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Well maybe the use of the words "seemingly" and "seems to" would be more appropriate to use along with those phrases since it's not really happening, a.k.a. Illusion.

Are you nuts. Us women here are too smart for that., hehe. We observe, then we act accordingly. We don't compete with men, we adjust. That's the win win. We don't see men as problems, we figure out the solutions. Not that what you say doesn't happen elsewhere and maybe the same women here wouldn't do that elsewhere, but we're smart enough not to do that on a male dominated forum. We save that for amongst ourselves.

OK. I guess you're just pointing out certain differences you see. I guess it just seems like criticisms instead of pointing out and showing what femininity can look like at times in it's different forms of expressions.

How can it perceive itself and be aware of itself. Doesn't that suggests duality.

Seems like @OBEler wants women to be men and men to stay as men. Embrace the differences. Both are similar and different. The heading of the thread alone, especially with the use of the word "wildly", seems to suggests a problem with the difference in interests. If men and women were the same expressions, that itself would be problematic for the balancing of life itself. Both generally balances each other out. Seems like there's a problem there integrating your feminine side but I leave that part for @Emeraldto tackle. She can speak on that more diplomatically and I'm also curious to see if she feels this way about it too.

That's just a different expression. Men express differently the same kind of feelings. Saying high-pitch voice seems like a personal thing because men don't normally have high-pitched voices by default so it's usually high-pitched in women. What's the difference in saying men Holla in deep pitched voices and stab and shoot each other just to let everyone know their feelings. Or shoot up schools and bars. C'mon, stop picking on the natural tone of women's voices.

No, you create it.😜

@OBEleri gotta give you this though, women in politics can be a joke. Remember this, hehe. Not a good representation but funny, nonetheless.

BTW, lots of women are into politics.

This is so far from the truth. In certain gender-related things, yes and biologically, but personality wise, you guys can be very different. Even sexually, such a wide range there. The wiring of the brain is biological, and I agreed there, but in other ways, there are vast differences.

Showing a Meghan Markle interview doesn't quite fit the bill. Like seriously. She's a representation of the true face of women? A woman married into royalty? Then we criticize her when she shows fakeness. Royalty is fakeness by definition already. So.....that's all here...and so. It's not like you're comparing it to a common interest like food, people, environment, etc. It's robotics for Christ's sake, a left-brain interest. That already excludes women automatically. Before this forum were videos, mostly male audience, that carried over...has nothing to do with forums in general. Is redditt male dominated, idk, I'm not really on there. Ever thought about women not looking for truth because they innately consider themselves to be truth already and men seek truth more because it's a rough world out there and truth helps with survival. Just a possibility, plus that assumption seems ludicrous. Just a little side note, all the men I've encountered all across the board, from any age to all ethnicities and nationalities and i've met and spoke to a lot throughout the years 98% of them all love to talk about themselves. If they asked me something about me and I gave a one or two word answer, it was never a challenge again to turn it right back on them, they'd be happy again to continue to blabber about themselves. All about personal stuff and feelings and whatever else they wanted to talk about concerning their life. Always. Very few cared to drag anything out of me and about my life, and if they did, it wasn't long before the convo turned back on them and their lives again. Most women can attest to this. It's not a judgment just showing how you're mistaken in a lot of what you're assuming.

Short answer: I don't know Long Answer: I know but it would just feel like telling stories that never happened.

Would you say your profile pic is you. Is that you or is it a picture of you. Is a picture of you the real thing. Is your profile pic real or unreal. Is it the opposite of the real you. Is it an illusion of you.

Lol

No matter what the me does, it will always be working on itself. Constantly having to remind itself of something. Like a slave to itself. Stay present, get into the flow, surrender this, let go of that, meditate on this, meditate on that, sit in silence. don't listen to your thoughts, leave the mind alone, focus on this not that, just be, go to this place, go to that place, listen to this guru, listen to that guru, I mean constantly reminding itself of itself. Constantly in construction class. Trying to fix this or that. Working on that, working on this. It's a constant thing. It's tiring. Exhausting. Go to sleep and wake up again; me me me me me me me me what fixin's for the me today. What will I work on today. You have to be doing 'the work' or you're considered a loser, a lazy bum. I take pride in my construction. What are you doing. How's your work over there. Any progress lately. 10,000 hrs of this and 20,000 hrs of that. I'd rather put in those hours to learn the piano and music lessons. Do the work, what work. Life isn't a job. It's play. My problems, my suffering, my issues, my,my,my,my,my,my,my,my,my from me, me, me, me, to my, my, my, my, my, my,my, The world revolves around us. We're at the center. We exist. We belong. We own things. Emotions that I don't even know how to get rid of is mine. My anger. If it's your anger why can't you just throw it away and never pick it back, up. If it's your problems why can't you get rid of it. You can get rid of your pants right now, why not your fucking problems and suffering. Then when I tell you there's no one there, you want to curse me out and tell me there's no value in saying that. There's no value on owning the world either but you do. There's no value in owning suffering and problems either but you do. Who am I talking to then. No one. I'm just as insane.

You've been on here for years talking 'bout the same thing. Ain't gotten nowhere yet and never will. That's the dream dreaming up what reality CAN BECOME. You're not dreaming. You are the dream itself. You won't like this conversation too much, because it's shattering the dream. All else fails you call me nihilistic.

No, you're the one being nihilistic. Needing reality to seem big and exiting, vibrant and powerful. You said so. Ilm saying it like it is. The dream is what's needing it to be different. Drinking a cup of coffee is it.

Illusion doesn't mean something doesn't exist. It just means something looks different from what it actually is. Say a woman in high heels gives off the illusion of being taller than she actually is. Or speaking through a microphone makes the voice appear louder or looking in the side mirror of the car (objects appear closer than they are). Those are what's considered illusions.

OK the dream. I get it. Dream big. What do you think perception is.

Still waiting for you to tell me where you've been and not what life can become.

OK, so have you done that. What is it like, where did you go, what happened, tell me about it.

Really trying here to decipher your words. There is no me, you, him, her, she, we, them, they, our, my, mine, I, we, us. All stories and made up by life itself. It's all life. Energy, being everything.

No different than what you're doing. Whatever you're saying to do is also relative ideas that the self formulates.

Whatever bore me here.

Duality isn't happening. It's simply only an appearance.