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....and why most people feel depressed and are unhappy. Going back to my past thread...happiness is the enemy. It feels so good we want more. It's like a drug. It's the main purpose of the me because it's unhappy being a me. Nothing real about a me. It's the only fake thing in existence.

"You need to find it within you", suggests just that. It's OK, figure of speech.

Happiness isn't lost.

There is no witness in wholeness.

These days I don't put anything pass anything much anymore. There could be somebody out there now who is naturally happy regardless of circumstances. I don't mean they were taught that or even does it consciously. I mean their momma died, their cat died, they got in a car accident, stuff like that and their smiling and carrying on happily ever after and saying, oh well, life goes on. I mean it's their natural state or even a disease just as depression can be. You know how some people are always sad no matter what, just the opposite. I've heard of a woman with no mind so anything is possible, Lots of things I haven't heard of so, you're right, never know.

Yeah that's what I meant. You said what is actually good and i was saying no such thing as good is always relative because in the Absolute sense there's no right or wrong.

No such thing. It is always relative. Always.

No state is caused by you. Get sad now. Get frustrated or angry now. Something on the outside is required. This is why telling someone how to be happy all the time is futile. Peace is a state of harmony that is caused by the absence of it's opposite so even that is caused by the absence of something else.

Action doesn't always mean moving. The same way stopping seeking spiritually is still a form of seeking or a protest of something by not doing that something is also an action.

Yes, I can respect this more than must showing some belief systems of a man that was already poisoned by the system along with his killer. It's a cycle and will never end by just pointing the finger at one man and blaming him for his own death. This the point I'm trying to make here. This is more than just Kirk's belief systems.

It never ends. Just like an earthquake, Aftershocks are imminent.

The body is also doing that. Fight can also be not moving. That's the body's way of fighting passively. Yes, you won't know how the body will respond because there's no you there directing the body. The "no you syndrome" is everywhere in reality displaying itself. There is no something there overriding the body's response, it's automatic whatever it does.

What's the difference with him saying this and someone going on a roof top and pulling the trigger to blow his brains out. One actually committed a crime. Whose wrong and whose right, Neither, Showing all the atrocities this man may have stood for is like saying it's OK to kill someone who advocates for killing. Equals itself out. This isn't any worse than the person who pulled the trigger. Actually it's worse, it's trying to show justification for killing. The shooter shot and killed, you're showing a video from a year ago. What's the point.

Itemizing his belief systems doesn't help in stopping this war on humanity. It shows justification. Saying one can get killed is one matter, taking the time out to personally itemize his belief systems is another. The shooter isn't any better than the victim's belief systems. Say I hated him for what he stood for and i pulled the trigger, I wouldn't dare say it's because of what he believed in, i'd say because I'm just as bad as he is and I'm a killer who also needs to be put away for my belief systems. That was in cold blood and was meditated. If I did that I wouldn't justify it with excuses to make myself seem like a role model of a citizen and say he deserved it. What makes him deserve it more than I do. Biases and justifications and selfishness, thinking i have the right to take another's life because I don't agree with them without putting him on trial and finding him guilty and administering the death penalty if thats the law. The killer can also get killed for this. Whose right and whose wrong. Neither, so sharing belief systems is null and void.

Why would you get in trouble with someone by just approaching. Yes, some lunatic men are out there and will respond harshly if they witness a man hitting on their gf, but it's up to her to say, she's with someone or as soon as you find out, apologize and exit the situation. If she's taken but her man isn't around, it's still up to her to tell you she's taken without you even having to ask. Asking is OK, but it doesn't guarantee it either way, because females lie about this all the time. Approach, feel her mood, if she's receptive that's all needed for now until a bit later on then maybe ask just for added insurance that she's not putting you in harm's way. No guarantee either way and there's no full-proof method for scanning if she does or not. Unfortunately, it's a chance you take because some women may not be upfront either way and for no valid reason.

That guy in the video doesn't know what he's talking about. Anybody that tries to teach a human how to be happy is deluded themselves. When someone, however, tells you that all emotions can arise at any time and that it's not personal and there's no blueprint for DEALING with emotions, then that's more like it. There is no way to practice your way out of sadness. Sadness may or not appear, happiness may or may not appear. That's it. Emotions aren't there to be dealt with, the same way you put up an umbrella in the rain is the same way the body shields itself from sadness and that might be through some form of distraction or whatever. One cannot stop an emotion from arising, they can only not react, which is the body's response system at play from it's programming. Get real people and stop allowing these people to keep you chasing your own tail. The body releases endorphins that act like pain relievers and mood boosters. There's no way one can start or stop that from happening. There are no predictors of what will appear next as far as circumstances and happenings and appearances. You think you can say what appears next, you're kidding yourself. The body is going to respond with it's built in fight or flight mechanisms and endorphins will flow appropriately and without your doing.

Person of interest photo released.

Weapon recovered...they say.

You're talking nonsense. Where has chasing happiness gotten you so far. Did you invent happiness. No. Why try to own it, life will show you whose boss over and over again. Silence me all you want, that's not going to make you boss over life and it's features. What does people killing themselves gave to do with the truth of happiness and that it's a feel-good chemical that the brain chases just like it does any other fucking high. I'm being fir real. You're being deluded. Do you think I don't want to be happy either. Of course but I'm not going to delude myself into believing that life gives a shit about me and my wants. It couldn't care less. What do I do, don't care if I'm happy or sad. I'll take them both because i'm a big girl that's not spoilt and think life owes me anything. It's everything including feeling miserable and chasing happiness only confirms youre a miserable son of a bitch.

I am too. Humans justify their neuroses by saying it's relative to chase happiness. There's nothing absolute about chasing a high.

Just as bad, if not worse than what Charlie stood for. Those that are pointing out Mr Kirk's beliefs as justification for a heinous cowardly crime is just as bad as the perpetrator, if not worse because you're hiding behind a computer screen while Charlie did his in public. At least, he didn't hide his evil. You are justifying yours. None of you are any better than the monster you're pointing at.

Sadness doesn't imply an unhealthy body. Chasing happiness does. As life has proven to us time and time again, it's natural states cannot be gotten or achieved forever by neurotic humans. Life is sad, life is happy and it's perfectly fine with both, it's humans that want to own everything for themselves and suffer for it.

Sadness exists. No difference. It only feels worse. We chase happiness because we're neurotic beings. Chasing a high. Chasing happiness is an addiction. Do you see anybody up in here asking what is sadness. Who cares. We don't want what exists we're neurotically chasing a feel good high.

And i don't deny that. Nothing here you said, I'd be against one saying. These words aren't hate words. There's a difference.

That's a different story. My stance is not justifying those assholes either. Going on trial is different from perpetrating the same thing one is against.