gettoefl

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  1. family members are difficult since they overlap our own bubble so much ... thanks for sharing and thanks for all your posts, i always get so much from them
  2. if so, are you saying that those born with penis must use the men's restrooms and those born with vagina must use the women's restrooms? (the sentence above equivalent to trans people cannot transition) seems to me older generation answers yes / yes ... younger generation answers no short answers preferred
  3. yes all sounds good and reasonable and logical but the flipside to what you say is this:
  4. the talk i wanna have is with people who consider high body counts a sign of sluttiness/studliness we all needed training wheels to get where we are and now i am top of the list and proud to be so if you are uncomfortable with my history we may well have some work to do and we might not be the ones after all
  5. no failure only feedback no pain only penance no satisfaction only sanctification
  6. suffer and enjoy is the same thing in truth maybe if you understand what suffering really is, you could then go beyond ... this is called the 4 Noble Truths according to Buddha you will keep suffering in millions of lifetimes until you do this to long didn't read: you are not the body that you think you are
  7. time spent speaking / time spent listening
  8. which is a two-bit memory machine that we needed when we were hunter gatherers and had to survive but now we are in the era of thrive ego is that incessant self chatter telling you what's what ... watch it carefully and it eases its grip ... this is meditation
  9. meditation is better if it feels good ... one of my best meditations is to get in bed during the day and chill
  10. beautiful thanks x l-iterally o-ur v-ery e-xistence #love
  11. super take just like we transmute something to nothing to everything so transmute lonely to alone to all one namely your first spiritual job is absolute self love don't leave home til you have it
  12. yes relationship is dependency restriction neediness you hitch your wagon to another and you each assert you need one another and have to receive certain things from them this is a losing proposition for someone of consciousness how about one explore relating souls assist the other to become the best version of their self but do away with expectations and requirements support one another in truth with no need on either side to restrict one another's freedom other necessary relationships are maintained as obligated
  13. yes ultimately all bad energy will resonate and afflict but preferences are private essentially and so we don't condemn people for having them even though like i said they are dumb
  14. all racial preferences are racist (and a sign of ignorance / low consciousness) only to the extent that they explicitly hurt someone in that video in that country no harm so no foul preferences are in fact dumb too just showing narrow mindedness but we all need them since we are spoilt children with too much choice and few ways to filter so we opt for dumb stereotypes
  15. for me it is all to do with level of consciousness when i understand you inside and out then i understand myself i need to understand every manner of human being they are a missing piece of my consciousness that needs integrating so for me trans people are the new persecuted minority and i need to align with the truth they are revealing namely that sex and gender and not fixed biological constants all this work is part of my personal spiritual growth there is no wrong in life there is only lack of consciousness
  16. yes i know ... two hours a day won't kill me is my logic and since i don't follow any news / current affairs, it is one of my few links to the real world
  17. i do like to monitor it, am not triggered but it does sadden me all the hatred i witness and how powerless i am to help
  18. trans people need and deserve equal rights imo we can say the trans rights struggle is the new gay rights struggle
  19. getting more and more significant, more trans identifying people every year now and so it is becoming more polarizing and dangerous especially for the involved parties this topic is like life or death in certain social media circles i hope we can solve it somehow
  20. many woman will say it is just more male oppression and now they don't even have the right to go to the restroom in peace it is a tricky question
  21. it is one of the explosive issues of the day, at least here in the uk namely can we deny trans people the right to transition (and therefore use the restroom of their choice)
  22. a majority of them or all of them and how do we find out and when did these women get given the right to decide who else is a woman
  23. it is the only matter this thread is contemplating lol
  24. she knows the trans person was born male and she believes it is impossible to change even though the person looks just like a woman
  25. and what if the trans person looks just like a woman ... has the woman the right to prohibit him