Jacob Morres

Not saying I hit the nail on the head - But I def do know a part of finding good girls is a numbers game. There's a lot of good girls out there and also some abusive people like you mentioned. Finding your type takes time One suggestion is to find your non-negotiables and what you want from a girl. Your type should also be - girls that are into you and sure about you, who feel a good chemistry/connection with, integrous and empathetic etc. That would rule out a lot of the girls you're talking to And also there's what leo mentioned about raising your value

almost never the issue You don't even need that much empathy for what its like to be a woman to get a gf But wouldn't recommend that (for obv reasons) Imo the receipe is: 1. Be detached and patient 2. Work on yourself, increasing your value 3. Develop great social, and flirting skills 4. Use some system where you are interacting with girls 5. Play the numbers game

Hey js men and women have their unique privileges .It's not a one or another thing Not related to the topic tho js Though related to this topic, I do wonder what the most conscious and accurate opinions are here ?

so doesn't a car. yet it's still very useful ?

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@Leo Gura they got both bro, u ever see a regular lookin girl use hinge? When my sis was dating she used to get 10+ likes a day, and she's p avg looks wise (she did have a great profile). She could probably get a date a day if she wanted .. But it doesnt matter. All this thinking corrupts the mind. It's important to realize abundance regardless of your gender, and have healthy frameworks Instead of saying omg girls have it easy... You say, I'm so lucky to live in a city where there are tons of great people and women around me. I can't wait to meet them. Etc.

its hard to deny most girls generally have it easier when it comes to having options But at the end of the day who cares. Tbh its not that hard to meet base checklists

it's valid and understandable based off the stuff he has been putting up with One solution is inner child work and conscious boundaries

Yes, 50/50, no? a lot of girls still expect guys to pay for dates, even in progressive areas What do yall think?

by principle i believe it it should be equal 50/50 especially since most girls split 50/50 after the first date (this is a non-negotiable for me unless she's suffering financially, or isn't entitled to me paying for her stuff) but im just worried that ill lose otherwise good girls by holding to that principle for the first date i might just go for free + coffee dates instead like you guys mention > It all works. Depends on the situation and type of girl. If a girl truly likes you she will not mind about this that's true

some form of self-therapy might be helpful, these are opportunities for more compassion + empathy (towards yourself and others) all negative judgements stupid, lazy, uncaring, selfish, etc. but when dug into, reveal healthier and more accurate perspectives this channel leo linked a while back illuminates what im tallking about

Talking to girls (and developing social skills and with woman) isnt inherently unethical There's def ways you can do it with good intention and social acceptableness ?

i thought this was a good talk

hmm, maybe priority setting would be helpful. what is most important to you? what are your goals?

I think a book on boundaries might be helpful here

Nice win and approach dawg. just try to watch for social cues about her comfortability. If she's not feeling comfortable I wouldn't pressure her too much

drinking with my boys gave me some of my best peak experiences. laughing, having fun, going crazy alcohol also has a unique experience to make you more emotionally open you can also get some good insights in a in a tipsy- drunk state i think if you're using alcohol for fun, connection or sometimes even insight, it can be useful ! Ofc! use your wisdom when approaching all drugs imo. try to only do it in social settings, or as a means of getting insight. be careful of self-deception

Bernie lost despite his massive base, mass appeal(imo, but ig not) and clean history I'll see Marianne winning in like 50-100y maybe I just think America is still too spirally low for her.. I wish Look at the last election, and how many people voted for someone like trump... we had a near 50/50

Stem has little practical value unless your career directly requires it Um, and even then a lot of it won't even be used on the job I'd find which careers you're looking for, what kind of work is required to land those jobs

Fair. Though, at a soul level, people may appreciate it. If that makes sense But a good soul isn't enough

@Emerald very interesting thanks for sharing i think thats important for development in general - what's life without those qualities you listed? though have you seen this video? curious on your thoughts. skip to 11:08

What do you define as the feminine? Kindness, empathy, vulnerability, compassion etc.?

i mean yeah dude it's not easy. it takes a ton of work and character development i'm not really talking about shady guys. i'm talking about if u want to be able to get consistent dates, or a good sex life.

this is the one i said i mean yeah i agree with it - most are very picky nowadays. but i also agree with putting in the effort to solve it from the man's POV but i also think it's a complex systemic issue rather than women's fault. there's tons of factors that lead to the dating crisis for men these conservative view points dont interest me so be careful putting everyone in the same bucket