Jacob Morres

this is an example of invalidating someone's experience

a man who stands up for himself and his worth and doesn't put up with bullshit from the woman has good intentions in the relationship has high integrity for the woman emotionally stable so he is needing too much from the partner. he can give more and need less I have many more thoughts on this topic but these are the most solid in my mind. but also high vs low quality creates a weird dilemma in the sense that you may feel like you are low quality for not having certain characteristics. just just something to observe

observing the thought and being the witness of the thought distances me from that thought making me realize that it was just a thought and not reality . but just a thought

outside of day/night game, because of corona a website called bloom (speed-dating) opened up where it'll match you with a new person every 8 minutes. i haven't tried it but I want to see if it's good

Bridging insight and creation: Deliberate, focused effort == Leo talks about having requisite variety when in an endeavor. it gives you many solutions and options. and having high requisite variety also gives you hope Brian johnson also talks about this concept by talking about the science of hope. Broken down into 3 steps: "First, we need to know that our future can be better than our present reality and we need to have a clear Goal we’re after. (What’s yours?) Then we need to believe we have the power to make it so. He calls this “Agency.” (How’s yours?) Finally, you need to be willing to pursue multiple Pathways. You need to KNOW that your first path will almost certainly not be the one that actually leads you to your desired destination. You will face obstacles. You’ve gotta be willing to pursue Plan A to Z (then Plan Aa to Zz!). That’s Step 3. https://www.optimize.me/plus-one/the-science-of-making-hope-happen/

This may not be lesser known, but there is a dark side to today's current feminist movement. The world-view is based from trauma, not from truth/love things like "i hate all men" , "men are rapists", "men objectify women", "men are the problem in society", "men are weak, insecure, little boys" I see it a lot on tiktok, i was shocked at how many people buy into it. you can have videos like these that garner millions of views and likes. but then again, millions of views/likes is still a minority if you consider the entire western world. It's like casual misandry. i heard a perspective though that was like, this is a step-up from inequality that women have experienced but there are more steps to this process where instead both parties come together and work together out of love.

i like frank yang. i wonder if it would be an argument video though. i remember frank was a huge leo fan back in the day so maybe it could be a good talk idk.

may be obvious but one thing is focusing on your goals/current needs/desires and consuming information that is directly correlated and helpful for that. i fall under the same trap so i understand Also asking the question: what personal development is most relevant to me?

not at all. it's somewhat culturally acceptable if it is done in a normal way

brian johnson has a great masterclass on productivity. he pulls from a lot of research and disciplines https://www.optimize.me/productivity/

true.. i guess you can't know. but you have already succeeded in some things so that will give you info in those areas but as well like i know that you can test and verify for yourself success principles

Suggestions for Leo's second channel: The answer to your problems can come from holistic thinking 2:28:56 - 2:34:30

Compromising your boundaries to avoid being rejected only leads to a deeper level rejection... you rejecting yourself

found this thread correlated

7 types of inner critics https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inner_critic#:~:text=Jay Earley and Bonnie Weiss,the underminer%2C and the molder.

hahaha https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blamestorming blamestorming vs brainstorming

ive confirmed the principles in my life. it is powerful. i dont want to persuade or dissuade but this was just my experience malcolm gladwell is famous for the 10,000 hour rule but most of the stuff in the book becomes common sense once you study and practice enough success

Empathy without boundaries is self destruction Empathy with boundaires is compassion

As a vote, I'd submit a few

what does your gut say? may not be the end all answer but it could clue you if you do feel like rekindling , try to make sure you can commit to healing and being emotionally conscious of her needs and in my experience, also make sure your needs are met. when i tried to rekindle my old relationship it didnt work because the second time around she went haywire. she became unfaithful and disrespectful

22:06 - 29:12 What do you guys think about this perspective? Agree/disagree?

Bridging theory and practice Insight and integration Def of intelligence is the ability to acquire and apply knowledge. It's not your IQ, your EQ. At least by Websters definition..

yep. but there's a difference between being okay with it versus doubling down on identification ah yes i am not okay... that that is okay vs i am not okay... this is just how life is (but pattern this too can be accepted)

abundance makes it really easy to be detached though

I just thought of this cool theme. Through chaos, emotional difficulty, pain, challenge... better things are born Being wrong is the pathway to being right Making mistakes is the pathway to getting better Through relational conflict intimacy Is born Pain in the muscles when lifting leads to bigger muscles trying to learn something new is hard at first but gains u valuable skills later Creating a new identity will be very difficult but will lead to a more proserpoerous future Digging into your traumas can be scary but leads to better emotional wellbeing There is beauty in difficulty. Moving through it leads to something great