Princess Arabia

Watch it now, sounds a bit sexist. This statement sounds a bit degrading. Plus, most women usually don't develop their character because they have to but because they want to. Please note I'm not saying you're intentionally degrading women, the statement just sounds a bit like that.

Sounds like a prize to me. Gimme my rewards, baby. I won the prize.

Who is demonizing sex for pure enjoyment and fun? I know I'm not. I was just saying it's not for me anymore. I've had plenty of wild sex, threesomes, sex with women, sex with couples, one-night stands, sex with college kids, sex with strippers, even sex with hookers, sex with dildos, sex with vibrators, sex with strap-ons, sex with handcuffs, sex with cops, sex with whips, sex with old men, sex with pillows, sex with dolls, sex with cock rings, sex with nipple clamps, sex with dwarfs (no kidding), sex with DJ's, sex with bouncers, sex with strip club owners, sex with models, sex with John's, sex with chairs, sex with tables and last but not least sex with myself. Phew, that's a lot of sex. My pussy had enough sex for a lifetime. It's time to quit that shit and let my pussy breathe. Just kidding guys. Only 5 of that list count. I'll let you guess. Been drinking wine tonight so I'm a bit loose, I'll tighten back up tomorrow. This is Jeannie speaking, my other third. It's three of us, Arabia, Jeannie and Leonie. Boombastic! Ouch! I'm flagged. But seriously, sex is great. Just now want to do it with someone special.

I bookmarked. Lovely post. That's intuitively what would be sexually fulfilling to me, I think, that's why I don't desire personal casual sex anymore. I've felt what if felt like to really feel loved and to be vulnerable and surrender to life. No casual sex can compare to that. It's a beautiful feeling to feel the love of God inside of you, penetrating your every cell and bones, knowing that you are unconditionally loved no matter what and all i want to do is to give that love back anyway I can with the recognition that I am that love.

Nothing wrong with that. Just don't get attached incase you both get bored with this dopamine hit. Which you will at some point.

Men are like that even when they get older. Not saying they don't start to appreciate high quality connections and start to look for that, but it won't stop them from still sleeping around, even if it's with another high-quality connection. Not all men, I have to stress, but a lot will eventually do this. Women too. Maybe not as much, though. Men will disagree, but it is what it is.

No need to get triggered. Most of these guys are just looking for sex, not relationships. Nothing wrong with that. They have to get that out their system first before ready for real commitment, if ever.

Oh my! I'd be like get that shit outta my face, you dork. Lol

To each is own. Been there done that. I like more than just lover. I can love myself. Having a close intimate relationship with a man that doesn't require sex for us to bond is more stimulating to me than just a lover. Then the sex will be magnificent.

Get out! Lol

Yes, it does. This is one reason why I stopped having sex. Even with what I do for work it's just work. But on a personal level I can't and won't just have casual sex anymore. I don't even have to try and force myself, I just don't have the desire to. A guy with so-called "good game" can't even break that barrier unless we end up in a committed relationship, which will take a special type of guy for that with me.

Ok, well yes. Understood. Regarding what you said before.

Not necessarily. I don't know about a high-value woman because that depends on whose evaluating. The term high-value means something different to everyone. Lot's of decent healthy women will sleep with a man without being in love.

A Course In Miracle. Believing is seeing.

Lots of lemon water might help.

This is BIG!

I get that there's nothing to get.

Ok then, right on!

Who are you?

That's what I've been trying to get answered. I knew there was something wrong with that statement because it didn't make sense when you either think of the blind or eyes closed. Even the deaf, no hands, no feet, extra fingers, no taste buds.....all of it. When you start to contemplate certain things, new insights gets revealed. This is one of them for me.

It's not as simple as "you". The answer is probably simple but saying "you" doesn't clarify anything

What helps me is the recognition that that person is only operating from their level of Awareness and that their true nature is pure awareness blinded by the veil of perception and conditioning Compassion usually comes easy for me, the more I understand what is Awareness.

I didn't ask you that. I'm aware of that. You said looking through your eyes. So I'm asking who or what is looking through a blind person's eyes. I am genuinely asking this question as I use to say the same thing about whatever is looking through your eyes is looking through my eyes. But this doesn't makes sense to me when referring to a blind person or when the eyes are closed. If someone can answer this for me I'd appreciate it.

No. There's nothing wrong with looking for someone to take care of you. The question was not about looking for someone purely for their wealth. That is your interpretation of what was asked. Also, there are forums that will not roast people for that because there are forums specifically created for this purpose. There are plenty of men and women out there who are seeking out people to take care of. I said what I said not because I am against what she asked but to make her aware that this is not the place that will give her the results she's looking for. BTW, there's no difference with what she asked VS a guy asking "Where do I find a female who is willing to have sex with me". You could say it is very shallow to just want someone for sex, just as you said it's materialistic to just want someone for their money. I'm not saying you would ask that. I'm simply pointing out the double standard and the sameness between the differences. It's the same thing, it's only the content that is different.