gettoefl

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  1. i rise at 3 and sit til 7 starting since beginning of year ... certainly gotten a lot quieter but i am not 1% into the journey yet, am in for the long haul i do one thing, let the breath pass through undisturbed
  2. more than a price paid it's a limb lost you don't get over it you can get through it
  3. we start off as us vs them then mature into us is them
  4. leo's latest puts some flesh on the bones of this topic, there are 3 modes: 1. if you are socializing, all your thoughts are group think, you are a cog in the wheel and toeing society's line 2. if you contemplate quietly and deeply, you can get creative original ideas 3. if you meditate which is getting to no thought, god might throw you a bone or two
  5. until sex, all talking and meeting is just interviewing for a position ... don't tell them that of course or make a joke about which position you are always thinking about
  6. demonstrate mastery not master is me
  7. the unconscious in us demands the one, the conscious in us demands the other proceeding thus we remain ever divided ever deluded to our detriment to our demise same way women deny that want to look good for men and men deny they are insatiable in their desire for women
  8. that's the close being used Namely, walk around town, find the ones you like, speak the close then hand out a printed out blurb containing your stats, your interests, your needs in an other half, your contact info will anyone here do this? answer yes i will/no i won't in the poll above https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11194181/27-year-old-woman-starts-handing-dating-RESUMES-men-finds-attractive.html
  9. anger is, i want you to change since i don't want to they are going to be bad whether you're there or not it's not on you it's on them fix yourself so you become untouchable
  10. in the future i bet all will carry one whether digital or paper those relying on their impromptu charms will be passé
  11. there but for the grace of god go i the latest video makes clear the key is to focus on yourself, this is your dream your time your rules others are incidental and merely vehicles to enjoy more fully
  12. when you apply for a job what do you use, a piece of paper or do you go in their face and tell them how great you are in addtion who has time to talk with random undesirables when you are out and about running errands respect people's autonomy to walk the streets without being pestered by irksome cads
  13. incomparable masterpieces whose arrival the universe has eagerly awaited since the dawn of time comparison is the ugliest and perhaps the only sin go ahead and express yourself
  14. better yet watch the latest episode and sit in a room for an hour by yourself
  15. this is the new paradigm, out with the in your face creepy lecherous harassing obnoxious thirstiness and in with the considerate no pressure take my info if you're free later drop me a line dinosaurs are extinct for good reason
  16. hot and beautiful are opposite contemplate this; appreciate the distinction and i am talking the physical form here to confuse them is sloppy
  17. don't criticize them pity them for how hopelessly deluded they are that not one word you could utter could penetrate them the word compassion means to suffer with ...why not try to sit down and break bread with such people
  18. we need a bill of rights for children since too many parents are abusive bullying callous dictators who think a child's opinion hasn't validity and weight that barbaric era of parenting is from the dim and distance past and it is clear that muzzling children only makes them more steadfast in their opinions
  19. hatred is but lack of understanding beauty can be seen as the worse curse imaginable through the correct lens its burden is that people refuse to see the real you only the you to serve their base ends
  20. it's a simple method of putting yourself out there while respecting another's sovereignty boundaries and busy schedule... rather than trying to prove how cool you are while flexing your macho credentials on random victims personally i have only been on the receiving end of this and i was hugely impressed with the courage and the ingenuity of the person who handed me their bio ... i know for a fact they got tons of dates from it
  21. point is, people do not want to be accosted by strangers in public ... do you understand this? it is being selfishly presumptuous that you are more important than the task the person is setting about doing on the other hand to hand someone a blurb is a minimally invasive and more respectful way of ingratiating yourself without imposing your unwelcome agenda on some poor unsuspecting defenceless soul to give someone a bio is a well meaning kindness to set about to pick someone up is crude cringe worthy crass imposition see the distinctions and learn how it feels to not want your slobbering attention
  22. what do you think the lines above are for, to be machine read? you are boiling down the essence of showing interest and receiving interest into a 2 minute conversation easy to be cynical but you need to see that this is a superior method to the way so called pick up artists treats their prospects