gettoefl

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  1. make it clear, are you talking about you or me if me, a narc is a narc only when he has a mark ... stop letting these folks manipulate you if you, the fact that you are a narc will be wholly evident to those putting in the real work ... the narcs who come to these forums disappear pretty quick
  2. so would leo have the profound insights he presents were it not for psychedelics?
  3. what works for me is devote the day's first 4 hours to inner work this means 12 hours of day to day life is in (sleep + inner) and 12 hours is out see leo's latest video for more context
  4. yes watch leo's latest video for some great insights
  5. you are being a little uncharitable or perhaps naive first, truth is far beyond language and words, words do a very poor job of transcribing or explicating second no matter how deep you go with truth even beyond where anyone else has possibly gone, there is still infinitely more precipices to scale, that's the nature of truth, you will never get done with it @Tim R
  6. fame is, others like me this type of woman you allude to sees this and says surely everyone can't be wrong and little ol' me to have the chance to be with someone so well liked maybe he is really something amazing what's more if he is getting so much liking, surely i will get the same i cannot lose here
  7. we want to claim that we understand the creator and thereby influence other human being lol we dont understand the creator because there isn't one dualism is false, only oneness exists
  8. sending you love today dear leo if there is anything i / we can do for you, please reach out ... i would have you take a whole year off if you could come back in good health
  9. a technique for more deeply appreciating is feast for few days fast for few days this attunes sensitivity to the beauty of what we consume whether it be music, food or any sensual pleasure this will be good for body mind and spirit
  10. there is only one emotion, love ... emotion expands you or contracts you, connects you or separates you, exposes you or closes you seen this way emotion is a tool for raising one's consciousness, it is like a red light or a green light
  11. the litmus test of forgiveness is not i forgive you but i love you no matter what you did and the real i love you means i actively place you front and center as priority in my life forgiveness is a damn high bar, it is the degree to which you include / exclude those around you
  12. when i see divinity operating me, take each 1st letter
  13. you did your self help now do self halt one you see it is just a dream the other you return to the dream live lucidly to the fullest knowing no bad exists only love
  14. "after 43 years of reflection i realize i was mistaken back then"
  15. love is who have you spoken with who have you empathized with who have you encouraged who have you blessed who have you reached out to this very day ask yourself each night
  16. ego is developing your interests with a view to telling others how super talented developed resilient ... you are you do things for the wrong reasons, you follow the crowd and you listen to what is the in thing to do and promptly immerse yourself instead do you for you based on your unique composition calling and coloring beau til ful is be you to full ... you are created to be a sun flower not a wallflower you are the one people out there have been waiting for
  17. the mind tricked us into thinking there are parts, there are none that's its nature to divide while for god its nature is to multiply we are all walking vessels of god essence thinking we are individual separate creatures we are not a part since when were we apart? we not who- but who-le
  18. " Notwithstanding my repeating it constantly, you do not seem able to accept the fundamental fact that it is sheer nonsense to think of an individual's need for enlightenment. Basically, there is only 'I'; there is no 'me', no 'you', to be enlightened. How can a phenomenal object, which is only an appearance, be transformed by 'enlightenment' into something other that what it is, i.e. a mere appearance? When 'enlightenment' occurs, there is an apperceiving that what we believe to be our normal condition — that of a phenomenal object — is merely a temporary condition, like an illness, which has come over our normal true state of the infinite. It is suddenly realized that what was being considered 'normal' was not really normal. The result of such apperceiving is a sort of instantaneous adjustment from an individual existence to just existence as such; volition disappears and whatever happens seems right and proper, One takes one's stand as the witness of all that happens, or rather only witnessing remains. " that is from instrument to orchestra
  19. the infinite cannot experience the finite but through you, in fact poor thing cannot experience at all and experience right? is fun so all this soon ends but in the meantime enjoy soon enough you'll be back to the boring ol non-experiencing launching your next out-ing
  20. i was happy and was the mellifluous instrument i was masterful and was the virtuoso musician transcending here this that there ... lo! behold the orchestra the trance ending ... for good
  21. or have to do something valuable to the world like write a life purpose course or run a forum for folks to interact
  22. why not write your own marriage contract using a lawyer and perhaps renew your vows obligations and commitments every 5 years instead of having the state tell you this is how it is done and you are locked in for life (you might say i miss out on the financial breaks etc offered to those who are married, in that case marry to satisfy the state but write into your contract that the one you created is the framework that prevails over and supercedes the one the state issues)