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Because all some of them want is to get laid. Seems like men only do what they do because of the potential of getting laid. Nothing wrong with that, but you're missing out on all the other things a woman's presence can provide. It's mostly older men that recognizes and values this. I think it's because they've seen how just getting laid can be empty and unfulfilling if there's no substance to it. They have to outgrow the "plenty of sex" phase for more of a quality experience. That's why so many young women prefer older men, they seem to show these qualities more than their younger counterparts. These are simply observations on my part and not criticisms, as we all go through different stages in our lives.

You're making her point even more. What outcome?. Initiate what? Aren't you already on a date. I guess that's not enough.

Seems that way because of how men sees women. They want different things from us than how we see ourselves. It's more of a physical thing to them, for us it's more how we are mentally. A woman can dress feminine but have masculine ways and vice versa. Femininity to men, I think is mostly how she looks until they get to know her and her mindset.

You are already good enough. You just have to believe it and do the work that will show you the results. It's already inside of you, it's your beliefs that are stopping you. Change that and new thoughts and actions will follow.

Go do the work to build confidence. Complaining doesn't build confidence; it builds a victimhood mindset and is disempowering.

Your responses wreak of victimhood and helplessness. These are valid points you're making but your tone is much of comparison and too focused on other guys. I understand your whole rhetoric and all you're saying, but you need to understand where you place your energy and focus is what you get more of. Your responses tell a lot more about how you're doing this than someone who's really trying. What I've done mostly in the last couple years with my life is to see where I've been weak at and try to make improvements, not double down on them and find faults and excuses. I still have a lot more work to do but these are mostly ways of thinking and mindsets, so it can be done anywhere. If plenty of people can achieve something you can too. Go and study their mindsets and try to see how they think VS trying to solve your issue with your existing mindset, won't work. That resentment you harbor towards women is the exact same thing that's hurting you. No one else is being hurt by it but you. Love yourself enough to let that go because it is rotting your insides up and causing you pain.

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Idk about Tom Cruise, maybe Mark Wahlberg, hehe.

Exactly.

Attention means a lot if it's coming from the right man. Women notice men all the time, but it's very subtle and these men miss the cues; another reason again is because of how they show interest, they expect the woman to show it in the same way. Another thing is the women that aggressively show interest in some men, the feeling isn't mutual.

Yes, but still....can you ask first. My manners is very up-to-par and I think it's rude. Now, I don't think a man would think it's rude if i was to send naked pic's; another example of how some men think women like the same things they like or love the same way they do. Maybe not love - but you get the drift. They would love getting these pics, so they think we do too.

Lol. I've gotten unsolicited pictures of men's penises just because they find me attractive. These weren't low-lives either but distinguished men in society. I felt violated. Lol

Ok, I see what you mean by value.

I don't get excited just because I see a high-value man. For me, it takes more than that. So, how would you put all what you're saying when a woman sees a low-value man and gets excited because she just loves the way he looks. Plenty of women are in love with men who are bums. Where is the value there in her excitement. BTW, that pig analogy speaks for itself.

Don't feel bad; it's normal for the limited human. Real love exists, but it's Universal and is already the case. What humans are doing is just expressions of that Love. It's impossible for humans to have unconditional love for anything in form because of it's nature. You loving your gf only because she's of ideal weight in your eyes is only natural. Don't look to try and love anything unconditionally because you're not capable. It's like expecting a piece of an apple to be a whole apple. The whole, of which you're apart of, is already unconditional love.

So many men love really attractive women, but sometimes when those women decide to date them and are really into them, if they are average guys, they start to wonder what does she see in me or become very insecure in the relationship not realizing there's something there that sparks her fancy other than what he thinks she should like or be into. Men will judge themselves negatively and eliminate themselves before even giving the woman a chance. Many times I've had men say to me I know you have a bf or man, where's he at, or how they can't afford a woman like me or they're too old for me or too short or whatever. They have told me what I'm looking for indirectly. Secretly I'd be like thanking them for eliminating themselves before me wasting time with all those insecurities. I can deal with being insecure about your hair or your little fat stomach or your big toe, but those insecurities i mentioned is telling me that you're not confident in yourself enough and would put me through it to have to prove why I like you so much and your suspicions would start to kick in as to why I'm with you and probably be the jealous type. Just come to me straight and direct and let me decide for myself. When a woman is looking for love or she's in the market to fall in love, or wants to feel that spark, her "logic button" is turned off; it's when she's trying to get married or looking for security off the bat, is when she turns the "logic button" back on.

Just because some women like men of status, doesn't mean they are physically attracted to those men. Women's attraction isn't based on value, unconscious or not, it's based off of feelings; so if how she feels is valuable to her then OK. A lot of women are out here getting attracted to men who are of no value to them; she's just going off of her emotions and feelings and then later on, when all that settles down, she realizes he's of no value, if he isn't. Then she's like "what the hell was i thinking", she wasn't. I didn't realize feelings had logic behind it. Thought it was ether logic and reason or feelings and intuition. Maybe that's all just semantics.

Lol

Except for the countries part,(only because I think it's just a matter of preference), spoken like a true man of status. I can tell you have class and is a man of status. This is how they usually speak about the women they are looking for.

This is what some just can't understand.

This is just from a man's perspective. A man who desires hot chicks and settles for what he gets. Women aren't thinking this way. Women aren't going around saying, this is what I can get so I'm attracted to him. A woman is either attracted or she's not, not based on what she can get. Yes, people settle, but attracted, no.

Lol. People are lost in the dream.

Very interesting conversation.

Sure. Just wanted to point that out.