Princess Arabia

Existentially it doesn't make a difference. So if we want to live in delusion and think there's a you, then yeah. It makes a difference. Which still doesn't matter because there's no you living in delusion. Delusion is just apparent. But I won't turn this into non-duality talk.

I was just trying to show that you are also selling just like these girls, nothing special about your job in relation to theirs. It's only different content. The difference is how your mind translate the two. You feel above them but you're not because you're still selling something. Take away the content, its the same thing. Just like everybody else in the illusive Universe.

Please be specific with what you are asking. Whose the "who", whose "those guys", whose "they". Too many pronouns of which i'm not sure who you're referring to.

What do you sell, and don't say products, what do you sell, be specific. Of course you don't have to answer.

Lol, my statement was not a judging of judgements. Read it again, that's not judging judgments. Telling someone what their judgments are and the impact they have or lack there of isn't judging judgements.

I don't know the answers but I like this post. A lot.

Grow out of these kinds of questions. They are silly.

I checked him out after you posted his name the other day; and, yes, he's a good role model for men to follow in this field. He's a great example. You can tell he's not coming from a place of hurt and baggage like a lot of these other guys are coming from.

I'm not an OF girl but whose doing anything for who. The guys aren't doing anything for the girls and not caring who they are. The guys are paying for a fantasy they chose to pay for and the girl is delivering. Lots of assumptions and biases in these comments without even knowing the insides of this business.

I'm not sure what you mean by this but if it's what I think it means, what's deceiving about a stranger showing her couchie to the world and the guy taking it personal and cursing her how she doesn't care about him and just wants his money. Don't look. It's that simple.

Do you even know what that means. Loving others unconditionally. Pass no judgements and know that THIS is happening with or without your input and that all your judgements are just fantasies and ideas about what's happening. What's happening doesn't care about what you or me has to say about it. It's just energy at play and has no fucking meaning, only what your delusional mind gives it and why it suffers.

You're very welcome. Hope you feel better soon.

Yeah, you know what, what you said is more reasonable and probably true on a general scale and looking at it from an unbiased level without personal attacks and critical judgements that only shows one's personal disgust with a legitimate business that caters to whomever is so inclined. They love it because they are making $$ from behind a computer screen where there is no contact. If you notice it's always the same guys hating on this work and the same one's always talking about porn and banging chicks. It's personal for them. Nothing wrong with not liking this field of women, but why hate on them so and call them names and degrade them so. If it wasn't for the men, there could never be this kind of work and it be so profitable. Go hate on the men who have gfs and who patronize these businesses and stop hating on women so.

You know what. It's obvious you don't even know what you're saying and just venting. Don't worship idols but develop yourself so women worship you. Why are you even talking about whose worshipping who. You don't realize that you're just giving away the fact that you're worshipping women because it would have never entered your mind to say these irrelevant things that has nothing to do with what he's asking. You make posts on here about how much money you're making and worshipping that and making that your idol and how much you love, you know what cause I don't want to keep saying it, you're the one doing the idol worshipping while the OP just simply asked if we thought an OF girl is worth going out with. You took this to a whole other level. It's not about who respects who and sees who as cash cows. Wtf do you expect them to do. OK honey I love you, you don't have to pay me; go on now and go bang your gf while you think of me and hopefully the next guy might leave me a tip, but thanks anyway. Don't you make money off of your fucking customers, selling them probably poisonous crap, so why hating on a chick that's doing business for herself.

This is just a skit and not real.

So does Walmart and any other business in the world. Some do care for their customers but in the end, it's your cash they are after. You will say but Walmart doesn't sell sex, well selling sex is still a business. Nothing to do with loving relationships. Thats another category.

Do you know how many of these girls date guys with no money in their real lives and they love them, They give them money and take care of them while the guy just uses them and cheat around. Not saying this is the case, but not all these girls are gold diggers that do this work, they are just doing it because they can, they provide a service for willing customers and go home to their normal lives. The problem is, it's the men who criticize this work and say these kinds of things that are unable to separate it from normal life.

I was countering your lack statement. You are basically saying the same thing here as in my statement. There is only love. The rest are illusions.

I'm not really referring to the act of having sex with a hot girl but guys who are only interested in them, taking them out or marrying them or only to be seen with a hot chick.

Let us not admire people who appear to be faithful because all that does is put them up on a pedestal and putting people who decide to do the opposite beneath them. They are no better or worse for doing that, if that's the case, because there's nothing wrong with someone if they choose to sleep with 1000 people. These PUA's don't appear to be married and even then, it's their business and not a moral thing to judge. You don't know them personally or even if they've slept with men or other women, plus the fact that these women aren't model-type figures in your eyes, doesn't mean they don't see them as such and even more beautiful than the typical model type. These men are already secure and don't need a trophy wife to make them feel any more secure in their manhood because they are the ones sought after and don't have to prove anything to anyone when it comes to what they are worth in terms of who they are. Men who only go after hot girls are insecure within themselves and are seeking an arm candy to boost their self-esteem. Most not all.

This just sounds like woman hate. Why don't you not do your hair, don't shower, don't shave, wear what the homeless and bums wear, don't worry about how you smell or how you look, not even how you appear. See how that works for your psyche, self-esteem and survival mechanisms. I have held on to my beauty way past 5-10 yrs to the point no one guesses my age. Women aren't trying to trick anyone by just being and wearing make-up, like I said don't wear anything fancy, don't come on here asking about shirts and what looks appealing because all you are is a hypocrite and a fucking ass to be saying you like 20yr Olds who can orgasm and are tight and submissive and not tainted, then turn around and say within 5-10 yrs they are worthless. Typical scumbag of a male you are. You disgust me.

There's no lack of anything because THIS is all there is. No less no more. All THIS is, is unconditonal love. All you mentioned are just energies apparently appearing as.....

I want to cry reading this post. Hang in there. You will come out of this okay. You will. Strip yourself of all your beliefs now and just know you will be ok no matter what. Put your hand on your heart. Feel it beating. Know there's a life force powering through you. It is always with you no matter what. Forget about all teachings now. Move to that which is. The presence within you that never changes. Move to it. Acknowledge it with all your heart and it will acknowledge you back. Don't beg, don't plea, don't ask, just acknowledge it's presence. Surrender to it and know that you are ok no matter the outer circumstances. You will see a shift. You will know eventually what I'm saying if you keep it there. No doubts from you because the mind will go there. If you find the mind doubting, let it be and don't acknowledge it. Go back to the heart, that's truth, the mind is all fabrications. Allow yourself the space between where you are now and where you will be. You are already there but you have to not acknowledge the fears and doubts and all the negative emotions that are arising. See them for what they are but don't identify with them. Don't try to push them away either. See them as a person at the door that you know is there but you refuse to open the door. They'll eventually go away to allow for presence to shine through. We all love you here and reach out to anyone if you feel the need to as how you made this post. This is the start. This post is the beginning of the shift and you will see and feel this shift soon. Just don't let the mind get a whole of you during this time. Allow it to rant and rave but don't energize it just let it be.

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yes, yes, yes. I hear you only please don't use the word manipulation for working girls and girls in the adult industry because they have branded on their foreheads what they are about. That is not manipulation. That is straight and raw and is up to the client to know from the bat what he's getting into.