Princess Arabia

You don't know that, women just have a way of hiding it and aren't willing to just flaunt their horniness around. It only seems that way to you because men find it harder to get sex so they think it's because women aren't horny fucks. Every couple I've dated in my work, the woman was the horniest.

I wouldn't take it too literally. It's not because women love to be raped. Maybe it's also a control issue but in reverse. I can assure you, it's not fun being sexually violated. She still chooses the partner she feels comfortable with to fulfill the fantasy. Porn is popular because it's not real life, it's fantasy. Fantasies happen because we aren't really looking for it in real life but just as a fantasy. For most people the fantasy being lived out wasn't as satisfying as when it just remained a fantasy.

Don't be fooled. She's mentally tough and can handle it. Watch out for yourself, she'll crush you. Lol

Yes daddy, but..lol. I literally hesitated to use the word in my response but I was hoping you wouldn't make the correlation. I should have known better....you're a guy...and probably a freaky one at that...hehe.

Lol. I'm 97%.

For sure. BTW, I agree with most of the points you've made in this thread. I say most because....c'mon, no one's perfect. Lol

Not sure about that, but OK...i won't argue that point.

Yes, but the missing piece of the puzzle is dependent on for what......surely not to be their daddy or to be treated as a child but more as a container for security and safety. That's not a dysfunction it's a need.

Lol. Yes, it's a rape fantasy a lot of women have. I think what I'm talking about is different, though, as a woman isn't looking to really get raped and wouldn't ask this from a stranger or someone she wouldn't consent to sex with in the first place. The male that rapes unsuspecting women, isn't asking his gf to act out this fantasy usually, he goes out and preys on women who wouldn't normally consent to him in the first place, that's the engine that fuels his desire to rape.

Some men get more turned on by non-consensual sex. If it comes too easy, it's not as challenging for the dysfunctional mind that seeks power over women. Most men aren't rapists and will never rape a woman, but most get turned off by easy sex even if they accept. (not referring to gfs or wives here). They like the pursuit. Men are competitive. It's the chase that excites. That's why overtime you get bored with your wife or gf. Nothing to do with rape, I repeat, it's just a mindset. It's like the forbidden fruit.

Biggest misnomer in the dating world. I challenge you next time you go out and about where there are lots of people and couples, check out the guys. Most are ordinary looking, maybe with a gut and straggly beard, short or skinny and seem awkward with attractive women next to them. Attractive people stand out, most people don't. One usually has to go to special places where attractive people hang out to see them in drones.

Same reason why celebrities with lots of money shoplift. For the thrill and because they can. You're trying to make sense out of nonsense.

The Piraha are naturally enlightened.

The ego thinks it owns the ego. Nice read.

That's what I said.

It's all one of the same. Can't separate the two. Spirituality is at the core of life, PERIOD. Try as you may to separate them, and you only become a fool trying to chase your own tail and end up spiraling up your ass and down the rabbit's hole. No, but I know what the feeling is like for whatever caused that snake bulge. Feelings are Universal and are not gender based. The bulge is only a symptom of the cause. Stop using that excuse to dismiss a female's perspective. Female doctors also treat male patients' sexual issues.

The beginning of the masturbation, in your case, started with your disdain for porn, so yes, they are related. Can't solve a problem without going to the root. Masturbation will soon become the enemy because it was borne out of porn.

So is Youtube, instagram, social media on a whole. Even this forum can be addictive. I could also name other things, but you get the drift. These I mentioned aren't porn, just other avenues to allow for the addictive mind to express itself. THE MIND IS WHAT'S ADDICTIVE. THOUGHTS ARE WHAT'S ADDICTIVE. These abstract objects have no life until you give them life, until the mind succumbs to it's own neurosis. Please try and get this. I'm not trying to be cute. I'm trying to open up your mind to see things on a deeper level and not just on the surface. I'm also a victim of the mind and that's why I can recognize it. I'm speaking from experience, just different content, same structure. It's all the fucking same. All boils down to one thing - ESCAPISM!!! If it's not porn, it'll be something else because there's only one denominator here - you.

I suggest you use this thread to help in the grieving process. Make it your little diary where you post things that you can reminisce about and express your thoughts and feelings about your devastating loss. When my mom died, that's what I did and it helped me to go through that difficult time. I ended the diary when she got buried. I was still grieving, still am, but it's at another level where it's out of love and not pain. I'm lying!! I just shed a tear writing this. It's OK, it's still out of love. It will never go away, but it's a healthy grief and not destructive. Death of a pet, which I also experienced about 6yrs ago, my beloved cat, pumpkin, was also hard and I swore I would never get another cat. Then Titi, my current cat, appeared out of nowhere 2yrs later. I say nowhere because I never planned it. One never knows. I feel your pain. Let it take it's course, however long it takes.

What would make someone watch those things in the first place. They are not on TV, on billboards, or being advertised as trailers. Even on porn sites, one has to click on those types of videos and titles to view the content. Plus, the only way it could have a negative effect is if one stayed there and actually watched it. You are blaming the porn but not acknowledging the type of mindset that would even click on that content to begin with. Plenty of stuff exists in the world that you don't know about mainly because you're not focused on those types of things, amongst other reasons, and the Universe's natural algorithm lays dormant and out of reach for you until you express interest or are at a vibrational match to it.

You're asking some real questions. Questions that really gets to the core. This is why they are so hard to answer. These questions force one to go within to the real issues and because we're so used to looking outside and blaming "dead objects" for our "alive" problems (images and memories VS our feelings in the moment) we cannot answer because the answers are the real issues we face which has not been looked at and dealt with because it's easier to put the blame on what we've been focusing on, which is the outside world.