one has discovered another's essence