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every masochist loves a bit of torture, bring it on ... maybe you don't love it but then you are selfishly biased towards your preferences and survival ... your truth is not everyone's truth

agree with these sentiments maybe evil is simply resisting death ... jesus did not resist death however ... when the time came he sweated tears of blood but said your will be done ... so to be non evil perhaps we need to stare down death every day every moment ... god is indifferent to death, one dream is as perfect as another

soon good words here: https://www.reddit.com/r/nonduality/comments/uei7t4/using_intellectual_understanding_to_bypass/

fighting what is most do this from ignorance (that's called suffering) but if you do it from willfulness that's called evil so to suffer willingly is pretty darn evil i say worshiping the ever unfolding what is, by contrast, is love

consciousness is what you're conscious of and what you're not conscious of ... meditation is to make the latter the former

you have laws else it's might is right and all its consequences you then better design and implement your own laws to prevent your demise ... with might is right your life-span won't be long

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i uphold a transwoman to be a woman and i also uphold a person's right to prefer non-transwomen as partners just like some can prefer brunette's over blonde's and all women are equal to other women in terms of rights but not in terms of attraction ... rights are objective, attraction is subjective

nothing is all that mind can't understand which come to think of it is quite something

am i age-ist if i don't want to have sex with people over 80? no right? likewise for your question ... my stated preferences are no one's business but my own and i am perfectly entitled to them so if you are a transwoman or a transman in my opinion you have an a priori duty to tell people who express potential interest in you how you identify i think all else is deception and manipulation

what a person of higher consciousness will say to you will appear incredible, or lies if you will what a person of lower consciousness will say to you will appear incredulous, or lies if you will truth is in fact your own level of consciousness namely the sharpness of your vision

saint and sinner are external recognition ... the only true virtue to cultivate is awareness ... you can kill with awareness and it is perfectly fine and fitting ... contemplate how you can raise your awareness and implement it ... this is the holy life

1. do the hardest unpleasantest most challenging things first thing in the morning preferably before anyone else gets up ... then continue by doing less hard tasks throughout the day ... do the absolute easiest thing before bed 2. do something hard before eating a meal ... we enjoy eating we don't enjoy hard tasks so doing the hard first will spur you to do it well knowing you have a nice meal to look forward to 3. commit to doing at least a couple of hard tasks every day or even just one when you have removed the backlog ... as long as the day's hard task is accomplished you can notch it up as a good day ... doing all this makes it easy for every day to be a good day

in short, put mind aside and then god/awareness runs the show and it does a far better job than a finite machine ... it is how jesus could say, your will be done not mine

the only mistake in life is lack of awareness problem is you are locked in to it and thus you do all the stuff you do commit to raise your awareness, this is the life's only freedom, if you don't do it then you continue to have no free will and are enslaved to impulse temptation judgement

drop all worthless regret how i am not going to repeat

my goal is 4-hr morning sits, nearly there, i do nothing with goal being no effort, when i attain no effort, i up the timer another 30 minutes, it goes much easier these warm 6 months of the year, cant report anything mystical or miraculous but i can say it is pretty much impossible for me to have a bad day

mind is a great servant but a poor master, use it when needed but most are letting it run things 100% ... you are not a finite machine leo's latest video on ketamine touches on the default happiness that exists when mind is not operational ... this is the baseline state to reside in

default ego position is fighter not lover, a recipe for misery depression negativity on top of which we are told that most folks are my enemy and i either take what's mine or get trodden on all this certainly doesn't fill one with warm fuzzy feelings towards one's fellow man to turn all this around takes some kind of an awakening

bring finite mind to heel it is just a dog, teach it to be a good doggie you CAN teach an old dog new tricks don't banish mind, cherish it change its bias from ego to god then everything is good

also bear in mind it is not merely a matter of who you are attracted to being trans would be like being born with no nose and feeling less than human ... oh to have a nose and feel a whole person ... sure you could live life without a nose but this would cause massive issues with confidence and acceptance if a child was born nose-less, no one would hesitate to allow the child who so wanted to have the procedure in order to remedy this gross disfigurement furthermore as i understand it a trans person will want to be their desired gender even if they live a completely solitary existence ... and i think this is true of most if not all of us - if we were required to live as the gender we don't identify with, life would be utterly unbearable

love is observed by more consciousness more clarity more compassion more creativity more confidence more curiosity more courage more compassion more connectedness more child-like god has a love agenda for sure, that is what the scientists call evolution, all is well and is becoming more so

love is more consciousness more clarity more compassion more creativity more confidence more curiosity more courage more compassion more connectedness more child-like this is my meditation goal

how relaxed the body, how slow still silent subtle smooth soft the breath, how calm, clear, composed the brain is the only awakening i have known

indeed conflict is ever apparent the god i see is not entirely impartial however it is more the conflict minimization agent it has a leaning towards love over lose, grace over the the grave and honor over horror