Princess Arabia

Now, now, that's a little too advanced for me. I'll have to write that down and contemplate on that one. Hehe. No, I got it. The good can rise above but the Great has no where else to go. I think that's it.

@Consept You said, "to add context". This is how we create our story. You had to add the context to match up with your current life to make it make sense why you're feeling the way you do. When I say, I see how I'm creating this character, (which I've said in a previous post), this is what I'm talking about. And you will keep adding on more context after context to build more structures and more context and weave that storyline some more. This is how I observe myself doing the same thing, by hearing others tell their stories. It wasn't enough to view it as what happened, it needed a storyline to make it make sense. Geesh, the egoic mind is deeply embed and it gets deeper and deeper. What will happen 10yrs from now, is something will happen in your life and you will tell the story of how you lost or drew a football game and felt bad about it and blah, blah and that's why you're the way you are and thats why I did what I did, just like you're saying about being anxious and ocd. I'm not undermining your situation, just bringing to your awareness how we build our characters and are believing in them. I'm sorry, but I've heard and seen too much to not notice these things anymore. We live in the past and future never in the present. That's what creates suffering, along with identifying with personhood.

Yeah but if you apply the principles, anything is possible. The Universe might even find a way to get you out of your country, I dk, the principles doesn't rely on conditions. It's what you are a vibrational match to. Listening to you talk, you have a lot of excuses and are focusing on the exterior conditions. That's not what it's about. It's about changing your frequency. Outer conditions doesn't matter. It's not easy to do, but that's the way it works. Bob didn't make his millions cleaning floors, he used to clean floors before he read the book and that's how he elevated himself. He left the floor cleaning business.

Those are relative lies. Not Absolute lies. Can't have the truths without the lies. An Absolute lie is when they tell you the relative truth. Figure that one out.

This is not a low quality post. It is actually what a lot of guys are facing and going through, from what I've been observing. It is a very serious concern of yours and it shouldn't be taken lightly. Kudos to you for writing it out, atleast, to release some of that energy. I feel your pain, even though it's not me, but I know what it's like to feel rejected. I've been there. When I was very young and my first. But that was child's play as I was just a teenager. It's not about you. It's not that you aren't attractive. It happened and you will need time to heal. Allow yourself the time. Attractiveness has nothing to do with it. Don't beat yourself up. See it as a chance for you to grow and show yourself the love that was denied to you. You owe it to yourself. Forget about her, don't hate her because the hate will destroy you more than her. Show yourself some love. This is an open opportunity for you. Don't let it slide. Buy yourself a shirt and a pair of pants and go out on the town and celebrate. Celebrate your being single and are open to finding someone more suitable for you. She wasn't. You did not get rejected, it only feels that way. You were chosen, chosen by someone else, now go find her but not aggressively, find her by showing yourself some love and attention and start to exude that love and the love will find you.

What do you mean. It works for all humans. The Universe doesn't discriminate.

My advice probably won't do any good because it's a bit woo woo, even though it's the case and it's all there is to it. You have identified with the mind. You are attached to your thoughts. The mind is the biggest bully and it will put you down like there is no tomorrow. It's the source of 99.99% of all the people on here who ask for advice similar to yours. Who don't feel worthy, like you're not good enough, like you don't matter, like you're......I mean the list is endless. You have succumbed to them and believed in them. If I was to tell you the same things your mind tells you, you wouldn't like me too much but you listen to the mind and honor it. They are not true. Change the way you see yourself, change the way you view your losses, don't take them personal. Say I will do better next time, practice makes perfect, oh well, it's only a game. Whatever you have to tell yourself, consciously without listening to the mind. See yourself how you would like to see yourself and not what the mind says. You are only feeling those feelings because of thoughts that preceded them. Test it out if you don't believe me. Next time something similar happens, be conscious, change your thoughts to a more empowering one, one of love and purity and see how your feelings change.

What's the matter, you just lied to someone? People can be trusted. They can be trusted to not be 100% honest at all times. That's good enough. Lie to me baby. Lie. Don't tell me you cheated. Don't tell me I'm too skinny. Don't tell me my breasts are too small. Lie baby, lie.

Lol

So if a black man tells another black woman he loves her hair blonde, that's racism, right. You show your true colors everytime you speak. You're literally saying that blond hair is better than any other hair. Nobody else said that. YOU ARE PROJECTING THAT. You are speaking your mind without even noticing it. You're coming off as racist without saying so directly. How the hell does white supremacy have to do with the color of one's hair. It is your version of white supremacy, Mr Buck. I'm really through this time.

So black people who prefer to date black people and no other race, is racist,.right? A whole lot of Chinese racists and Indian racists around. Most only date within their race. White people who prefer to date other whites are not racists. Racism has nothing to do with preferences. I will end this right here. No need to go back and forth with you. Its always a challenge with you. It's pointless.

I won't argue with you, but I will say this. Racism is discrimination and prejudice towards another race. Please do a wiki check so you don't show your ignorance on the matter any further. It has nothing to do with hair or skin color preference.

Oh ok.

Poor kids and those who know nothing about awakening. They're doomed, I guess.

There's no where to go. Leo said that too, didn't he. Can't just pick the pieces out that suits you. Leo's teachings ain't the Bible.

Celery tops are packed with nutrition. They even have more flavor than the stalks. Use them in salads, pesto, soups and stews, or even as a topping for burgers instead of plain 'ole iceberg lettuce. Make celery salt: Put in dehydrator, oven (20min, turning 1/2 way through or air dry). Dry thoroughly, add a touch of Himalayan or sea salt and blend well in a spice grinder. Add to your seasoning mixes or use as a topping over dishes.

Yeah, as in bye, bye schizo.

The brain controls the penis. Dick brain. Lol

That's why you love me, but sorry, I'm a female.

Ok

And?

A guy admiring a woman's beauty is not a guy thinking with his dick. A guy thinking with his dick means he has given control over to his dick, he makes choices and decides with his dick. Good judgement on how to handle a particular situation flies out the window and his decisions are now based on whatever it is that will determine if he gets laid or not. And yes, I do have a dick; its called an inverted vagina. That means I don't think with my vagina, it does the thinking for me.

Imagine being feminine and submissive to a dwork who doesn't even know how to lead himself. Men have to earn that privilege, please. Not even being submissive. You can be feminine and assertive without being dominant and aggressive. The phrase "letting a guy lead" has been misunderstood by men into thinking women should just do whatever they say and obey. A guy can also lead by asking you what you prefer. It is called leading by allowing. Showing or telling him what you prefer and getting out the way and allow him to oblige. Go ahead and boss women around and see how far that gets you.

It isn't racist to prefer a certain hair color. It's simply a preference. He wasn't judging. That's not judging. You judge women for not wearing a bra and showing too much,.that's judging.