Ima Freeman

Ok, good point

What are other people, animals, beings ultimately?

Stuff actualizers say. But Truth nontheless.

One thning I was wondering for some time is, if others are me, why am I surprised about their actions? Why am I not conscious of their motivs? It's like if my hand would start acting autonomously all of the sudden and I can't feel it any more and don't know what it will do next.

I meant "What are they really?" Are they autonomous? Are they empty shells? Are they infinite holons? Are they angels?

Imagination of what, by what?

How to deliver sexuality in ones humor with women as a man? With other guys it is very easy, but with women it is more tricky. Like, how not to overdo it and come of as a pervert? I think it's a great icebreaker and a great theme for humor, because it's so controversial. But it is of course a double-edged sword. It can be majorly funny or creepy. Situations are different, for me mostly university, going out at night,... It makes a difference too if you are one on one or in groups And of course women are different, interested in me or not, conservative, progressive worldview,....

@Emerald Thanks, that's a thorough guide

ok, thanks for your suggestion

@Olaf Are you religous by any chance? Why not take sex lightly??

Ok, ok, I see that on first dates it is not that appropriate

@Leo Gura I meant in general sense rather than just dating. Like being in friend groups. Not with an pick up intent, per se.

@Ramanujan Simple, don't follow a philosophy, see how life really is...

Just had the insight that neurodivergent behaviour is unattractive to other people and even oneself. The neurotic behaviour, the nervous laughter, the restlessness, etc.... Although, off course, it can be attractive too. People like weirdness, stimulation etc... Being authentic or controlled, or both depending on context. What is wise here?

WOW. From how the thread evolved, I can tell there are definitelly no neurotypicals here

I have a girlfriend and that would be risky, because what if I'm succesfull?

Let me ask it this way, cause I was kinda sloppy with my original question. How to deal with the phenomenon, that most people are weirded out or outright dismissive about oneself, because one is neurologically atypical? Get alot of rejection in workplaces, socializing, etc. The ego wants to be accepted by its surroundings to feel safe Distrustful, weirded out looks, rejection, outright hostility is what I see often. I guess I communicate similar messages involuntary, because of being overstrained. I got my handful of divergent friends btw, but I have to deal with workplace, education, social situations, society by and large.

I think it makes a big difference if you are a man or woman in that context. There are different expectations upon you, people will treat you differently for many reasons.

Right now I feel Eros affecting my heart (what I do about that externally is another topic), but I would like transmute it into Agape. I see a chance for spiritual growth here. Any suggestions on how to use it constructively?

This goddamn Houthis ... what a phenomenon

If you have low self-esteem and are unsure about what people think of you, try this exercise with friends or family. Even if you wanna do a reality check on what impression you make on others. It's set up like a game... The Johari window https://www.mygrow.me/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/M2_-Johari-Window-Worksheet-.pdf

@Hayato How can humans who treat animals like that be trusted not to commit atrocities against other humans if time calls... https://www.farmtransparency.org/videos/2w2cni27og

@Ulax Because it is too damn complex. It might take 60 years till a accurate explanation can be drawn, like they try to do now with UAPs and human-alien contact. Anyways it is not that important. Stronger democratization and government transparency is.

Loose Change - a must watch Is there any other event in history with that many recorded anomalies? The official conspiracy theory about a islamist terrorist cell punctuating US air defences and causing thousands of Americans to die in New York and Washington DC, involving dozens of fringe anomalies, is hard to believe.