Princess Arabia

I'm trying to show you how claiming things as yours will inflict pain and suffering. Perfectionism now found itself a home and because it's not welcome it suffers. You have to start to dissociate one from the other. Perfectionism is a label you have put unto some form of behavior and now you're claiming perfectionism to be yours. My arthritis, my depression, my weight, my anxiety, my this, my that. Ownership. The ego doesn't like to lose anything. You are creating your own suffering by claiming these things to be yours.

Ok

The world is an illusion so how can you view it based on truth. Delusion is if you don't recognize that it's illusory. Then we can experience it accordingly.

When you say "you're having" who is the "who" you're referring to?

What's so good and fun-spirited about disrespect. "A ring don't cover a hole?" Is that what you say to somebody who says they're married. You even call it a comeback. Why do you need a comeback for when somebody says they're married. At least make it a respectable comeback like, lucky guy, or ok then, ill leave you alone or something of that nature. Then you say girls crack jokes like that and worse all the time as if to justify your tasteless joke. Easy to say that when there's no proof, to blame others for your disgusting, tasteless, disrespect. Even if girls say stuff like that, why would you want to be like them. Why compare yourself to those types of girls. Do you murder people because other people do it too.

Ok

Are you agreeing with the OP, though, and everything that was said and you're just adding to that?

I'm still trying to process this, but this makes sense when we say life is a dream. What about you to the other person. You keep saying the other person talking is just our own thoughts. Am I just their own thoughts too. What about the saying that we are not thinkers and thoughts are just appearing. How does that fit into this. Something isn't clicking for me.

Makes sense

It doesn't prove it, but you might have a point there.

Humans hate every fucking thing. We hate the rich, the poor, all races, nationalities, beautiful people, ugly people, skinny people, fat people, men, women, animals, ourselves, the Liberals, the Republicans, gay people, just make a choice; something to hate. Then we make up excuses to justify our hatred saying all this and all that is a certain way just to cover-up our own self-hatred. Pointing the finger at something in the outside world as a target for that inner hate. The energy has to go somewhere. Instead of looking within to see where that hate is coming from, we make up all kinds of stories about the hated. They are this and they are that. "ALL" we say. Not just the ones we've met, but all. That in itself should tell you it's just projected hate coming from within, from the heart. Now we go around asking for solutions to this problem and that problem that we're having. Oh! I can't get laid, please help. I'm depressed because of so and so, should I take psychedelics. Or I have low self-esteem, I need help feeling confident. LOVE trumps all. Find the love inside and most of our so-called problems will dissolve. The hate that you feel for whatever it is that you hate is hurting you more than the thing being hated. Humans create their own demise without realizing it. Then we wonder why we suffer. That hate energy made it on a public forum, now others got infected because they are also lost and their hate energy found itself some company and now the hate party got started.

This whole talk is so shallow and silly. Ignorance is bliss and misery loves company. Such biases and nonsense. Stereotyping only from what you've all experienced from the millions of attractive women world-wide.

What happen to your other post where you're Mr. Hot Shot, where everybody loves you.

This makes sense of "death". It's cool, I think. Another thing to tell people who you want to get rid of. They'll be like 'bye, talk to you later.... or not.

I have my own built in ear-plugs. Excuse me, excuse me, can't hear you, what, speak up, what was that. Them: Aw, fuck this. Me: Next.

Looks like the guy from American Psycho movie who kept looking in the mirror while having sex.

If I went to a bar and saw this guy like this I would think he was either gay, waiting for somebody, trying to hit on the bartender or just got divorced and feeling depressed.

@OldManCorcoranwould love to hear your thoughts (even though they are mine, lol) on the blind, the deaf and the dumb. They are still communicating and functioning in society with a little help, of course, as in the blind, with walking sticks and the deaf and dumb, sign language. I'm more referring to people who were born this way. How is this connected to what you're saying in the OP. I've always wondered why people are born with some of the senses missing. Seems like what you're saying is so, and that we aren't really using our senses, it only appears that way.

This is not how it works. If that was the case, most men who had something great happening inside them wouldn't have problems dating and women wouldn't end up with not-so-great men, which happens all the time. Also, maybe attraction cannot be taught but seduction can be, hence the book by Robet Greene, The Art of Seduction. It's a little bit more complicated than something great happening inside of you is how to attract women, Plenty of assholes attract women more so than nice guys.

Very powerful.

Happy Holidays to you and all forum members and guests. Thank you @Schizophonia same to you. @Leo GuraThank you for creating this forum and for making this possible. Enjoy the holidays everyone. Where's my gift? Yours is on the way. Check your emails. You: Checking emails.

Maybe you need to ask a question first.

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