Princess Arabia

A rubber ducky. 😛

Meanwhile.........the guy with the other mindset is winning. Go Playa it's yo birthday, go and party like it's yo birthday. Don't listen to social media, it's yo birthday, go get that girl she wants you, it's yo birthday. Find me in da club, it's yo birthday. Lol

No one is going to write about women finding most guys relatable, negativity gets more views and clicks and social media feeds drama. I can go out and ask 20 women tomorrow if they find most guys creepy and most will say no. I see at least 20 couples on a daily basis and on the weekends they are too many to count. What reason would anybody have to write an article about this or who doesn't find who creepy. Of course there are creepy men, but the majority aren't.

Hush. Feminine women still crave masculinity. It's only over for those who think it is. That mindset will not get you anywhere with women. The problem is not with the independent women, it's with the men who shy away or gets intimidated by them. These women are being told by coaches to play dumb or not show their independence as much if they want to attract the man they want to not seem competitive. So, it's not that women are independent, it's that the men are intimidated by it. Plenty of women are in coaching to learn how to dumb themselves down without losing themselves just to attract men.

What a shit show.

Not true. That's it. Just not true.

You're the prize for today, my love. 😘

Everything and everywhere in the male/female dynamic screams women are the prize. Why do you think women are looked at and labelled sluts and whores when they're sexually promiscuous or even dress a certain way. Why are men looked at as the don, the man, gets congratulated or whatever, we know the deal, when he's the one being promiscuous or getting laid by the dozen and why do so many men wish to be in those shoes. Do you think it's because he is the prize? Do you not see how when the prize acts like it's not the prize it's labelled as a slut or whore. It's because the prize has now been levelled down to being the competitor. Men will be looked on in positive ways when they're sexually active because sexually they have won the prize. Yeah, more power to you. Guys don't realize what they're saying to each other when this happens. Guys who call women sluts and whores for sleeping around don't know on a conscious level that they're saying you fool, you have given the prize away. We don't say this to men because there's no prize there. This is just on a sexual level. It's not the sex or sexual organs that makes the woman the prize, not saying that, it's the feminine VS masculine dynamic and the ways they're expressed. This dating section screams women are the prize and I'm not talking about guys wanting to have sex with women. It's shown in very subtle ways. Nothing to do with sex.

These terms are being used loosely without understanding what they really mean in this context. No need to chase a woman down if she's obviously not interested. No need to chase women just to be chasing women to see who will run out of breath so you can catch up. No need to chase women just because you're a horny son of a gun that just wants to get laid by whomever. I mean we can go on about that. However, when a man sees what he likes, what he wants and if it's appropriate, he needs to take the lead and initiate that initial encounter. He doesn't need to, I'm saying that's where leadership comes in. A man that knows how to lead will know when a woman desires to follow. He won't have to chase her down like a cat chases a mouse, but he'll take the appropriate steps to allow for her to respond to his advances and see from there how she responds back. Women know the cues to send out to a man she likes and is attracted to and it's up to the man to read through the lines. No need to chase. As far as the prize goes, the woman is the prize to herself first then she's the prize for the man. Not every woman knows how to act like the prize and then the man, if he's feminine, will start to think he's the prize. The woman is the prize always but not every woman will know and understand this, and this may lead to an imbalanced relationship where she's competing for his love and affection and this is very disempowering for women. Prize, in this case, doesn't mean one is better than the other or above the other. If a man sees himself as valuable to a woman, then she becomes a prize to him and someone he can express his value upon. If he happens to win her over then he has won the prize and his value can now be expressed in a way where it's appreciated both ways. What good is value if it's not unleashed.

Yes, but we're dancing right now with whatever responses given to the question. The dance is the belief that one is the prize and the dance is the responses given. It's all a dance and we can play the game of whose the prize. No biggie.

Love is the absence of separation.

Nice!

How you gonna reach God. God is Boundless, timeless, unlimited, not a thing, is everything. What is there to reach. That's a position. Why are we trying to box this, i don't know.

The bum on the street, talking out loud to himself constantly, the ones you see that are always talking to themselves no matter when you see them, they mind their business, they look at you like you're not even there, they may dig through the trash, laughing out loud and smiling and looking like they're having a conversation with someone, you might see them for years doing the same things, they are actually in silence. You, my friend, who are constantly in your head, worrying about this and that, contemplating about that and this, every second there's a thought, thoughts haunt you everyday, you're constantly in quiet mode but the thoughts are rampant, you, my friend, need a retreat, you need meditation, you need to learn how to quiet the mind or how to not identify with thoughts. Notice how those bums are always smiling, never looking worried. They talk all day about nothing and thoughts aren't there. Their thoughts are being spoken out loud while their insides are quiet. Outside doesn't matter, it's what's inside thar counts. I always talk about bums because I find them to be more directly in tuned, less neurotic and more sane, happy and content than the rest of us in a weird kind of way.

Yeah, maybe.

Nevermind, I don't know what I'm saying.

I'm speaking more on the initial attraction level. Of course, we love interested men but that's usually much later on and after the attraction phase. The word enjoy implies on an ongoing level which suggests she's already invested time into getting to know you and is now enjoying the decision she made. I'm speaking more on what it takes for her to even get to the enjoyment phase. I guess it's more of a choice of words and fascination just doesn't cut it for what it takes for a woman to feel romantically inclined.

That's what I was referring to when I said that. Before I even read this part, I was going to comment this when you said men aren't fascinated........ - then you said it. Men are fascinated with a woman's beauty, women aren't fascinated with a man's personality and charm which is what is used to tickle her fancy. If she feels fascinated, you're in the friend zone and being admired that way, not to make her moan and groan. She's fascinated with her cat's or dogs tricks. It may work if you're a magician doing tricks or if you're displaying some type of talent, not just by your presence.

Ok.

Women aren't looking to be fascinated with men. You seem to be describing the emotions that some men respond to when they see a woman at times. Fascination and mystery doesn't tickle a woman in this way especially to want to be with you intimately. You're describing a toy or a present. She wants to feel spontaneous, raw and direct emotions not anything that puts her in the future. "To find out" is future. The only thing she wants to find out is what she's presently feeling, how you're making her feel now, not how you will make her feel. I have a feeling you're thinking women respond in this way like how you respond. No, it's different. Men are more logical, women more emotional. Emotions are felt in the present. Think of it this way.

Lol, you made me choke reading this. 😅😅

Guys, if it's just about sex, listen to Leo, if it's about a relationship, don't. You'll be lost and confused. Women love that you care about what she likes, it shows you care about her as long as you're not kissing her ass. Here he comes, I'm not listening. I don't care what you like. Lol

You want a pickmeisha. Lol. Poor woman, chasing a dog. She'll catch you and you'll be like next. BTW, not calling you a dog. Figure of speech.

No, that's what men want. We don't care about your mysterious self, just come direct.

The word "my" should tell us that that's duality and a dream. Reality screams this shit.