Princess Arabia

I'm not offended. It's just easy to talk shit about people behind a computer screen and not knowing their situation.

This is what I'm talking about. Do you think you're any better than the people you hate. You're hating on females you don't even know and who did nothing to you directly. Whatever hang ups you're dealing with why you feel hatred for them has nothing to do with them. Nobody is saying anything about the fact that hate is a mind disease, and they will read your comment and let you rot the mind while continue to pass judgements. If this was such a self improvement forum, we should be trying to show you that hate isn't the way to go because that is not a so-called high conscious emotion.

This forum is so judgemental. Don't forget your skeletons in your closets. If you watch porn, by your standards you are also low consciousness. Can't call an industry you patronize low consciousness and not say that's low consciousness behavior. Lots of pick up, porn watching and going out clubbing to pick up hot chicks and trying to get laid from strangers on this forum; but as soon as porn is mentioned everybody turns into the God in the sky. Can't just speak about what's happening, maybe try to understand why people do what they do and say hopefully one day, the porn industry might whatever...... This world has gone to the dogs, yes, and lots of people are engaging in activities that's probably not in their best interest. Doesn't mean we have to bash them. Spiritual work is about kindness and compassion. Understanding that everyone is consciousness awareness and some are just not there yet. People have their own battles and challenges to face in this world and bashing and criticizing and judging isn't the way to go from a higher point of view. Condoning is not the answer either, but it's so easy for people to sit on their high horses thinking they are better than anybody else because they meditate and do yoga. Judging and criticizing is not in alignment with the higher power either. When we see people acting in ways that goes against what is aligned with their true nature, which btw is not selling sex, but being cruel, unkind, judgemental, condescending, thinking you're better than you are also acting in a low conscious manner.

Seriously, I don't think the two actually goes together - high or low consciousness. Don't even know why the mention.

You forgot to say the direct selling of sex. Sex is being indirectly sold in marketing strategies. That's where the quote "sex sells" come from. Intact, you've also indirectly bought sex. That female you had sex with and was so attracted to, bought make up, high heels and a sexy dress that you bought into.

Sorry, I said "no", because it's just a matter of differences of opinion. I don't think decenticization of porn leads to more hard core stuff. If anything, it reduces the need for porn entirely and probably lowers one's sex drive but not necessarily. Just my opinion

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There's violence, torture and abuse of animals. There's violence, torture and abuse in the churches. There's violence torture and abuse of children in households. There's violence, torture and abuse in war zones. Also, there's porn that doesn't exploit or contains violence, torture and abuse. There are plenty of examples on both sides of the spectrum and in places not known. Porn industry is just another example. If you were to constantly watch videos of children or animals being tortured and abused, you would be asking why is there so much torture and abuse of children and animals. There's someone right now, as we speak, getting tortured and abused and also someone being cared for. We're only concerned with what we're aware of and what we focus on expands.

No, it's a way of expressing the anger inside.

Don't you watch porn? What's the difference. Sometimes they do persecute the onlookers.

There is ultimately one body. One Self. It all exists, or none at all. It's like looking in the mirror. Your reflection technically doesn't exist, but it's still there. Without you there's no reflection of you. So whatever you're aware of is also a reflection of you.

Mentors are great. A lot of successful people had mentors.

Ironically, no thoughts or perspectives is entirely one's own. How do you think you were able to agree with everything he said. They were also your thoughts and perspectives.

You are not just the body. Who is the one that wants to leave the body. Investigate that and you'll find no one there.

Well, you did say, you think. The Universe is also masculine and feminine.

That's a feminine perspective. You haven't integrated your masculine side. Masculine men don't have this problem. If they do, it's not just in this area and carries over unto other self insecurity issues. Just like how a woman doesn't feel comfortable approaching, it's a masculine trait that should empower a man not demasculate him. Has nothing to do with rejection because no one likes that but the hurt of a rejection isn't going to stop a masculine man from approaching something that he sees and wants or make him feel desperate. Those are the things the feminine feels. Your feminine side overpowers your masculine side.

That's because we don't have any equipments that needs performance. Getting wet is also not necessary for sex to happen either. Neither sexes really understand the depth of what it really means to be a particular sex, I guess that's why I hear so many misconceptions on the men's part. They don't take me seriously when I oppose, though, and say we don't know ourselves, or we just don't get men or something like that. It's very rare I see a male on here genuinely caring about how we feel and ask us questions. They are usually asking other men and taking other men's advice over the ladies. The one's that do ask, I can tell even before that, that they were the type to care just from how they interact on the forum. @CARDOZZOis one amongst others. Davino is another. Breakinthewall to. It's easy to spot a sensitive man who cares about what women really like and whose just not about himself even just from online interactions. Luvboy too.

Are you saying here that he needs to be so attracted because after the initial lust thing wears off and he gets used to you, he needs to know he can still get hard even if he loves you as love has nothing to do with attraction. Is he thinking that long-term about this, if that's what you're saying.

Not sure, never had that happen.

I don't know about for my sake😛Plenty of drunk men can't get it up. I get what you're saying.

Yes, and that's why I found it important to try and understand rather than judge, criticize and hate. You actually helped in this regard with a comment you made to me. You said something under the lines of men are visual and looks mattered because they have an equipment to get up. Meaning, they have to get hard to be able to have sex. Before, I used to think it was shallow of them to only be interested in looks and it seemed so vain, but now I understand the underlying reason behind that now and i don't see it as vain and shallow anymore. It's probably subconscious on the men's part, but nature knows what it's doing and doesn't make mistakes. It's up to us to find the fundamental reasons for why things are as they are instead of hating them. What we don't understand we judge and hate but understanding is the underlying essence of loving something. Another belief I have is that most men don't care to understand women and they just want their needs met. I'm yet to find the underlying reason why this is so, so I can understand without a sense of judgement.

Awww, this sounds so sweet and cuddly to hear. Sounds like daddy looking out for his kids. This was a turn on. See, women get turned on by the silliest of things. Lol😜😜😜😜

Exactly. I'm glad you're bringing all this to the forefront. Our self-deception (if this is actually a self-deception) runs rampant. Humans make a lot of assumptions and it's partly what causes our suffering. Might not seem evident at first, but with a little backtracking we can spot the clues.

Oh ok. Never noticed.

Leo, you're doing affiliates now?