Princess Arabia

Afterwards we do.

Power to what. No one holds power in the dating world. Let's see how quickly power flies out the door in divorce court, let's see how quickly power flies out the door when one gets cheated on, let's see how quickly power flies out the door if you get a stroke, let's see how power flies put the door when you develop ED, the list goes on. Same for women.

So I went on Leo's blog for a quick look and now I have to stop and go grab something to eat for my stomach and come back with my feet up to be prepared for some real food for the mind.

Prize is not about who's hotter than who and who has more money than who and who's more beautiful than who, it's about a kind of dynamic. One where masculine and feminine works in sync. I think this topic can be misunderstood and be taken out of context because of how one sees the meaning of the word 'prize'. An ugly woman can still be the prize and a broke man can still be a leader. Women are just naturally the prize, just like how men are naturally born leaders.

That's what I'm trying to tell these average looking guys, or guys that say they're average looking and how invisible they say they are to women. Most guys are because most women aren't going to look at men the way men look at women no matter how attractive he is. I'll see attractive guys all day long and don't look twice, but I'll definitely look twice and three times for the guy that makes me FEEL something when I see him, usually he's either average or just a little above average looking, but something in his demeanor did it for me. Actually, I'm not that attracted to very attractive looking men, most look feminine and gay. I like 'em a little rugged and rough.

Who cares. Just some more concepts, ideas and talk, talk, talk. Go out in the real world and explore and experiment leaving all the mind beliefs behind and see how life is. Not some millionaire fast-talking man that caters to incels.

These men don't understand what it means to be the prize and what it means to be the leader. They hear prize and they pair that with 'better than' or 'above'. They don't even realize how they really don't want to feel like the prize. Any man that's a prize to a woman will only resent her in the end.

It's not that high but plenty of coaches for women are out there. The problem is men think it's easy for women in this arena. They see it as women are getting approached everyday and by the dozen and that we have so many options. No. We have it harder because we're most times not just looking for sex and even if we're not looking for relationships or even marriage, our choices are limited because of our standards. Not necessarily low or high but different from men. For men - look the part, for women - be the part. Which one demands more energy and time.

After men know how to be vibrating machines instead of just playing poke-her.

The pussy doesn't need the man, the emotions do. Women feel horny for...., not because of....they get horny after the fact. It's that particular man, not just any man.

I thought so. This is different from approaching. Women pursue men they know all the time. This is what makes being in social circles a plus for dating.

A rubber ducky. 😛

Meanwhile.........the guy with the other mindset is winning. Go Playa it's yo birthday, go and party like it's yo birthday. Don't listen to social media, it's yo birthday, go get that girl she wants you, it's yo birthday. Find me in da club, it's yo birthday. Lol

No one is going to write about women finding most guys relatable, negativity gets more views and clicks and social media feeds drama. I can go out and ask 20 women tomorrow if they find most guys creepy and most will say no. I see at least 20 couples on a daily basis and on the weekends they are too many to count. What reason would anybody have to write an article about this or who doesn't find who creepy. Of course there are creepy men, but the majority aren't.

Hush. Feminine women still crave masculinity. It's only over for those who think it is. That mindset will not get you anywhere with women. The problem is not with the independent women, it's with the men who shy away or gets intimidated by them. These women are being told by coaches to play dumb or not show their independence as much if they want to attract the man they want to not seem competitive. So, it's not that women are independent, it's that the men are intimidated by it. Plenty of women are in coaching to learn how to dumb themselves down without losing themselves just to attract men.

What a shit show.

Not true. That's it. Just not true.

You're the prize for today, my love. 😘

Everything and everywhere in the male/female dynamic screams women are the prize. Why do you think women are looked at and labelled sluts and whores when they're sexually promiscuous or even dress a certain way. Why are men looked at as the don, the man, gets congratulated or whatever, we know the deal, when he's the one being promiscuous or getting laid by the dozen and why do so many men wish to be in those shoes. Do you think it's because he is the prize? Do you not see how when the prize acts like it's not the prize it's labelled as a slut or whore. It's because the prize has now been levelled down to being the competitor. Men will be looked on in positive ways when they're sexually active because sexually they have won the prize. Yeah, more power to you. Guys don't realize what they're saying to each other when this happens. Guys who call women sluts and whores for sleeping around don't know on a conscious level that they're saying you fool, you have given the prize away. We don't say this to men because there's no prize there. This is just on a sexual level. It's not the sex or sexual organs that makes the woman the prize, not saying that, it's the feminine VS masculine dynamic and the ways they're expressed. This dating section screams women are the prize and I'm not talking about guys wanting to have sex with women. It's shown in very subtle ways. Nothing to do with sex.

These terms are being used loosely without understanding what they really mean in this context. No need to chase a woman down if she's obviously not interested. No need to chase women just to be chasing women to see who will run out of breath so you can catch up. No need to chase women just because you're a horny son of a gun that just wants to get laid by whomever. I mean we can go on about that. However, when a man sees what he likes, what he wants and if it's appropriate, he needs to take the lead and initiate that initial encounter. He doesn't need to, I'm saying that's where leadership comes in. A man that knows how to lead will know when a woman desires to follow. He won't have to chase her down like a cat chases a mouse, but he'll take the appropriate steps to allow for her to respond to his advances and see from there how she responds back. Women know the cues to send out to a man she likes and is attracted to and it's up to the man to read through the lines. No need to chase. As far as the prize goes, the woman is the prize to herself first then she's the prize for the man. Not every woman knows how to act like the prize and then the man, if he's feminine, will start to think he's the prize. The woman is the prize always but not every woman will know and understand this, and this may lead to an imbalanced relationship where she's competing for his love and affection and this is very disempowering for women. Prize, in this case, doesn't mean one is better than the other or above the other. If a man sees himself as valuable to a woman, then she becomes a prize to him and someone he can express his value upon. If he happens to win her over then he has won the prize and his value can now be expressed in a way where it's appreciated both ways. What good is value if it's not unleashed.

Yes, but we're dancing right now with whatever responses given to the question. The dance is the belief that one is the prize and the dance is the responses given. It's all a dance and we can play the game of whose the prize. No biggie.

Love is the absence of separation.

Nice!

How you gonna reach God. God is Boundless, timeless, unlimited, not a thing, is everything. What is there to reach. That's a position. Why are we trying to box this, i don't know.

The bum on the street, talking out loud to himself constantly, the ones you see that are always talking to themselves no matter when you see them, they mind their business, they look at you like you're not even there, they may dig through the trash, laughing out loud and smiling and looking like they're having a conversation with someone, you might see them for years doing the same things, they are actually in silence. You, my friend, who are constantly in your head, worrying about this and that, contemplating about that and this, every second there's a thought, thoughts haunt you everyday, you're constantly in quiet mode but the thoughts are rampant, you, my friend, need a retreat, you need meditation, you need to learn how to quiet the mind or how to not identify with thoughts. Notice how those bums are always smiling, never looking worried. They talk all day about nothing and thoughts aren't there. Their thoughts are being spoken out loud while their insides are quiet. Outside doesn't matter, it's what's inside thar counts. I always talk about bums because I find them to be more directly in tuned, less neurotic and more sane, happy and content than the rest of us in a weird kind of way.