Princess Arabia

Respectfully speaking, as I do value your opinions, but isn't this also judgemental? You know how the saying goes, " believing not having any beliefs is the way to go, is still a belief. Aren't you judging her for having judgements? Explain this to me as it's coming from a place of genuine curiosity of the meaning behind this perspective.

Thoughts follow a certain pattern. Previous thought will be followed by a similar thought etc, so train the mind to focus on where you want it to go and the thought patterns you want to thread and it will get used to following the pattern. Just like how this thread is about a particular topic and we focus on the topic, same thing with thoughts. Moderators will say stay on topic, don't drift off topic. Same thing. It takes practice so start in your daily life. For instance, if you're trying to approach. Notice the thought, if it says, she won't like me, I'm nervous, I'm ugly, my game sucks, consciously switch it to, so what, life goes on, not the end of the world, if she rejects, her loss. Just don't tell yourself stuff you don't believe yourself just yet because the mind will bully you back. Keep it simple and keep doing it over and over till you start to believe it and similar thought patterns will follow. If you get rejected, and you find thoughts come like, see I told you so, switch it to another thought consciously, speak out loud to yourself in a whisper. Say like, see, I'm still alive, nothing happened to me, she rejected because someone better is coming etcetc, use your imagination. Eventually, you will see the change in the pattern but you have to be aware, aware of your thoughts, drift it back to focus. It takes time but it will be worth it because now you're re-training the mind which takes practice.

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Not picking on you but you do have the word "DEBATE" in your heading. Just so you realize that.

Oh that was YT....duh, thought it was your personal video, I just read the title: Sparkle and me and thought that was Sparkle and you

Nope. I don't even have to look that up. Nope they weren,t. The 16yr old too?

Even in the submissive/domination world, the submissives are giving permission to the doms to dominate them. You won't k keep asking everytime nor do you need to ask your already gf and sometimes it's how you ask that matters. Non-verbal cues can be present. Its not so much about verbal asking especially if its someone new.

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Your profile Pic looks so feminine, I thought you were female, just realized you were male. But I kind of started to sense that from the way you were commenting. No biggie, it just threw me off.

Its not. That's why I asked gender. Sounds like a male's perspective. The whole tone.

Are you male?

Is that your cat and your shoes.

OMG, the Artistry of God. Look to the bottom left, tho, see that face, looks like a white cloud. Looks like Satan saying, where you going, come back, I'm not done with you. Or darn, almost had him. Or looks like that old man across the street looking at me yesterday.

Love this.

@Phil Kinggave you good goal-oriented advice. Some i could use myself. I just know it's good advice from listening to the experts. But I can shed some light here. No, you don't. You're seeking something. Something in this department is lacking within. You will push away more women than you will "bang". I get the lingo. It's cool. Macho. Playerish. But its not you. You're imitating. Parroting. You just broke up with your gf so now you're broken hearted and don't care and just want to bang, bang, bang and more banging till you don't feel the hurt anymore. C'mon baby let me bang you up. Now you're in love with a fantasy actress from I think Egypt. She can't hurt you. She's safe. I'm not a psychologist but I'm intuitive. Sometimes I'm wrong but it's what I see and feel from you. You're searching so hard. Searching, searching, searching. See how you phrase "any advice in how to achieve that, asap", that's desperation. You're desperately seeking Susan. Susan is right here, right now staring you in the face, but you can't see her because you are looking out there somewhere. You're like a little child crying for its mama and mama won't come. So you cry harder. Now you want money asap, you want to bang more bitches, you want to follow this religion, you want to do this and do that. Slow down. You'll get a heart attack, a mental one. Just chill. Infinity is right here, right now no need to go looking for it. Follow your heart, yes do stuff, make money, bang bitches, follow some religion if you chose, do these things because of the experience not for the need to fill a gap you think is missing. Nothing is missing. Bang all the bitches you want, get it out your system, until you realize, hey, its not here. Then go to guys, bang them too, till you realize, hey it's not here either. You'll be banging and banging and banging your head against the wall till there's no more wall left to bang then you either cave in or cave out. Your choice.

Why judge at all. Why bother. Who says we need to judge. What's the point in that. I judge, but I know there's no point. There's no point in this conversation either, but I'm doing it anyway. Have a good night. Going to bed. Hope you feel better tomorrow.

Ok. Fair enough. Your self-talk is destroying you. When you say I don't care about you, your mind hears I don't care about you. All of what you're saying on here is turning the tables on you.

It's obvious what's going on here. Self-hatred. Now you're hating on others.

You're seeing through your own bullshit. That's what.

This is the problem right here. You don't know that for sure. You're assuming. Not saying he would or not. Be we get judged off the bat before proven otherwise. You don't know him. Why are you predicting his behavior ahead of time.

Free will debunked

Goodnight

I haven't been rude to you, so don't start with that. I've been cordial.

Maybe he's saying you need to awaken.

I'm trying to figure out what he's saying