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Lets not kid ourself 98% of the people in this forum would represent Coca Cola if the were going to get paid millions, even though they know its not good for you.

Could be a lot worse a least you can move yourself up in society relatively easier than other parts of the world

@Preety_India Don't be like the guys in the forum and ask for so much advice only going to get lost in theory, ts going to set you back even further. Im pretty sure you know what to look for in a man that you would like to be with so just use that measurement. Just as the guys here preach not to take a woman serious until she puts out I suggest you don't overinvest until you start seeing the qualities you want from this guy. You may hold sex to a higher standard than most women so instead of putting out you could flirt and possibly hint towards it if he plays his cards right. As harsh as this might sound, the number one rule in dating is to never overinvest until the person has reached your standard, to do this properly you must have options or you'll get too caught up with the person. You can give him sex and then the next day he might ghost you, thats the risk you take in trying to find a partner, never forget dating is pretty ruthless.

The same way you see this as laughable is the same way women look at pickup up and Redpill. For the most part a mans dating agenda is to get sex as often and quickly as possible while a womans is to extract resources, whether it be time, money or emotional energy. This all stems from evolution throughout 10s of thousands of years, men are able to reproduce very quickly and didn't have to play a large part of raising/nurturing the child as much as the woman did, so she needed to vet him and make sure he was a capable man. Men only screened for qualities that would make a healthy baby like, attractiveness, clear skin, curvy body, ect while woman mostly looked for a man who could care for them and their offspring. I actually discovered this subreddit a while back and it was one of the driving forces that showed me how bs the whole ideology its just horseshoe theory.

Ive had a lot of profound insights on how epistemology works just by studying how men and women go about their dating strategy and how what benefits a man typically goes against a woman's top priorities, vice versa

You cant really tell too much about a person from a date, except for vibes and stereotypes. After dating multiple people you quickly start to pick up on these things. You can only really judge someone's character by how the interact with other people and what worldviews they have but that takes time.

Let her ask the question of where you guys stand and tell her "I'm just letting things play out"make sure she asks first but after that its up to you on how honest you want to be with your intention. If she does ask you if your seeing anyone though tell her you're casually dating and your just trying to figure out what you in a woman since your last break up. Don't sleep over after sex or else you give her the impression you want something more "real" which will cause problems down the road. The more non-sexual attention you give her the more she's going to push for a relationship. She will get tired of being strung along eventually and will quickly move on to someone else though. When I felt I could attract women that I found attractive consistently and didnt fear ending a relationship if my boundaries were broken. Also after you you set a number of bangs you want to achieve and surpass it you realize how much emotional energy and time you wasted dealing with chicks and just move onto developing other areas in your life. You'll naturally know when to stop.

Yea there was some dude who was dissing German girls for like 5 posts straight, came out of field

@Raptorsin7 For most guys anything higher than 30 is considered a high body count as the average guy sleeps with about 7-15 girls their lifetime. For girls I would say anything higher than 20. I remember talking to some of my female friends about this and they would explain to me after a bad break up they would go on a dating spree and fuck the hottest guys they could match with to "regain their confidence" One girl I met from TInder told me she went through a nasty break up and I was her 11 guy she slept with in the past month, that blew my mind.

Most women aren't biologically or emotionally meant to sleep with a lot of men. There isn't anything wrong with it its just how it is, if one of your female friends told you they slept with over 70 guys you would look at her different compared to someone whose only had 3 boyfriends. If your comfortable being in a relationship with men or women with high body counts then good for you but most men would be skeptical to take a woman serious with a very promiscuous past

@John Iverson Dude you keep making these posts about all this theoretical dating stuff, stop consuming so much theory and go out. Come to this forum talking about your dating experiences or what it was like going out for you instead of asking for strategies if you keep going down this path you will become one of those weirdos that knows everything about chicks but can't ever seem to get one.

Bro don't stress about it so much you will experience this over and over in your pua journey, there are so many cute chicks out there who have good personalities, I promise you if you keep going out and take action you will meet another girl like this. Typically when you stress about a date like this things take a left turn, do you think shes being this over analytical about the date she had with you? I'd be focused on just trying to get a second date with her, if she doesn't flake on you beforehand which is most likely going to happen. Don't even worry about "closing" right now you should be focused on the experience of dating a girl your extremely attracted to. Dating hot girls vs girls your moderalty attracted to is two different dynamics get experience in both so you can be authentic no matter what what girl your talking to.

@mamad "What people will do in moderation those who follow will do in excess" Stop giving Leo your authority and think these concepts through yourself

I laugh at my jokes all the time im a funny ass person, as long as its coming from an authentic place and your not doing it to avoid awkwardness its fine

@Peter Miklis The chicken also tastes so much better when its comes straight from the source

If you feel this start up could turn into something and you enjoy the work and their values stick around. Gary Vee was saying that sometimes its better to be the 8th person at facebook that a ceo of your own company

Good share

This is like saying your going to "accidently start a billion dollar business" Mahasamsadhi isnt something you just stumble upon, It take a deep conviction to surrender your physical body and intense spiritual preparation and degrees of consciousness.

Weird right? Lot of passive aggressive responses. Congrats on actually taking action and not creating 50 different threads complaining how men have it difficult getting laid wish you the best @SageModeAustin

@SageModeAustin So im assuming things went good on that date you were talking about on that other thread. Enjoy the ride man

its natural your body naturally gets tired after you bust do it at night if your gonna fap lol

@Godhead That made my stomach churn just by looking at it

Realize you yourself are selfish and exploiting realizing your own double standards allow you to judge people less.

You didn't do anything wrong it just happens she has a bf and was probably hesitant to make a move that might put her in the path of cheating on him. The best time to get the number is either at the end of a small convo or after an emotional spike, (you make her laugh with a joke or some time of story ect.), don't have another convo after getting the number unless your planning on setting up an insta date, from my experience it just drags out the interaction and doesn't really add anything

You should have someone do that to you, get that first experience