Princess Arabia

Lol.

Oh so guys who like older women have traumas now and are toxic and unconscious? And guys who like younger are trauma less, non-toxic and conscious. Nothing wrong with this line of thinking. It spices up things a bit and makes one laugh. Laughter is good for the toxic soul.

Guys who like virgins are just cringed out over their own dicks and sperms and hate to think of other men's sperms in other women's vaginas so they call them un-tainted because they view their own sperms as dirty tainted water. That's all.

If I were you I would go crawl under my bed and never say another word about women again. Just stick to what you know and leave grown people things to grown people.

Women aren't trying to look young with make-up. Do you think a 15yr old is going to look 13 with make up on. Make-up doesn't make you look younger. It doesn't, if anything, make-up makes you look older. As far as I see, you're the one always talking about aging, and women and their age and looks and how they are valueless after 20 and how this and blah blah blah, while hot and not so hot 30's 40's 50's yr olds even some 60's are living it up across the world having a grand ole time with men who value them. Stay in your little bubble with your 20yr Olds and go make some babies while the hot 30, 40 and 50 yr olds are on yatchs drinking champagne and eating Doritos while you're paying child-support.

Women aren't trying to look young with make-up. Do you think a 15yr old is going to look 13 with make up on. Make-up doesn't make you look younger. It doesn't, if anything, make-up makes you look older. As far as I see, you're the one always talking about aging, and women and their age and looks and how they are valueless after 20 and how this and blah blah blah, while hot and not so hot 30's 40's 50's yr olds even some 60's are living it up across the world having a grand ole time with men who value them. Stay in your little bubble with your 20yr Olds and go make some babies while the hot 30, 40 and 50 yr olds are on yatchs drinking champagne and eating Doritos while you're paying child-support.

It doesn't really matter what I'm saying but what I'm saying is you're paying for a feeling once a month. That's it nothing ,more, nothing less. Good for you. Nothing wrong with paying for a feeling.

There's no problem with this because the act of you having sex with someone in the privacy of your quarters isn't doing any body any harm. The only thing I'm saying though is why do you need the sex. You won't pay money for something that isn't worth anything and sex itself isn't worth anything. Feeling good might, feeling wanted might, feeling pleasure might, feeling fulfilled in the moment might. Sex can bring on these feelings, whatever feeling you feel when you have it before during and after. That's where the true value is, apparently anyway. So you're not paying for just sex, you're paying and using women so you can feel a certain way. You are paying and using women to feel something you cannot feel on your own. That's powerful. That's how much power you have given over to women. You say what you say with so much confidence and thinking you're oh so powerful but you have not only given over the power to women who have the power to make you feel a certain way that means so much to you but you are at their mercy. How, because without them, you won't be able to feel those things because you need them for that. You don't need women for sex, you need women to help you to feel a certain way. Nothing wrong with that but don't get it twisted.

I guess you have experienced death before. If it's thought, it's conceptual by definition.

You're right, I'll just say sex is just happening to no one, better. Keeping it simple.

You're missing the point as to why there's attraction in the first place. Yes a man needs to tap into his feminine and the woman into her masculine but not in the dating phase and maybe even in the absence of the opposite sex, as in when the man isn't around she steps up to do certain things etc, it's not textbook and depends. The balance is in the relationship already, that's why there's a man/woman relationship in the first place. That's the balance right there. Women don't have to learn to SPEAK the logical language of men, she needs to embrace her feminine when around men and tap into her masculine when he's absent.

Are you male or female?

Ask him again, please? He even does it.

That's true but in a romantic sense, men usually think women see them the way they see women. They think that young hottie won't be attracted to them because they are twice their age. Some shy away from liking to reveal their real age to a much younger woman for this reason, not realizing that women don't usually care about this stuff like they do. I know because I get it all the time. I look way younger than I actually am and I get guys saying to me "oh I'm too old for you" or they lied about how old they were for fear of me not liking them. Most men don't really know how other men are with women so they assume a lot about men. Men will say stuff to other men and be different when they are around women. Women know about men and men know about women when it comes to certain things in the intimacy department. Most men think most men are like how they are and project that unto women saying all men are like this, when they don't have a clue. Women also do the same but it's a little different because when women get together and talk about this stuff, they're usually honest about things with each other while men sometimes feel the need to brag and lie about certain things.

You're making my point. The mind thinks it's just sex with women, but there's a reason you want just sex from women that has nothing to do with sex. A prostitute is filling a gap that has nothing to do with sex. The food you eat is filling a gap. If your mother was a different way, you wouldn't feel the same way, so it's not your mother, per se, but I won't go there. Sex is just a tool and you're using prostitutes to fix something you're thinking you're lacking that has nothing to do with sex. That's what the mind tells you, and you bought into it.

This kind of reminds me of somethings I wrote in my thread about "why men are attracted to hot women". The beauty reminds them of the beauty of God.

I don't know about this. What about mothers who abandoned their kids and still feel that special bond. Or people who aren't there anymore but you still feel close to them or even just meeting a stranger for the first time (e.g man/woman, but not limited to) and we feel a certain attraction. Instantaneous attraction, or even the opposite,

This is why I'm not very fond of men who live in the gym, have a ton of muscles, are too handsome (I mean like the model-type looking ones), wear too much nice fancy clothes and walk around like "hey, I'm attractive come and chase me". Ever seen the American Psycho movie, he's like a perfect example. Lol. Nothing wrong with trying to maintain your health, if you're already born handsome and wearing nice clothes, but I have a keen eye to detect the ones who are doing these things and expect the woman to chase after them because they're so attractive and feminine that it's gets to be a turn off. Give me that rugged construction worker type who ain't afraid to get his hands dirty and develop those muscles naturally and wears clothes that are not screaming I'm trying to impress you while still looking decent with a natural masculine body odor that I can rub my soft-luscious lips all over without that toxic overly, bearing toxic cologne smell that just stays in my hair all week. A nice very expensive cologne is probably fine but no drakkars please.

You have no idea what it means to be the prize when it comes to women and dating. It's pretty much just a figure of speech and nothing to do with an actual prize. Go read how @Emeraldexplained it because she explained it well. Her comment was to Dauntment.

This made me laugh so hard. The Universe is so illogical, it made room for the logical brain to figure out what it forgot to add in. It said, I'm tired right now so ill invent logical men to do the hard work and trying to figure out my madness and chaotic mind. Problem with this is, the logical brain is also a part of the chaotic mind so it's like a double whammy. I have no idea what I just said but its OK, logic will figure it out.😂

Hehe, had a good night's sleep. Thanks for asking. I see this thread is still going hot. Howls that logical brain of yours going. Lol

Phtt. Another demand-sounding comment about a woman's role in sex. Be available, have great sex, please me, look good, be attractive, take care of your appearance, help with things, be my sex slave. Ugg. How about thank you for choosing me and i promise to love, cherish and take care of you the best I know how. This is the problem when men keep chasing after any Ole woman just because she's a woman. Now she has to fit into your fantasies.

So well said, I probably don't even have to say anymore about this part of the discussion because I might do you a disservice.

I was reading through the comments and was not going to comment till I read them through, but I had to stop here. This is it. All that I'm reading from you here in this thread is logics. That's it, logics. Thought this yesterday but now I can verify by you saying it out your mouth. Logics. Basic logic does nothing when it comes to relations with women. You're not trying to compute a math equation. You sound so stoic and mechanical. No passion, sensitivity or feeling. Strictly logical. All in your masculine energy without compassion. Tap into your feminine energy a bit, it's a part of the equation. Relationships, sex and bonding isn't logics. Nothing wrong with being logical but tone it down a bit when it comes to the opposite sex and your relations with them. It doesn't work.