Princess Arabia

And this is a programming. One that you think is normal and should be everyone's experience because thatls life. Life is struggle, life is getting the fuck up and get a job to slave for others and pay your way through living. Then you wonder why so many are on drugs, suffer from anxiety and depression and are miserable wign their existence and just want to die or use others and objects as crutches and distractions.

There's nothing natural about life as we know it. It's all fake. All imbalanced. Not life itself, just the human part. Yes, just the personal part. The part that says I AM. The part that says there's a you to be. The part that says I am in control. The part that says I am here and everything else is out there. The part that seeks. The part that wants to know. The part that sees other. The part that says I am a person. The part that says I am.......whatever comes after that. Doesn't matter what comes after I am, even if it's I am God. There is no I am to be God. This is the mental illnesses, the troubles, the worries, the addictions the fears, the worries, the doubts, shame, anxiety, traumas, sufferings, all of it. That's the root of all these things. Something senses something off. Something senses something unnatural and the body pays the price.The root of all these things is the I AM. It doesn't exist. There is no I AM. The I AM is the dream. We try to work on this I AM. Shadow work, self-improvement, meditation, spiritual practices, silence, being still, retreats, whatever, it's all because of the fake I AM. It isn't there. Take away the I am and everything is naturally perfect. Everything just is. No worries, no problems, no interferences, all just is as it is. The I AM is the only unnatural thing about existence. Without it all is well. When the I AM "dies", it's back to no problems, no worries, no enemies, no sadness, sorrow, hate, challenges. The I AM emerges, and all problems emerged with it. Cannot separate them. Can't have one without the other. No I AM and it's back to peace and serenity. Even if there's a war going on. It's not being related to and emotions aren't being stirred. It doesn't see itself anywhere or in anything. A war becomes just like another event. A war going on would be the same as going shopping or eating dinner. Nothing personal about either. It's already the case. That's already the natural beauty of realty. There is already no I AM. This is the perfection, the wholeness that's timelessly present ALREADY. The I AM presence is the apparent pollution that seems to permeate all of existence but only to itself. Outside of itself, it doesn't exist. It is it's own reality. It's own institution. It's own existence. The I AM is it's own worst enemy, I AM, therefore you are. There's nothing more further from the truth.

Broke people too. Doesn't matter; either way.

Play this song while making love to her. She'll float in ecstasy. I know I would. Fav song. It touches every cell and gives me goose bumps. I think about grinding on top of something hard while this song plays and I melt like chocolate ice-cream. Ok I know a bit cheesy. Choco-latte Frate, my love🥰🥳🥰

Never treat all females the same. Get to know the one you're with and treat her accordingly. If you don't, you'll confuse her and yourself.

Never tell a female you love her while s screwing her. She won't believe you and you just lost her trust. Excluding husbands and bfs, of course - doesn't apply. Infact, that's when you've gained her trust as long as it's the case.

How to make a female want to have sex with you over and over. Make her cum before you do. Thank me later.

Yeah, it seems like what people have most abundantly, they flow more easily with. It's the energy that you give off sometimes that makes the difference.

How to seduce a woman. Don't. Just be you. Make her laugh.

Women might not care about truth, but they care if you like them truthfully.

How to make a female cum. Play with her clit. Thank me later.

An ant 'knows' how to build an ant nest, how to find your front door or window to crawl into your house and eat your bread and they stay busy doing whatever it is they do. We don't see ants getting lost and crawling all over the tv, the washing machine, at Walmart by the cashier, at the bank's window, on the bicycle seat....unless of course there's some sticky sugar, you get the drift of what i'm trying to say; they are at specific places. Ants are a problem where ants are a problem. Same for bees and spiders and caterpillars. All insects. There's intelligence at play there. Is there a person in an ant body. No. You'll say because an ant is not a person. You'll probably say there's an ant in an ant's body. There is a spider in that spider's body and there's a roach in that roach's body. No one says that. We just say that's an ant and that's a spider or a turtle. We see them do all sorts of things that matches what their respective species does. We don't see turtles trying to build a spider's web. They act like turtles. Is there a turtle in there being autonomous and having free will and making choices, no it's automatic and operating from instinct - well seemingly so. Same here and same with every other living species and machinery including humans. I mean it's so obvious.

Some people have no idea how to 'spot' the Absolute in every day life. I see it everyday. I notice the nothingness of existence. Shit just pops outta nowhere. The phone rings and an unexpected person is on the other end. That's nothing appearing as....everyone that calls is this appearing as but ilm saying I'll notice it more when there's a surprise call. A sudden thunderstorm pops up, out of nowhere that's the Absolute appearing as. It's all the Absolute appearing as but I'm saying when I notice or recognize as it's happening. The same kind of thing like the brain's RAS system where it only notices things that are relevant to the storyline and how tons of things are happening around us all the time but we only pay attention to what's being focused on or relevant to us and block out things that aren't. Something like that. That old post by Raazard about Solipsism from I believe last year or the year before that's taking front stage again and is hot again right now, just became hot again out of nowhere. These kinds of things I mean that we take for granted and give cause and effect meaning to. There was no real cause and effect for why that old thread suddenly got back on the radar. That's this appearing as... and without meaning and purpose for why that thread became hot again. It's actually a brand new thread but seems to be the old one. Everything is brand new. Your house isn't the same house it's timelessly appearing to the observer as a new house. When someone's habits just drastically changes, that's this appearing as.....Like I said, it's all this appearing as but i'm just pointing out a few for this post. When a plane goes by up above and disappears into nothing. A thread pops up out of nowhere. Somebody started a thread out of nothing. A thought pops up and disappears into nothing. You look into the distance till it starts getting blurry and you can't see pass a certain distance, there's nothing there. When my hand moves, that's energy, talking is vibrational. I mean, it's all around us but we wait to see flying saucers or take magic pills or sit in lotus positions before we can train ourselves to be in a certain desired state to see the Divine. It's everywhere. Psychedelic users will especially have it hard to see the Divine normally because it has seen extraordinary things through that scope and lens and, that high, there's no match for so everything seems dull and mundane without it. Its still sometimes dull and mundane to me too but I can see it in the dull and mundane, is what I'm saying. When you log into the forum and see user names, there's no one there, it's this appearing as user names.

Exactly. There can be so much to indirectly learn here. People are looking for direct teachings most of the time without realizing there's lots to learn passively. Shit, we can learn lots from a baby, an animal and the disabled. I'm learning everyday on here and these are profound learnings. I can teach myself a lot from observing life and behaviors. Only the genuinely curios and lover of life can utilize this gift and it is a gift to be able to learn when not directly being taught. Well, maybe not gift but a skill. I can learn from those who say there's nothing to learn here. Exactly what I just posted is what they taught me because I know I learn here all the time so it must be because they're looking for obvious direct teachings why they miss hidden lessons.

This thread is of low-quality. Locked. Hehehehehe....wait for it.

I'm not going to argue with anyone about if I exist or not or even if they exist or not. Short conversations about the matter may happen but back and forth, back and forth, no. I'll come over here and talk about it, but long arguments no. To exist means to stand out and i don't stand out. Ok, forget the word semantics, I can exist as something but I never really say I don't exist, I say there's no one and that's different than saying I don't exist. There is no I to exist. It only exists to itself. The I exists in it's own world of existence. It's own reality. It depends on other, it depends on outside objects, it depends on it's own feeding system to sustain itself. It has no reality of it's own. I don't need a video or some guru to explain this. Problem with forums like these, is people have their ideas of who they think you are and they are relating to you from their own dream existence. I could go on yt and start a channel with outstanding sounding videos without a face just a robotic voice and repeat things I've heard Rupert, Alan, Eckhart, Osho, Robert have said and sound like I know what's going on and say the exact same things I'm saying here and no one would question it. I know this because I.ve seen where Leo says somethings close to what I've said and no one challenges him. He'll say things like you're not human or if you think like a human you won't awaken or even in his old videos where he said we've never moved a day in our lives and that I'm no different than a coffee table or that existence is nothing. How can existence be nothing but there's someone in these bodies. I didn't understand these things then but I do now. I would get flack for saying those things and same words while that same person giving me flack would say to Leo, wow, that's wild it whatever else they'd say to agree or just blindly believe. A working girl on a forum, no chance, she doesn't know what she's saying. Sadhguru says it, it gets repeated and the video shared. I say it, it gets debunked or laughed at and I get called Ms Advaita. I notice these things. They add to the way I see things and what I observe and understand. It can't be you that realized these things, it must be some philosophy you've adapted. Then they'll say if there no one in that body how did you realize anything. Well, I didn't realization happened but there's o one to understand that understanding us what happens. But who talks like this all the time.

Great, you too.

@Bufo AlvariusI see what you're getting at but for me, it's simply a discussion for these types of talks. If you observe in the other sections e,g the dating section, I don't reply to someone's concern about a dating issue by saying, don't worry nothing is happening, there's no you and experience is illusion. I address the issue as it appears. I usually only reserve these talks for my journal, the spirituality section or if it comes up for discussion. I'm not in denial of anything and I find there's a lot of misunderstanding of non duality and the Absolute. Many misunderstandings there. One is people think because I might say something, I'm denying it's opposite. Or that, when I say something is meaningless it means i'm nihilistic and go about my life without meaning or purpose and I look at life a certain way or the trees are meaningless etcetc. This is meaningless and that's why we are able to give it meaning. If it already came with it's own meaning you or I wouldn't be able to place our own. That's how come it's meaningless. I speak on these things when I have somewhat a thorough understanding of what I'm saying not just repeating words I've heard. They make sense in an Absolute way but not to a person who doesn't really see or understand where those words are coming. Plenty factors are at play here. Understanding, observation, experience, a knowing, feeling, intuition, a felt sense, an unfelt sense, and more. It's not complete and cannot be where it's timeless and boundless.

No, you said I was denying God's existence by saying there's no one or there's no me or whatever. I said no you were denying God's existence by saying youlre there because there can't be God and also you. Anyway, about the other stuff, I'm through with that nonsensical conversation. It's not going anywhere and it's time consuming where I don't feel the need to waste my time there discussing slaves and who made who type words on a screen and blah blah. The brain doesn't work like yours and lots of confusion and complications are at play there.

Not too much on electronics and these issues, no but I think it's a server issue. FYI, I also have other interests and knowledge about lots of other things. Life is normal for me, I'm not living in a world of there is no me nothing to do and nowhere to go. Not too many places I can talk about this stuff so I do it here and get on you guys nerves about it here. Outside I'm partying and drinking and drugging it up till I pass out to no me and wake up to noself. Just kidding there, but yeah, I have other interests,

No, it's back again. For a day or two it was perfect, then it went back to haywire again, so its not just you.

Women don't have lots of options, men do. This is another "nothing is as it seems" thing in life. It may seem like we have way more options but only to mostly other men. Women realize that lots of men will approach but very few she'd be interested in. Most men don't realize this especially the younger ones. Older men will understand this better because they know how men can be and that women have to be more picky than them when it comes to certain things especially in the safety arena. All younger men see is pretty woman, lots of men flocking therefore tons of options. NO, NO, NO. I envy men in this arena. They have so many options of beautiful women. Beautiful women are everywhere. That's all it takes for them initially. Our option is to vet out the assholes, the creeps, the dangers, the dusties, the losers, the predators...i mean the list goes on. Men initially want looks and physical attraction. Women too, to an extent, but it's not that important to women as it is for men. Sometimes for us, all it takes is that he's fairly financially independent, respectful, and not a killer or a rapist for us to even consider a first date which is hard to determine just by looks alone so we take a lot of chances just saying yes to a first date alone. A man goes out, a woman goes out. Both are attractive. No one approaches the man, a few men approaches the female. The man sees 20 females that day that he wouldn't mind going out with or having sex with. That day the female saw no guy or maybe one or two she would even consider going out with and none she would initially want to have sex with without getting to know him first. Even though she was cat-called, gawked at, approached and looked at by tons of guys. Where are her options there. The guy might not have scored that day but his options were way more to even want to try for a score. She just didn't see that many to even consider because she just wasn't interested. Keep in mind both weren't initially looking but for the male his eyes wandered because that's just what men do sometimes. The word "options" is what's being discussed here. Not who gets approached more. He sees more like he likes she sees less of what she likes. The reason she sees less is mainly due to women being more emotional and for men more visual. A man just walking by has not stirred up any emotions yet she knows nothing about him that she can relate to and hasn't felt anything just yet. For him, fantasy land took over and he's dreaming about what those legs look like inside those jeans and those nipples are they suckable or her hair how he loves the look. For him, it's easy; for her, let's just say it's "let's put on the investigator glasses. Does she feel safe, is he lying about not having a gf, does he really like her for her, does he make her laugh, etcetc, while for him the job is already done. Took 5mins for him. I see, I like, I want. Nightlife is a bit different where alcohol and drugs get involved and people's inhibitions are at play. Women get a bit more loose in these environments and are not as quick to look for safety concerns overall; maybe just for the night concerns as in getting home safe or is he a rapist or a killer kind of concern which is a bit extreme if it's under normal circumstances. Usually she's not thinking these things if she met him under certain circumstances like friends, he's a regular, her judgment, and so on. A woman may see one man she would fuck that night and a man see 10. Who has more options there. Options is who has more to work with not who has more admirers.

Whatever you say and believe. Makes no difference. I can't believe you actually think you made me do anything that meant anything to me. None of that nattered to me it is you that's giving it all meaning in your world. To me, they were just a bunch of typed words that i played a game with you and typed., that's it. Saying you made me do it is like saying I made you write that response because I responded back or you made me type these words i'm typing now just to respond to you and that every single person that responds to anybody on the forum, the person they're responding to made them do it.

Just because a female is attractive and has tons of Instagram followers doesn't mean she has lots of options and that tons of guys are going for her. They might all be thinking what you're thinking and therefore none are after her for fear of competition and she's waiting for the first guy to impress her and come correct. Lots of very attractive women don't get approached for this very same reason and even the guys that do approach already have in their minds that tons of guys are after her, so their chance is limited, and she feels that. Why do you think it's usually the short fat balsy, funny, outspoken confident guy that can reel in the very attractive women sometimes. He's not caught in in theorizing her and idealizing her and just going after what he wants and letting the rest follow. Attractive women find this very appealing.

Everything is not "just dream", you've interpreted what I've said this way. Only the I AM is the dream, everything else is simply nothing appearing. I don't own expressions they are just expressions. To the dream they are my expressions. If I speak normally, I'd probably say my expression of but that's the dream talking, the dream can become lucid even though it's still just an appearance and not really happening. When I say not really happening, it's quite obvious to me in the Absolute sense that nothing is really happening. My life seems to go on where feelings are felt and sensations appear and the rest, as nothing really happening cannot be experienced and felt. Those words are only for discussions about the Absolute even though here lots have fallen away to reveal I have no life and no one is in this body.