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Everything matters. You are here for a reason. Every moment your embrace that or repudiate it. To follow God is the only happiness. Happiness isn't a reality in this world. You cannot be happy here. You will die soon and soon be forgotten. The point of God is that I am its finest day's work, the apple of its eye, the most precious beloved. I am here to align with its will which is of course my will too. My wishes are the opposite of my will. I am here to shine light to a universe bereft of light. God endows me with all power and majesty and glory and the work is already done. There is no time, this is just one stray thought I chose to entertain in the eternal infinite timelessness. Nobody knows God until someone jolts them. The memory of God is alive inside everyone but it buried beneath so much detritus that it takes someone outside to get us to behold the treasure within.

Everyone here is too triggered. I coined what op talks about as femipulating. Only give others what they are ready for. If you let me down, you are dead to me. I will look after me and will happily turn off your life support the moment I need to. Everyone should contemplate the darker side a bit more instead of fairies and rainbows.

Possible by changing the experiencer. New experiencer, new meanings. First have faith. Faith means one relinquishes what one currently thinks to be truth. Faith is needed while doubt remains until truth dawns. Faith is emptying oneself (kenosis) so that filling oneself can happen. Truth needs everything to be dropped for it to shine forth. It needs faith. Truth aka consciousness is to see the world rightly. Truth makes one a new creation. Now the meaning you previously assigned to life are seen as mistaken. The meaning of life is clear.

God is whence I come. God is the oneness that you and I are. God is the creator, the cause of all and the changeless center of eternity. God is not a belief. God is not an idea, God is not a form. God is the only reality there is. The timeless unwavering Love for all in all and to all. God is in front of your eyes every moment but you choose to see what you want instead. For me my job is to focus on God not the illusion and the illness and desperation of those around me. When I become a light unto myself then I will shine a light unto others so that they too might waken to the truth. If any of this is resonating, check out Jesus' latest communication known as A Course in Miracles which jibes with most of what I say; Christians won't appreciate however.

Worship and doctrine are mind control perpetuated by people believed to know better than I do. I have the Holy Spirit which is my Higher Self as my communication link leading me to carry out God's will. Worship is role-playing that another is more worthy than me in God's sight and doctrine is merely beliefs unproven as yet to be true. All I need is trust that I am safe and loved and in God's hands. I don't follow Jesus, I thank him for being the first to walk the walk. How could God regard one son higher than another? Would any parent do that? Jesus proved once and for all that death is nothing and that hell is nothing but repeating death after death. He tells me to live like he did and his help is always available for the asking.

God isn't a person or a thing or what you think. God is beyond what you can understand with a mind. That's why one needs help. Jesus said, the kingdom is within you. Be thou a lamp unto thyself. Looking without for signs and symbols leads to destruction. Nobody can tell you the truth. You are the way the truth the life. Nobody comes to the father but through his child. You are that child and its love for you is more than you can fathom. Wrongness is impossible for truth cannot mix with false. Darkness doesn't exist. Verify this by shining your own light and see for yourself. Jesus was the first to do so but all are the same and we can do as great as he did.

There are sheep and there are goats. I will be a sheep no matter what time or place I am born. Your mileage can vary. Thank you for eternal life Jesus. I didn't choose you, you chose me, as you aptly remind me in scripture. Do not ask why. I am saved for being ok with what I don't know not for what I do. Form is impossible to understand. Everything you see and say is a lie.

Spirituality is a tool kit of devices to wake oneself up. Silence, mindfulness, ignorance, contemplation, surrender, japa ... are all designed for one to swap the lower self for the higher self. This means to pause for a second and align oneself with the divine so it can take the helm and lead one in its highest will. Everyone is unconscious. Spirituality is curative.

Bad is whatever wastes time; good is whatever saves time; god is the end of time and the resumption in consciousness of timelessness. Me hurting you and you hurting me is bad; me helping you and you helping me is good. To hurt is impossible. If you slap my face or I slap your face, we think the other can be hurt. The other cannot be hurt, appearances to the contrary notwithstanding. We are but time wasting. Good is for the other to point this out so that we come to our senses. Good tell us that only two things happen in this world: acts of love (help) and asks for love (hurt). Good saves time; bad wastes time. To live this means you overcame time and you are here for the people who cross your path. You turn the other cheek in any situation. You are unhurtable. You desire others see your power to understand they are no different and can come home too.

Forget and remember are dualistic states. Dual and non-dual are mutually exclusive and exhaustive. Namely you are one or the other. God isn't dual. God doesn't know a thing about duality. You as god's creation are allowed to imagine dual as much as you want. Keep imagining but as you have seen, happiness won't persist. Going home is the answer. Get off the dual carriageway at the next exit.

How can an illusion be permanent. Illusions take work to prop up. God wouldn't be the sharpest tool in the shed if it got itself stuck in a limited creation. You can block truth finitely. No I didn't use an altered state to see this. This is logic.

Truth is ever present. You are blocking it. It is you who are doing it. One day you can decide just as easily not to do it. This is spiritual practice. Truth is forever. Falsehood cannot be forever. Else it will be truth. The false is nothing more than a temporary illusion. Only truth exists.

Logic is a house of cards. The relationships you formulate will work then not work. Be successful with your logic and watch it tumble down. Perfection cannot be. Until you go home.

You need to understand that no ego wants to meditate. Meditation will be its death. In addition. meditation is hard work and ego will cleverely find a million screens to occupy itself mindlessly. The mindfulness of meditation is poison. It is however the only self love. It is getting to know the real you. not the one who performs for reward and acclaim. Not to meditate is the definition of a wasted life. Meditation is the gateway to reality. Knowing all the above, you have to be gentle and delicate with non-meditators. Emphasize that meditation is the true self love and self knowledge. It will make you a better a more interesting and a more accomplished person for reasons that no book or podcast could impart. Meditation requires a life-long commitment and dedication. It is a complete change in the direction of one's life. It is for the first time taking control of one's own destiny. All answers are within, is the highest truth. Mastery of the world depends entirely on mastery of oneself which comes about by finding the treasures within.

I suffer because I look at the world as the cause of everything rather than the effect of what I have done. Suffering is trying to teach me this so that I will go in and fix it. I need to look at what my world is showing me and take that as my cue for what to fix. When I see fear everywhere, I go in heal it and then I walk fearlessly into the lion's den and transmute every scrap of fear. This is the end of fear as I know it. Fear in fact all suffering is ignorance. I am untouchable.

Problem with psychopath is 1. they don't know they qualify as a psychopath (and don't care) and or 2. they refuse to admit they are a psychopath 1. convince them to prove they are one 2. convince them to wear e.g. a forehead tattoo that says beware etc. When you know I am a psychopath any harm committed is on you

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Non-monogamy is pay for play. Which is fine until the money and the vaginas dry up then it gets old and sad for both. Maybe do it during your playboy and playgirl teens and 20s. Children deserve two committed parents no matter the latter's libido. Just my 2 cents.

Each object seen right is a window to god. Specs need tweaking. Grasping needs ditching. I am born blind but praise be you my lovely I see.

Non-monogamy is each bringing a specific package not a whole person. You are inherently dividing yourself and placing limits from the get-go. This is a flawed approach in general. In the main, women need protection; men need partnership. Thus for women it a step down in status and for men a step up. She will be settling for less and he will be screaming for more. She is there for money and he is there for honey. In either case if that dries out then sorry I am out. Mercenary for her, misogynistic for him. A less than fulfilled life for both - not to mention any unfortunate offspring. I mean, no parent would suggest non-monogamy to their child right? That should say something.

At least for me although other people's mileage can and frequently will vary.* If this were my forum, the above would get appended to every post.

First point is that non-monogamy for a man means you need to be financially independent for example wealthy. Be able to pay your way and theirs. For a woman it's you need someone with status and stability who can take care of you, your present and future kids, other people and other people's kids. Non-monogamy is transactional and no sacrifices needed on either side; we are all complete just as we are and another person in the mix is a bonus not a necessity. For example, polygamy works in the Middle East because men have a juicy 8-figures in the bank - thanks to oil largesse. Monogamy on the other hand is more equal and each helping out the best they can to make things work; each one needs and each one sacrifices.

Your jealousy is less how another acts and more how you act. It's your insecurity being communicated. This makes someone more likely to leave you not less likely. You are trying to control their expression. Encourage them to look at whoever they want and tell them you like to do the same. Talk about what they notice and admire and you give similar feedback. This strengthens the relationship rather than weakening it. And it overcomes the root insecurity.

Key for me is discipline to stick to time limits, Seems 30 mins or 60 mins is optimal. Also be disciplined about which threads to read. I used to feel obligated to read a lot of the top threads. Now I browse more and am very selective. I do regard it more entertainment that improvement but this too has its place. I also keep updating the subs I follow to keep the content I see fresh. Overall I think reddit is the smartest never-ending conversation out there.

Peace and joy are what's called fruit of the spirit, sort of like presents that show you are on the right track. Don't stop there as they aren't the goal. The goal is what you are.