Princess Arabia

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Most people don't perceive sex workers to be sluts. Where did you get this notion. They consider them hoes. There's a difference. Hoes get paid sluts don't. The hoes on the streets refer to themselves as hoes. When they talk about other hookers, they sometimes refer to them as hoes. It's their slang term, just like black people refer to themselves and their buddies as niggas. The guys refer to the girls that sleep around with Tom Dick and Harry around town for nothing sluts. There's no shame in the game for hoes. They're proud of what they're doing; and believe it or not, the men respect them more. This is referring to hookers in the casinos, hotels or on the streets. As far as strippers. They are just dancing semi-nude or nude. No slut shaming there. And for porn stars, they are just porn stars, guys don't refer to them as sluts. In fact, their convention in Vegas is a huge hit. It's idiots that refer to these women as sluts. The sluts are the ones sleeping with different men on a regular basis with no commitment and are just throwing their cuchie around town for guys to use, if people wanna call women sluts. I personally don't, but if you wanna get technical. It's guys who are sleeping with these loose women who call them sluts or guys who can't get laid or guys who can't afford hookers or guys who just down right hate. Women who call other women sluts don't count and are probably being secretly called sluts themselves. Women will call a girl that stole her boyfriend a slut, women will call a virgin a slut just because she's scantily dressed and guys are hitting on her, women don't count, its a competition and jealousy thing sometimes with them. Believe it or not, except for porn stars, most girls in the overall industry aren't having intercourse with strange men on a regular basis, they're doing other stuff yes, but not a lot are having sex. Why aren't the men considered pigs and dogs for patronizing these workers, if men could do it, they would in a heartbeat. Why are the females in porn considered sluts by some, what about the men. It's the double standard that kills me. Women can't be sluts on their own, they need willing participants. So what are we labelling these men, macho's the Don, players, if anything men are the sluts. As far as relationships go, idk about their personal lives, for me personally, I'm the one that's weary about guys and their faithfulness, since being in the industry and seeing how many men cheat. I'm the one that think twice. I think for myself and don't get caught up in stigmas and people's ignorance. Men are the horny pigs and are easily swayed by tits and ass, so I'm the one who have to be picky with whom I let into my heart. I'm the one who has to watch out for the players and not getting used just for sex. Money is tangible, so women who use men for their money is nothing compared to a man using women for her precious body. We're the ones who have to worry in this department.

You're right. And I also want the OP to know my rant wasn't aimed at him nor any particular person on here. I went off and I apologize for that. I could have easily ignored the post and keep it moving. What happened was I guess i just get tired of seeing these kinds of posts and I also have a little resentment towards society for putting sex workers in a particular category when nothing is as it seems. I'm not saying there aren't some sex workers who act shamefully and are just sleeping around, but the work itself isn't shameful as opposed to what most regular people are engaging in, yet we keep getting a bad wrap only because we're getting paid to do what other people are doing or even worse. This work, as in any other, depends on who is doing it and how they carry themselves and treat the job. It's just always generalized. I don't have this problem in my personal life because the people that know me personally, know my lifestyle, my personality and I'm far from what most people think most sex workers are like. I come across most men who should be ashamed of what they are doing, if anyone is to be ashamed, than the sex workers themselves, and i'm not really saying they should be ashamed either as my rant may have suggested, I was just ranting. I was more ashamed of myself looking back when I was much younger, just sleeping with guys because I liked them and I was just young and stupid. I wasn't ashamed at the time but just looking back. Now that I don't do that anymore, I'm supposed to be a slut for working in the adult industry or being an escort or prostitute. Nothing a woman does will exempt her from being a slut, whore or used up. Sleeping around you're considered a slut, being a prostitute you're considered a slut. I have become closed off from men sexually because of these stigmas. I don't even want to do it anymore with just regular guys because my mind just won't allow it. Women aren't having sex with themselves so guys are also engaging in promiscuous activities but we're the ones getting a bad wrap and being called names, so I just don't do it any more. This is why some women are staying away too and just being gold diggers or searching out a special kind of man. Damn if you do, damn if you don't so fuck that, just don't do it at all, and now incels are born wondering why they can't get laid. So, to answer the original question, we don't care about labels anymore, we either abstain or charge. Personally, I don't have sex, very very rare, but I charge for everything else so I'd rather be a paid slut than a used up one. Guys are the ones that are patronizing the sluts, so what does that make them, a slut enabler, you tell me. Prostitutes aren't sluts, if anything regular girls giving it up for nothing on a regular basis with lots of different men are, even though I'm not personally calling them that, just saying.

You guys have no idea what goes through the mind of a sex worker from whichever category vs. the average female on the street. You're not going to find too many sex workers in swingers clubs where regular people just flaunt themselves and having all kinds of sex with anyone they find attractive and everybody in there kissing and making out with random strangers. You won't find too many sex workers in multiple partner relationships at one time. You won't find too many sex workers stuffing their tongues down random guys throats just for the hell of it, not even working. You won't find too many sex workers having unprotected sex when I've come across numerous men who were more than willing to engage in all the above. I've come across many young girls, whether they're in college or work regular jobs and who are not in the sex field, who goes out on the weekends in droves scantily dressed and swinging their backside all over the place and hooking up with numerous random guys in elevators or parking lots. You can just spot them a mile away. I've seen numerous regular people engaging in promiscuity all over the place and most of these women are either nurses, ckerks, assistances, whatever kind of regular jobs you can think of excluding the sex industry. Depending on the strip club, most guys can't even touch the girls. Yes, they have a champagne room where more things go on, but it's still business. It's part of the job. Being in the sex industry is not promiscuity, it is a job. It is your problem if you don't see it as such. The content is different than a regular job, but it is still a job, that clients are happy to patronize. It is your problem if you want to get personal with it, not the worker. It is your problem if you consider the workers sluts. It is your problem if you want to look down on a sex worker and try to shame her. I've personally been repulsed by men who will sleep with Mary, Sue, Karen or Kiki just because they are horny pigs. I'm more repulsed by guys who want to sleep with a different girl every week just because he's horny. I'm more repulsed by men who lie and cheat on their wives just to get laid. I'm more repulsed by men who would fuck a strange woman without a condom or even engage in oral sex with a strange woman they just met without worrying if she has herpes or not. I'm more repulsed by hypocritical men who are dogging down the town preying on women just to get laid without caring about her and her well being. There are more regular women out there engaging in random sex and hook-ups with men they meet online or in person just for the hell of it. Why is there shame in trying to make a living using your precious resources if men are willing to pay for it. It is a shame for any woman to just open her legs for random Tom who just uses her and throws her away. That's the shame. It is a shame where so many men are out raping drunk women and taking advantage of their drunkness. It is a shame when men think a woman is promiscuous if she is behind a camera making money off her boobs to pay her rent for horny married guys who just go around laying up all kinds of different women every week. It is a shame when the same guys who are disgusted with the business are the ones out looking for whores and prostitutes to lay up with. It is a shame when a guy might not like you and dispises you, but he is still willing to bang you because he can't keep his dick in his pants. "He might still fuck you, but doesn't mean he respects you" is a common term floating around. That's the shame. I wish more women would keep their legs closed for you horny hypocrites who look down on women for the same shit you're doing only worse. There could never be a lucrative sex industry if it weren't for the millions of men who patronize it, but it's the women who are being shamed for this. All kinds of loyal, monogamous married women out their getting abused by their husbands and getting cheated on by them and who are having unprotected sex with all kinds of regular non sex working women, why don't we shame those men. No, it's the women's fault, or if they are seeing prostitutes it's the prostitutes fault for preying on his weekness, it's her fault why men cheat on their wives. If it wasn't for prostitutes men wouldn't have this option or some other kind of bullshit story. Can we start making threads and posts about men who cant keep their dicks in their pants, can we make threads about men who cheat, can we make posts about men who wants to fuck multiple women and goes out preying on drunk women, can we make posts about women who keeps giving it up for free without a commitment, can we start making posts about men who constantly use women for sex and who doesn't give a shit about her, can we make those kinds of posts instead of always worrying about sex workers who couldn't care less what others think about them. Can we make posts about rapists and gang bangers, who should be ashamed of themselves. Can we make posts about these things. Sex workers are out getting paid. Don't worry about them.

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I know, it's ridiculous how much poison is in our so-called food. I try not to get carried away and go crazy, I just pick my poison because you can't escape it all. I try to choose things that are fresh and whole and buy packaged goods from brands I trust a little. I still buy generic stuff but it depends on what it is. To me, going overboard is buying brown toilet paper to wipe your ass, because you're scared of the bleached white ones. C'mon that's a little extreme.

I think what he meant was the powdered form, sold in containers in the stores. Some are dyed to look yellow and do contain other stuff, just not sure what. I'll still buy the powdered from a trusted brand but only to cook with, never in smoothies or tea.

I'm not talking about the health benefits of the fruit itself, it is packed with antioxidants and nutrients, I'm speaking of the brand. Most of those brands are just hype, even Bai. 90% of them. It being from concentrate is not the only issue, they are not just hype, they are also causing harm. A lot of these juices are no better than soda, you just have to know which brands and those are far fetched. I trust Knudsen's brand juices to be one of the healthier store-bought juices. I'm sure there are others but not many.

Maybe the different spices and brands but I buy the fresh turmeric. Most stuff i buy is the whole food, especially if I'm using for health benefits or cooking, I don't trust a lot of packaged goods, even though there are certain brands I trust to come close to the real thing.

I cut it in the sink, then I place it on the cutting board beside the juicer, then juice. A bit of juice might hit the counter, but it doesn't stain if you wipe it right away. And if it does, baking soda will take it away. I have more problems with turmeric always staining my hands and appliances, but it's worth it.

No, you mean with the red stains?

That's if I want something to drink. I eat them whole too. Diversity.

That's no good either, it you're looking for health benefits. I know you'll dispute that, but thought I'll still share. It's made from concentrate and it's not in the least bit worth the hype. Neither are the Naked drinks formerly owned by Pepsi Cola. A lot of these companies and fancy juices are not healthy, they just know how to market them. Take that for whatever it's worth. I just buy the pomegranate, cut it in half and juice it with a citrus juicer. I also add grapefruit and oranges.

Agreed. It's all a part of the design, like everything else. It really makes no sense to hate anything because everything, when put together, makes the complete whole. It's like a map cut into pieces, put the pieces together and everything fits perfectly like a jigsaw puzzle.

When I tell someone who is suicidal or depressed, "you are loved" I speak about God's love. God's unconditional love, but most don't see that or don't care for that. They want human's conditional love. Life isn't fair precisely because it is fair. That's the paradox. It can't be fair to one and still be fair to all because we are all different. So in order to be fair to all its parts, it pleases all in different ways, the only reason we can't see the fairness of life is because we live in separation. God would be selfish if life was fair.

Yeah, I know. Shame on you men. Then again, shame on you women. Does blowjobs count.?

Tell me how many of us go work on these things when boredom hits. That's what society is for, go distract yourself, or call someone to do it for you. That's what we do. The entertainment playground. Yippee. No self-reflection here. Let's find something to do. That's why the lock down woke so many up. But you're right, though, God invented distractions to distract itself from itself. So if doesn't find itself just to find itself. Silly God. God you so silly. Oh wait, that's me.

I don't think it was, don't have sex, but more don't enjoy it. If you did, that wasn't considered ladylike or you're a slut or something silly like that. Imagine a society telling women to don't have sex and they comply, then men wouldn't have anybody to call whores and sluts. Hehe

Nah, anybody can do it though. Just try to find yourself. It's still a thought. I'm thinking this to myself. There's still a me trying to find myself, and it only happens when I deliberately try to do it. It's kinda hard to describe, but I'll try. It feels like there's no point of reference. When I look at something, like an object, or anything for that matter, it seems to be coming from within my eyes and it's not really out there. My eyes kinda look like a mirror when I'm looking from within them, through them. Nothing special about that. It's like it's always been that way, just never noticed before. Nothing hard to do, just sit there, or stand, and try to look out your eyes from within. Sometimes it even seems like there are no eyes, only what's out there and sometimes like there's no out there only what's coming from the eyes. It's weird, but I can only see it when It's deliberately done, which is pretty often, because I got so used to doing it, but it comes automatically after sleeping and when I first open them. Like I came from somewhere and now I'm back. I'm sure anybody can do it too if they concentrate on the eyes when they're open. As far as trying to find myself, that is just all the time. The "sensation" of that, though, is mostly up top, from the neck up. I say sensation, not that I feel anything, quite the contrary, but I can't find another word to use. But apart from all I described, I still feel normal like before just aware of these things that I never noticed before. Years ago, tho, I used to ask myself, what is this thing that keeps following me around that I can't pinpoint. I remember asking myself that a few times. I would also look at a person and said to myself, I wonder what it would be like to be in their body and sometimes it felt like I was in their body. I dunno, just seems like anybody can do this. My mind just gets into different states but I don't dig too deep because I notice I start to get scared if I do, so I quickly snap out of it especially with the eye part. Not scared scared but a weird feeling.

Scary looking eyeballs. Nice quote, though.

Yeah, it's kinda weird. Even my memories are seeming fake. Like they never happened. Today I went to the store and when I got back, it felt like I never left. I was back on my couch and said to myself, I felt like I never went anywhere. Weird shit. Even when I wake up in the morning and as soon as I open my eyes, things look funny like I im looking at a mirror with pictures in it. And then my eyes get adjusted.

Ever sit down and try to find yourself? I can't find it. Lol. I'm like, where am I. Anywhere I point to it's not me. No, I'm not trippin'.

Ever seen the movie The Three Faces of Eve. She had multiple personalities. Good movie. Kinda old though. I'll try to be a little more patient and lenient with you, then, as I see it's not your fault, and only when you're responding to me, cause it's not my business how you respond to others.

Love these. I use the meat to make coconut milk sometimes and use it to make curry chicken or in smoothies. Just add water and blend. Delish!

Yeah, I saw it. I thought it was kinda weird. I couldn't really get into it, though. I saw all the buzz and I rented it off YT. I wanted to watch it again. Maybe it'll hit different second time around. I know the story line is about jumping in and out of Realities but it was a bit too fast for me to grasp, as I'm kinda slow when it comes to watching movies. Lol. I like the Lifetime movies where they're easy to understand, but ill watch it again.