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Assuming she doesn't flake just go for close you could lose the relationship if shit hits the fan but hey its better than having regret that you could have made something out of this if you only had the balls

Nice little food for thought question are we talking about sex or finding a relationship? Losing your virginity is not hard if you put effort to make yourself more attractive and become a more social person. Getting a quality relationship on the other hand can be more difficult as you have to be a pretty well rounded guy, (emotionally, physically ,mentally) ect. But seriously getting laid is not as hard as people make it out to be. You can compare it to making money, it doesn't take a genius to figure out why most people live a poverty-to- lower middle class lifestyle. It's mostly just bad choices and laziness (on a macro-level). Not saying its going to be easy but the bottle neck here seems to be information not anything else. Most say they want millions of dollars but would be more than happy if they made enough to cover their living expenses and were financially free, just like how many guys say they would love to bang hundreds of chicks when in reality if they banged like 20-30 they would be content with that its all perspective.

Just do it bro there's no tactic that can be used to get her to have sex with you if she doesn't want to. Don't be thirsty and go 2 steps forward one step back, this shouldn't be an issue if she also understands she wants to be "more than friends" with you.

Ive heard that removing your wisdom teeth and molars can mess up with your side profile and give your face a more "flat" look

Yea definitely a tough situation mabey your ranting but you don't seem very happy, have you considered getting a consultation from a divorce attorney to help navigate with finances and other legal issues? (if you guys are married) Do you think you could support your kids by yourself if you guys moved out? Do you have parents or trusted friends you could live with temporarily if you moved? How would your kids react to this? What do you mean by growth, how exactly would you want for him to improve, better communication skills, make more money, give better sex? Have you tried to understand this from his perspective, see what's stressing him out? 8 years is a long time to be with someone and not notice the red flags that this could be a possibility in the relationship. Have you ever thought that he likes where he's at and doesn't see the need to improve and you may be forcing his hand? Based of your posts it seems like your outgrowing your husband and expect him to catch up while that may not be what he wants. If he isn't providing an openly toxic environment for your kids and is helping support them but doesn't have the qualities you want should you leave him and hope to find better? This should be a time for you to reflect and ask these important questions before making any rash moves.

@Zeroguy You would be surprised some people are in relationships and just let problems sit there growing year by year. It's rare you see a relationship where both partners can articulate how they feel without being a dick to each other. It takes being able to listen to the other person and also share your view without being defensive to communicate properly She's in an 8 year relationship with this guy and hast been getting sex for 3 years, if she wanted to leave she could have, which means she obviously cares for this guy and wants to make this work. Stop giving terrible advice

Communicate to him about it tell him "this is really affecting our relationship and I want you to know how I feel" Make him listen to you and bring up the conversation. Also try to catering and inspect to see if anything could be stressing him out that may have to with it, or plan a date/mini vacation you two could go on spark things up. Make sure you take the initiative in this and not play a passive role

So sorry for your loss, there should be a pinned post in the spirituality part of this forum that describes the dangers of this work and moderators should never play word games when someone seems confident in ending their life, no matter if its a philosophical discussion it should be treated as a mental illness and they should dig deeper to find the emotional cause or recommend them to a help line. I know this is a rare case but its not like guy was a loser, he had a wife and two kids with a loving family for christ sake they fact they going to have to continue their life knowing their friend/husband/brother killed themselves for "consciousness" fucking sucks.

Yea its called having money lol, but seriously yes you can she just has to have some level of interest in you, if theres no level of interest there's no chance and you should just move on

@Javfly33 You'll be fine as long as you take care of your image and not come off as a creep, work on making yourself as attractive as possible. What I did when I was in deep with cold approach was i lowered my body fat percentage to around 10-12%, wore form fitting clothes and made sure I smelled good and groomed myself. The "rejections" I got was were very soft and friendlike not the "dont talk to me or NO" that many people here seem to think.

U can bang em, but keeping them is a different story the hotter the chick the more "on her level" (superficially speaking) you have to be to retain her. Dude you gotta stop with this theoretical bs stop wasting time with this and GO OUT

@Javfly33. Your going to be miserable with that strategy you must force yourself to talk to people everyday you don't even have to flirt with everybody just practice with small talk and ramp it up on days your off. Realistically its going to take you somewhere between 500-1000 cold approaches to start becoming socially calibrated to the point it feels "easy" talking to women

@EnlightenmentBlog Intresting story

Theres a part 2 to this madness, i hate to say this but these two are a comedic duo

Thats the name of the game

@Shiva99 Good, but just remember don't get attached to this chick until you smash, i've heard that "I'm not that kind of girl" thing before and there usually the ones to give it up the quickest if you make them feel comfortable. As you get better with game on the most important skills you learn how how to sexually screen girls fast so you don't waste emotional energy or time. I would set up another meeting 1 week from now, even though she's initiating interest you gotta strike while the iron is hot, women's emotions when they first meet a guy are unpredictable, the longer you wait to initiate another meet up the more excuses and bs you will hear when you do set one.

This guy looks, talks and has IQ of a dinosaur

@spacecake You just answered your own question but seriously if busting a nut makes you act this way you got bigger fish to ry

@Shiva99 For the first 2-3 dates Never hang out with a chick more than 2 hours if your not confident you will smash. Giving away your time/emotional energy makes her lose attraction. As hard as it might be don't text her let her be the one to initiate contact with you, if she doesn't move on to the next one

@StarStruck How do you define "beta male provider" Man you can smell redpill dogma a mile away

I've never liked Gordan Ramsey TV persona, in reality he seems like a decent guy but on TV you can see him becoming unconscious ust to improve ratings. Reality TV is the equivalent of eating shit

Ofc talent exist explain to me how someone whose born 6'8 that decides to play basketball wont be more "talented" than a normal guy, don't gaslight yourself. Your strengths are things you either have an unfair advantage in or you just gravitate towards, you will need to practice if you want to fully utilize your talents.

@SgtPepper Nice straw man, I didn't say spank your kid everytime they do something wrong only for serious mistakes, little kids dont understand "no means no" even if you take away the "reward" because their ego hasn't expanded enough to consider other people's perspectives and will continue to do the same behavior if there's no negative consequence. I remember when I was little I would see friends of mine say the most disrespectful things to their parents and i would be thinking "how tf can he say that to his mom, i could never" Ofc this needs moderation and should always be accompanied with a lesson.

You start off trying to build big muscles than you get deep into weight training and genuinely want to see how far you can go. The place your coming from matters the most