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Problem with psychopath is 1. they don't know they qualify as a psychopath (and don't care) and or 2. they refuse to admit they are a psychopath 1. convince them to prove they are one 2. convince them to wear e.g. a forehead tattoo that says beware etc. When you know I am a psychopath any harm committed is on you

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Non-monogamy is pay for play. Which is fine until the money and the vaginas dry up then it gets old and sad for both. Maybe do it during your playboy and playgirl teens and 20s. Children deserve two committed parents no matter the latter's libido. Just my 2 cents.

Each object seen right is a window to god. Specs need tweaking. Grasping needs ditching. I am born blind but praise be you my lovely I see.

Non-monogamy is each bringing a specific package not a whole person. You are inherently dividing yourself and placing limits from the get-go. This is a flawed approach in general. In the main, women need protection; men need partnership. Thus for women it a step down in status and for men a step up. She will be settling for less and he will be screaming for more. She is there for money and he is there for honey. In either case if that dries out then sorry I am out. Mercenary for her, misogynistic for him. A less than fulfilled life for both - not to mention any unfortunate offspring. I mean, no parent would suggest non-monogamy to their child right? That should say something.

At least for me although other people's mileage can and frequently will vary.* If this were my forum, the above would get appended to every post.

First point is that non-monogamy for a man means you need to be financially independent for example wealthy. Be able to pay your way and theirs. For a woman it's you need someone with status and stability who can take care of you, your present and future kids, other people and other people's kids. Non-monogamy is transactional and no sacrifices needed on either side; we are all complete just as we are and another person in the mix is a bonus not a necessity. For example, polygamy works in the Middle East because men have a juicy 8-figures in the bank - thanks to oil largesse. Monogamy on the other hand is more equal and each helping out the best they can to make things work; each one needs and each one sacrifices.

Your jealousy is less how another acts and more how you act. It's your insecurity being communicated. This makes someone more likely to leave you not less likely. You are trying to control their expression. Encourage them to look at whoever they want and tell them you like to do the same. Talk about what they notice and admire and you give similar feedback. This strengthens the relationship rather than weakening it. And it overcomes the root insecurity.

Key for me is discipline to stick to time limits, Seems 30 mins or 60 mins is optimal. Also be disciplined about which threads to read. I used to feel obligated to read a lot of the top threads. Now I browse more and am very selective. I do regard it more entertainment that improvement but this too has its place. I also keep updating the subs I follow to keep the content I see fresh. Overall I think reddit is the smartest never-ending conversation out there.

Peace and joy are what's called fruit of the spirit, sort of like presents that show you are on the right track. Don't stop there as they aren't the goal. The goal is what you are.

Yes you summarized well. Our priorities are what count: where we place our energy and how much flexibility do we allow in this. To be compatible means we have similar amounts to bring to the table. It is not so much material things that matter but more to do with priorities and values and maturity.

There is undivided effort and there is spreading yourself too thin. Some people spread themselves too thin because they are stuck in stuff they are immersed in. They say they are free but the reality is they are not. They delude themselves; they delude you. This takes time to discover. Both should be equally free.

Peace and joy are prerequisites for spiritual work. Peace is to kill duality; good bad black white pretty ugly all the same and don't attract me or repel me. Joy is I am now on track and setting aside the time to do the work needed; joy is exuding divine energy for the task at hand. Without these you can't do the work. The work is good and bad going from nothing to everything.

The younger you are the more you better meditate. Mfers to the left and right trying to corrupt you and con you and castrate you. You are a sitting duck. Take back your sovereignty and stop this legalised raping today.

I need pain since if it's all pleasure I keep on as apparent god of the universe merrily with nobody to interject otherwise. Don't stop me now, I'm having such a good time. 🎵 Pain is the necessary ingredient to realize I'm not god. Pain is the sign I have gone wrong since god is necessarily pain free - else he wouldn't be much of a god. Pain will be quickly investigated to see 1. it's an illusion and better yet 2. the one feeling it is an illusion. Identification is thereby corrected and awakening to me as one true god arises.

Step one is to understand the ego. It desires the universe, the separated reality, to exist forever. Even Leo subscribes to eternal dreaming as the truth. Ego will do everything to ensure this continuance and it does a magnificent job at it. Key is keep everyone asleep, since if you are not separated from me then I am not separated from you and whoops. Withhold love at end turn or in fact promote a fake form of love that will bring ownership, and control and sleepiness. Ego loves to hate and hates to love while truth loves to love and hates to hate. Ego is a tricky, slippery, devious little terrorizer but eminently comprehendible. Contemplate on such and self enquire deeply into the machinations of the ego in order to have a chance to defeat them

Reality has tons of suffering provided you want to keep on staying. It's trying to make you choose good. Good is an acrostic for get out of dodge.

There is joy, there is happiness. joy is first thing in the morning and happiness is last thing at night. Former is who you are and unconditional and later is conditioned, what kind of day you had. Joy is what you bring to the table and happiness is what that joy effects in the world around.

Agreed. Therein is the work. If we see it outside, we have created it within right?

Contemplate that all rapists are doing the best they can and have to do but what they do just like you do the best you can at being you. Could you do any different? And ask yourself what level of rapist exists within you? Could you ever be accused of not asking for consent?

For me, soul is the storehouse of consciousness that one brings forth at birth and during life either expands or contracts. Ultimately consciousness and existence WILL end becoming knowingness and reality respectively and this is when form and non-form are harmonized. Namely love steps in to quell all the rampant fear and there are no more problems-not that there were any in the first place-and the kingdom of heaven is witnessed. Not to say that consciousness couldn't spring up anew but this place is well and truly toast per Gary Renard's The Disappearance of the Universe

Oneness in a practical word is non-judgementalism because everyone around me is a perfect conglomeration, doing what they need to do and doing the best they can to do it. Would I criticize my own left foot for being wicked because it rashly stubbed my toe when I was out walking this afternoon? Everyone is my long lost limb living loving leaching loathing as they need to the best they know how. Judge not is to restore oneness.

In my case, I am utterly incapable of honesty until I am laid out on the appointed deathbed. Until then, sorry but I am going to continue siphoning resources from those who truly need them to survive. I am a parasite, a festering cyst, clinging to corrosive justifications and refusing to face the truth. Lazy, inept, grotesquely self-centered, I hereby absolve myself of responsibility to set things right. Only when I am ready to lie down and let go - ready to die to this pathetic excuse of an existence - will I finally be someone worth breathing air with. Following that brief interlude, now back to your regularly scheduled programs.

Happy is, my life has meaning because I am doing what I came to do and I am doing it the best I can. Love is the only thing that will make you happy. See everything as an act of love or an ask for love. Be glad and be kind in each case respectively. You will sleep happily every night. Anything else ends in tears. On your death bed you leave happily knowing you completed the assignment.

Save from death. Almost everyone thinks they're going to die until they encounter a Jesus. No Jesus ever dies! I prove Jesus didn't die by proving that Jesus lives inside me. This means Jesus helps me and saves me. Body will crumble and decay but the Jesus reality will endure. There may be another way but this one is fire. I do not fear death. I cannot die. I am not a body. And I have experienced this for myself. Seeing isn't believing. Believing is seeing. Jesus lived it then asked me to give it a try based on belief. I did and here I am. I am that I am. I am not what you think I am. I am pure observing awareness of being. You are too. Jesus is helpful for getting saved from the seemingly never-ending cycle of death and life. This place is nothing more than a seemingly hard to escape fantasy. Everyone is proud and stubborn. I ain't following no Jesus. I am way too smart. Besides I'm not ready for heaven; I've got way too much living and loving to do first. Hit me up in the next lifetime. After all I am practically living as a god down here as it is; everyone loves me, I make boatloads of cash and boy you should see me dance.