Princess Arabia

Why you taking it personal. He ignores me at times too, he answers what he feels like, when he feels like on what topics he feels like. It's not personal or about respect. I'm sure he ignores many other comments from others too.

8billion people half are women another 1/3 of dating age so that's 4billion - 2billion. Ok my math is off let's go down to 2mil you said 4000, how is that all women. Do you understand there's are different types of women just like there are different types of men. Please give females the same courtesy of difference like you give males. You make no sense. Men are different but women are all the same. Geesh everything changes and nothing stays the same - only your story. Same old story. I guess Consciousness got stuck as a broken record when it imagined you. Turn your attention on decent, respectable mature wise confident beautiful inside and out women with a heart of gold and you'll see examples of them. Change the way you feel about yourself and you'll attract one of those women. You describe yourself as unattractive, there's the problem right there. It's how you feel about yourself why you can't attract decent women. And also looking at TV and internet and blogs and forums and all that. Everything exists, but we get to see what we're focused on the most and the stories we tell ourselves. I don't admit to anything that you're saying and neither do my friends. So these women you're referring to are of the same category that you're imagining in your story. My gift to you. I just watched this video, and I love how this guy explains this stuff. We talked before about this and i'm sure you didn't give it time because here you are again with the same mindset. If you really want to see a difference you need to start applying this stuff and stop the complaining and looking at what you're seeing on the outside. All you speak about is other people, other men and other women. You are the light of consciousness in an infinite field of possibilities and whatever you put your attention on grows, whatever you keep complaining about with emotion and intensity you get more of. It's you, it's all you. I'm only here to speak to you as you. The video is a half hr of pure gold. Watch and really start to apply these things and try to stop telling the same future story. What you're seeing is what you have called forth and what you continue to do and believe. He explains this stuff beautifully. Maybe subscribe to his channel and read his book and change who you are and the mindset you have created for yourself. All that you're saying is true for you and surely exists. Everything exists. So you're not lying or not speaking from experience, but that's one possibility of which there are infinte.

Beautiful!!!

In reference to your signature: Something that you think about. Hehe. Every time I read your signature, I chuckle to myself.

I thought you made a typo or mistake when you quoted my name down the bottom again with the split - then I said Keryo doesn't make typos and that's when I realized you were showing me an example of what you were referring to about tagging @user etc. You must be a computer wiz with all the stuff you can do with it.

We live and learn. Now you know. If the girls were smiling and talking to you and allowed you to take pictures and all that, that was a very good chance they might have took it further; no guarantee, but no better time than the situation you were in. This tells me that guys can just be insecure within themselves and not approach and also blame it on the women saying they weren't good enough without even trying. Like you said how you were thinking that you weren't at your best. Some guys don't even approach and are still angry at women for not approaching them; or some don't approach because of their own insecurities and nothing to do with how females view them only their own critiques about themselves. (Not saying you're one of them, just saying in general).

Go with your gut.

Twice in the past I've thought about making a thread similar to this. Where we're all at a party hosted by Actualuzed.org and i was going to list the most active members here and their roles at the party. Only reason I didn't do it yet was because of the names and I would have had to go to the forum list or remember and spell everybody's name. I actually started to a few weeks ago but the tag wasn't working properly and I couldn't tag the names for some reason then I just canceled it. No kidding. Reading this reminded me of it and the use of your word telepathy convinced me that we had the thought at the same time. You're just writing this now; but I bet you've thought about this for some time in the past and is just now putting it on paper. I was going to assign roles to members just like you're doing here and in your other old-man Leo post. I witness this kind of stuff time and time again to the point now where I'm not amazed or shocked anymore. Just confirmation of the shared mind and collective consciousness and even solipsism.

Brilliant. Except for Leo's old man's pic; wasn't ready for that. Lol

There's no one in there deciding or not deciding to write on this forum, it's just happening. Even your statement about it. Anything you decide to do or not do just happens. If you decide to not write here anymore and that's what happened then that's what happened. FredFred didn't make that decision. Doesn't matter what happens because it cannot be any other way. Show me something that isn't.

lmao

Is it he or she. Typo?

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This is what happens sometimes when we are trained in a certain way to do things. If you were at a nightclub or bar or specifically went out to do some approaching, you might have took that opportunity to ask for a number or date etc., but because of all these modern techniques, and how it should be done, what's right and what's wrong and all these do's and don'ts, the mind doesn't see these spontaneous opportunities often; and it's not until one looks back that they realize they missed an opportunity. Life is spontaneously happening and the best approach in this field is to be open and ready for any situation to arise and not depend on how one thinks it should play out. This is why as I said before, most if not all my relationships in the past started spontaneously where it wasn't planned nor neither one of us actually set out to try and find one.

Ok

I'm sorry but I was just responding to your comment saying you're a feminine guy as you make art and cross your legs and all i said was those traits don't automatically make a man feminine. Seems like (and this is just my opinion) that you're defending your feminine identity and not understanding all i said to you was how I felt about it. It's all opinions. No one here said or asked you to prove anything. That comment came out of thin air and you're trying to insult me by me just saying what I think about a man being feminine. Anyone can go back and read our conversation and see there was not a bit of insult, asking you to prove anything or trying to disqualify you on my part. I'm through with this conversation, thank you. All you do is throw insults at me when I communicate to you respectfully, so I'll just add you to my list of people I will stop communicating with. See, no problems only solutions. I can tell when it's personal and nothing to do with what I said in the moment.

Funny how a simple comment trying to tell you that those traits in a man doesn't automatically means he's feminine turn into who I should marry and how you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Sometimes it's just best to keep your mouth shut.

Ok, you are feminine. Happy lol

Never have I gone with a man who didn't take the lead. So, that's not a discrepancy.

That's not what I was referring to with this response made from the comment he made. A female looking for a long-term relationship or marriage doesn't go around with a wet pussy and gets dried up if the man doesn't claim that pum pum. Her mind is somewhere else. A woman also allows you to lead. You ain't leading shit if she doesn't authorize you to in her mind. Notice in my comment I also said women love leadership. So, when Leo speaks in this respect, he speaks of quick lays, one night stands or casual sexual encounters. Nothing to do with women in general.

Exactly, that's what I explained in my response. I'm not going around being miss nicey to everyone; but like you said, basic respect. I've shun the homeless and beggars and have ignored them and i've given them $$ whenever I felt like it. I've talked down to people of status when they've been rude to me also. Ilve done things many tines that i thought was normal and people would say you did that? And how they were impressed. I would be shocked sometimes because I look at those things as normal. But i'm not alone because I've seen kindness extended to strangers before and I know of people who don't care who you are bum or not they will treat you with respect no matter what unselfishly.

This doesn't automatically qualify you as being feminine. Lots of masculine men make art and cross their legs.

Let me clarify something here. What you're saying here is just speculation, what you assume to be the case with all people, or even most. Well, maybe it's most, idk but it's certainly not that way with me. I don't need to justify, defend or deny any of this on a public forum where no one really knows me on a personal level because it wouldn't make a difference as this is just forum talk; but I'm certainly not that way and i can be nice to a homeless person just like I can be to a famous person, or I could be rude to a famous person just like I could be rude to a homeless. Doesn't make any difference to me if I feel justified in responding how i responded because of how I was approached or treated. I'll give homeless veterans that come up to the car with their signs $ and smile at them and I'll give bums who say they're hungry and need food. What they do with it is another matter. I'm assisting people in wheelchairs and the elderly. If I see someone crying, I'll go over to and ask what's wrong. I even wanted to win the lottery once so I could help the homeless and hungry bums on the street. I had fantasies about cooking food and handing it out to the homeless. I could go on about how I'm kind to these people without needing anything in return and how sometimes I would stand my ground to someone i would consider of value in my life but I didn't care because I hate being disrespected and will even in my work refuse to see someone that disrespected me. So it's not all about what I'm gaining why I'll be nice; I'm nice to everyone regardless of status until my buttons have been pushed. Only reason I'm not nice to anyone is if they were rude to me or my safety feels threatened; which to me, are both good reasons. Other than that, I'm either neutral or extending a helping hand whenever I can and that includes strangers.

You did say you were bi...maybe that's a factor.