Bando

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  1. @Yali dude if you want to eat salmon every day eat it, you dont have to take peoples word for it and argue back and forth, 40 years from now if you have brain fog due to heavy metal toxins you'll know your wrong, if not than you were right
  2. Never saw he appeal of the app tbh but by the looks of it it seems to be easy to amass a big following on the platform if you post often enough, 3 of my friends have 100k plus on the app
  3. @ItsNick I always felt Alex was playing a "role"with all the crazy shit he does, at some point you gotta realize how foolish you are
  4. Ofc but thats how the game works, there are certain people that I follow who if they decided to put out a product I would be 10x more likely to buy bc they've given me so much value. I almost feel guilty for not giving them my money lol
  5. Jering off isn't bad lol the porn addiction is, I bet you can't jerk off without watching any porn. Try to go on a porn detox for a week and see how you feel
  6. Business people are going to be business people if you go to any free training, conference, networking event, expect to be sold heavily into buying something, dont get mad thats how they make their money. There are many degrees of marketing/sales tactics ranging from organic to high pressure, most people are going to use the latter as it converts the most people. The rule of thumb I use when buying courses is simple, has the person I'm about to buy from provided massive value to my life for free? Do I have the budget to invest this amount of money into myself? Will I I take responsibility and massive action if I go through with this purchase? If everything checks out and I do my research and ask questions about the product I'll buy it. Chew the meat spit out the bones, think for yourself. At the end of the day you dont know if the information you get is enough to shift your life completely or not make a difference.
  7. This brings up the question of reincarnation, when we die wouldn't our consciousness just manifest into another life form? Some spiritual circles correlate reincarnation only to human life but out the trillions of galaxies there must be many other forms we can come back to, trippy....
  8. @ertopolice Depends on what your looking for if your looking for a genuine relationships I would defiantly recommend using your network or ask any of your friends if they know anybody thats suitable for you. I wouldn't nessaseraliy recommend to approach random guys because that can have the opposite affect as in reality most guys will find that odd and misinterpret you as "easy" I would recommend you go to pubic spots in your area, (if thats an option), make casual small talk with some people and throw heavy choosing signals. Learning how to flirt and make a guy feel comfortable is also a skill you should learn. I wouldn't recommend online dating for a female unless its just for casual sex as or you set boundaries on what you expect from a man. Some of you guys project way to much of your own bs onto other women and then complain why your aren't getting girls lol
  9. Ime, the more polarizing you are with a hot chick the more she is willing to engage with you. Pick up artist capitalize on this and actively teach their students on how to create this polarization which often turns into a shallow understanding of dating. I've acted like a douche in the beginning of my dating journey and got great results but eventually girls would realize how untruthful and narcissistic I was and would end up leaving, which lead me to re-frame how I view dating to build better relationships. Most people in their 20's are trying to figure themselves out and can fall into the trap of going after what feels "exciting" instead of compatabilty which leads to the observation you have. This type of behavior is often seen in stage orange people as most 1st world countries are rooted in at this level so it's not surprising. Especially with social media and the content that is broadcasted to people its easy to understand why both men and women can be attracted to materialistic and shallow things. As people grow older they start to realize compatibility is more valuable that raw attraction so they start to screen these traits out
  10. Lol no advice is going to help you if you don't get experience, stop outsourcing your problems to other people. Make it your mission to ask higher quality questions so that we can actually help you. Go on a few dates, fuck up, tell us your experience and what you should do from there. All your going to get here is mental masterbation. Heres a hint, if you worry that your gf isn't going to enjoy being in your company bc you "ran out of places to go to" you already lost you can take her to the moon and she'll lose interest next week.
  11. Do you pay a subscription for tinder? That app is literally designed so that if you want results you have to pay a membership. You can't get by without paying for dating apps because there are thousands of other guys in your area competing for women.
  12. till this day I still don't know if your trolling for not
  13. Jesus.. just watched the interview, I don't know how someone doesn't go crazy or commit suicide after going through stuff like that. Puts a lot into perspective tho
  14. Patrick isn't a bad guy and is a good example of a solid stage orange business man. He runs a multi-level marketing business so there's still much devilry going on with him but he does give solid advice on finance and business related ideas.
  15. Humans only learn through suffering sigh....
  16. Infields are essentially pointless, all it is that you walk up to a girl without being a creep and speak to her, if you don't meet her threshold of attraction it's game over. Remember for every one infield you see of Tyler he made 75-100 approaches, (his own words) These "in air" theories are gold because when you actually do the work, you naturally come across these sticking points and these videos make that "aha" moment. The only criticism I have for RSD is that its not for newbies as its concepts can only be understood if you are taking action or it can very quickly turn into mental masterbation.
  17. Life is your greatest teacher all your other gurus and teachers are supposed to teach you how to be a better student of life
  18. @Findus What would you say to someone who was in your shoes to get them out of their paradigm of thinking? I remember people tried to explain things to you yet you just kept insulted them, what was the aha moment where you released you were deluding yourself?
  19. Great post, tackling the world as a man from this mentality is much more freeing and makes self-improvement fun
  20. You can avoid half the fights you would get into by not carrying yourself like a pussy, also choose who you fight wisely, some people can be warded off with minimal aggression but some feed on it and take it to the extreme which is how people often get stabbed or worse. If someone off the hinges try to escalate with you, verbally de-escalate the situation and get outta there.
  21. Nice mental gymnastics, don't comment on things you have little experience on.
  22. lol I see why many of you guys have trouble finding sex let alone a decent parter you guys will play any mental gymnastics to avoid approaching women. Many of these approaches take less than 30 seconds to a minute. If you can manage to be creepy in only 1 min of meeting somebody you have a lot of limiting beliefs to overcome. The problem this guy has is that he's not overcoming his personal limiting beliefs as he's approaching girls, he's expecting by approaching that many girls it will magically fix his low self-esteem which is the dumbest thing you could possibly do.
  23. @dsfs You have bigger issues than your hight, you somehow managed to make a limiting belief out of your hight when your 6feet tall c'mon man what's really bugging you?
  24. Here are a few tips Buy foam roller and roll out back Find a pull ar and hang off of it Fix your Posture, look up it up on youtube Invest in a high quality chair that supports your body Look into sitting posture