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Lol

You can also try dandelion root coffee or mushroom coffee. (Google). You can also boil some fresh cloves and sip on that using milk of your choice - tastes like coffee but only if you use a lot of cloves to make it strong.

Lol, be nice.

Yes, I get that, just saying what I'm saying could also be the case. I'm not saying she's cold and distant and you have to really wonder if she likes you. What I'm saying is, you know she likes you because you can sense or feel it, but she still acts reserved to take things slow. She wants you to talk to her, play around with her and so on but just because she seems a little distant and she's not touchy touchy doesn't mean she doesn't like you. IOW, don't use a female's physical cues as to whether she likes you or not, use her eyes, the fact that she's smiling and appears to be enjoying your company and her body language.

I guess. I forget.

Yeah, most guys I guess when you casually meet them and give it up easily.

They are the target because hot girls aren't necessarily looking for a hot guy. Average -handsome, but he doesn't have to look like a model and not even handsome but as long as he's somewhat average and not real ugly. Nothing wrong with real ugly; but those guys will probably have a better chance if she already knows him. It's not about being worthy for an attractive woman. It's just that if she thinks you feel unworthy for her, she might get turned off because now you're saying you're lacking something and she may not want to find out more about you because now you seem like work to her when she just wants to have a good time. They might not want to have to spend time trying to make you feel comfortable with them, and make it seem as if they're too hot for you. They want you to already know this because she's not there to babysit. That alone is what's attractive to her, the fact that you're not shy to approach her.

Sadhguru in legal trouble?

This is where you have an advantage..... ....and this is where you don't....the self doubt and limiting beliefs. Work on this part and you'll be good to go, just make sure you really believe it and that it's possible.

Average looking guys are the target; but they don't know this and believe otherwise, so they self-sabotage. Just like you're asking here and mentioning things that really doesn't matter to a hottie. Yes, some but not most. You'll see hot women with short guys, broke guys, not so good looking guys, etc, but you will rarely find them with low-confident guys or shy guys or reserved guys. It takes a very courageous and confident average looking guy to approach a hottie and that's where the attraction comes in, not necessarily in his muscles or height, height is more important than muscles and varies from female to female but a short guy still has a chance. IT all comes down to how the guy sees himself in relation to that woman because the projection will be obvious to her. Now, she either wants to know about him more or get him away from her. All depends on how he sees himself.

This means nothing to a woman's "standoffishness". She could be mesmerized by you and still place herself apart/away from you. (this isn't a game she's playing, it's an instinctual thing). BTW, when a female really likes you is when, in the beginning, she treads on thin ice, for fear of sending the "easy" signal or likes you so much she wants to prolong the initial stages or for any other reason and wants you to really like her back also. There's a reason she was at his place to begin with; don't know the details so this is all speculation; but women get reserved sometimes when they really, really like you. Guys can only know these types of things from other women.

Sex isn't that special by your standards so who cares. The rest of your comment is pretty much what I mean by "earning it". He was careful in his approach and didn't take it for granted. Just like people do with "earning respect", and "earning trust". Same kind of thing.

USA food manufacturing sucks. Bottomline. They put extra shit in the food that's not needed. It's cheaper; I guess that's the main reason.

That's what the internet is for.

Caffeine is a stimulant, that's why, and gives some people a dopamine hit. You're probably addicted to something right now that gives the brain a dopamine hit, and coffee isn't needed for you. For some people it's actually dope that does it. It's not the coffee perse, but the effects from the caffeine.

Please do not think this way. It seems as if you're saying Leo gave you permission to do it. Please remember he also said he doesn't advise people under any circumstances to harm themselves.

NEED I POST MORE, because I can. This is just the appetizer.

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He didn't ask our pov on the drinking of coffee and if he should drink it or not, but how to drink it so as to not cause an addiction and the ways in which he can consume it safely. Not to tell him not to drink it or giving our opinions on coffee-drinking in respect to if it's worthwhile or not.

Yes, I did. I overindulged for about a month and developed inflammation in the knee. It got swollen where I found it difficult to even walk. I almost took my self to the emergency room because I wasn't sure what was going on. My own intuition kicked in, I took action based on the knowledge I've acquired, saw the peanuts as a probable cause because I'm aware they contain phytic and other acids and can cause inflammation. I took the necessary steps, eliminated peanuts from my diet took some black seed oil, drank lots of sour sop tea and celery juice and in no time that knee restored itself back to normal. Also, coffee has been known to cause heart palpitations in some people, it eliminates calcium from the body through urination and contributes to weakening of the bones if consumed too regularly and is a diuretic. So don't take these foods too lightly as people are unaware that sometimes it's these unsuspecting foods and others that are causing their bodies to react negatively.

Ok. Have a nice day while I go somewhere else with my respectable bullshit. Don't want to stir up my pebbles and create any unwanted ripples. With love and respect.

So many of us wouldn't be clashing with his character if it wasn't problematic. Sometimes it's not what's being said, but how it's being said. Being condescending is not what conscious communication is about whether the person speaking is right or wrong, it's being respectful and cognizant of other's right to their opinions. Everyone, or most of us here, understands that we are not professionals here; it's a public forum for people to express their ideas and suggestions and not to use it as professional advice and that we are all from different walks of life and cultures and have had different experiences. Constantly criticizing and judging and speaking in very derogatory ways to others and constantly finding reasons why you're doing so, even when confronted about it by so many, shows there is no attempt to even self-reflect to see if maybe you're out of alignment and maybe adjust the way you communicate with others.

I used to have this mindset until I grew to understand why people, including myself, act and behave in ways we do. I don't get disappointed anymore, empathy grows. Not in the way of something is wrong with them and i empathize, but understanding. I don't like to bring spirituality into things all the time but it's important if you want to gain composure in life and to not let the world unsettle you. People have constructed an identity which entails all the building blocks from their thoughts, experiences, beliefs, ideas and their own world view. It changes like the wind depending on various factors and where they're at in life and their development. They themselves are trying to stay with the flow of their inner changes and the current is so wavering they become unsettled inside. So, please don't take it too seriously and literally because someone else is viewing you the same way without the proper understanding of who you are and without knowing the stories you're telling yourself and how that has to be aligned with your identity. You being disappointed or feeling that way, is only you not realizing this and have identified as your constructed egoic mind identity and comparing it to theirs. I do the same thing, so don't think I'm above this; the difference is I'm aware of what the mind is doing and I'm not invested in it to feel disappointed anymore. Not even in myself because that just leads to more unconsciousness.