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Make biological art. Paint the human anatomy and create 3d art showing the biological structure of things.

I remember once a few months back you started a thread about the male/female dynamic and the problems they face. I remember you saying something about shame being at the core of some of these relationship issues and you went on to explain it in detail. His response to you shows how what you wrote was on point and how shame can be such a deal-breaker if one is going through this emotion and how it can negatively impact us if not dealt with at the core. If you can find that thread,(no big deal if you can't) it would be nice to share it here for reference.

That's lust. Another form of love, but don't confuse the two.

Love this.

This has started to be my new catch phrase lately, (in my personal life). People look at me like, wtf are you talking about. I'd be like, "that shit came outta nowhere". They be like, Ah, ah, nope, it came from my ass putting it there, or somebody else". I'd be like, "Well, where was it before that", they can't answer or come up with stuff like, somebody else had it or it was in the bank or some logic like that. I just leave it alone at that point cause then they're going to have to explain it backwards to Infinity. Hehe

No answers to your question will satisfy that inquiring mind. What i've quoted here from your post is more relevant. Try to work on that fear. Try to get comfortable with the uncomfortable. Life isn't about to make you comfortable in every endeavor. Learn to face your fears. You have anxiety, I can tell, no need to ask. These kinds of fears are what's fueling it. It loves these kinds of fears. The one's that cannot be prevented ahead of time. Who knows, no one. I could be facetious and say the same amount of time it takes you to fall in love, is the same amount of time it will take to fall out. Learn to take chances and be open to the unknown. That's what life's about. If you knew every step of the way, hour by hour, minute by minute, every second what was in store for you for the rest of your life detail by detail and exactly what will happen, how boring that will be you'd want to kill yourself or still get anxious and can't wait for the good parts, still suffering from anxiety. We fear the unknown and we fear the known. We fear everything. Overcome that, relax and try to see in the mind's eye what you would like to experience and not worry about things you don't. What we fear, we create because fear is a very intense emotion and we create from being focused and attentive to where we place our energy.

Learn how to give love. Giving is receiving. When you start to give love to others you are giving it to yourself. That's how you fill your cup in this regard. Love is Universal and when we start to see it as something we should have it blinds us, over shadows us, because it is what you are. We try to gain it from others and tell ourselves we have to have it to give it, then we become hoarders of love thinking we need to start loving ourselves first then we can start to love others. We need to fill our cup with money before we can give that away, fill up on gas before we can drive, fill up on knowledge before teaching, but when it comes to love, it's the energy force that drives the engine to want to give away things that represent the love we already are. So, we don't need to fill up on love to give love, we need to fill up on the things that represent love so we can express the love that we already are.

Great question. You see, we're all that, the Absolute, God, Brahman, whatever you call it and when you make posts like these and give in to these kinds of "self-questionings", it is that very same being in conflict with itself. Through the veil of separation, trying to get back to itself, find itself (so-to-speak), questioning itself, asking itself such questions through you, it's avatar. You already know the answers but this is the game it's playing with itself. If it didn't play this game, it wouldn't know itself. The question above is a direct inclination of this. It has eternity to figure out all this and this is the stepping stone; but only in the relative domain as it is already whole, perfect and complete. Welcome to the game, my friend, enjoy the process of figuring this shit out for yourself. This is why it's called a dream. A mirage, hallucination. You don't have love to give you are it, so go and shine that light and stop expecting love in return because you are just neglecting yourself and that part of you that's conditional and the part that doesn't need anything. You will never find what you're looking for because it is already here.

This is also unconditional love expressing itself as transactional. Nothing wrong with that if one stops seeking what they already are. Take the business side of love and either love or hate it. Your choice. It cannot be any other way because then it'll be conditional.

Not being able to love without provision is also unconditional love. Unconditional love means just that, under no conditions. You're looking for conditions as to not need anything from your partner. That's a condition. God doesn't provide conditional love, it IS unconditional love. There's nothing finite here only the Infinite masquerading as finite. You are that, and you are already the love that you seek.

Good advice, but the question was how to fix what those things already messed up. What you've mentioned doesn't accomplish that. Prevention doesn't help in this case.

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This is why coconut oil is great for teeth, it contains the same compound that's found in breast milk.

Not that I saw these videos before or got my info from them, but just showing.... Calcium strengthens teeth. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. Never seen these videos before, so it's not like I got my info from these sources. There are plenty. Including my own teeth.

I use toothpaste but not conventional ones like Colgate or Crest but either charcoal or neem or Dr Bronner's brand. I don't use conventional mouthwash either. I either make my own using cloves or just rinse with a baking soda/water mix, Himalayan salt/water or a quick apple cider swish. Coconut oil pulling or some essential oil/water solution. Whatever I have on hand. I mix the eggshell powder with the toothpaste and brush and maybe add coconut oil. I mix it up.

I wanted to become a lawyer from high school days, then a psychologist in college, now I'm a stripper. Lmao.

Go to YT and type in Aaron Abke heart Chakra. He has a few videos on this and he's a good Spiritual Advisor. Choose which one suits you or just watch them all.

Be genuinely interested in her. (which is mostly going to interest older men or the more mature who have been through the chasing pussy stage). Becoming a great listener. Ask questions and genuinely be interested in the answers and be without judgement in that moment. Question women friends, relatives and the platonics on their likes and dislikes about men....etcetc things like that. Note however that these are just guidelines and nothing concrete as women can get flimsy and wishy washy, but the more you do this, you'll get a better at formulating your own assessments on the general scale. Most men are into themselves and love to talk about themselves,(this is an observationand not a criticism), so you'll definitely have one up on them in this regard by adopting this strategy. Even just doing this alone with a date or a potential date will give attraction points because it's so rare coming from a man and women love to see genuine interest. This will be more of a trial and error but going to mutual places of interest will help. Like, if you like athletic women go to the gym or women who are into music, go to concerts or women who love sports, you get the drift. Go to places where you would find the type of women you think you'd be attracted to on a personal level. If you hate promiscuous women, don't go to clubs or bars to try to find one - not saying they all are but to narrow it down a bit. Try to be yourself around them and what I mean by that is to not pretend to think you know what they want or that you're somebody you're not. We all act differently around different people and we all have multiple personalities depending on whom we're interacting with but we also have a baseline personality and you want to show that one more when trying to meet women for dating. After you've gotten to know her a bit, you can probably show some sides to you that may compliment what she has shown you, but let her shine so you're able to get to see more of her and be able to decide more quickly if she's compatible or not.

I like this quote.

Funny, because I was going to put in the "request a video topic" section something in the realm of understanding and the processes involved, like his video on how to determine what's true - along that line. So maybe our minds were linked and if we focus hard enough, he might follow through.

Yeah, this is more like a niche and more personalized which will probably be a bit more difficult to generalize; but yeah it fits in perfectly.

Leo's name is written all over this. This is probably the basis on how he formulates most of his videos and courses.

For sure.

Not if there's no attachment there and if one is operating from a place of identification. You're right, it's not easy but pass this point it becomes unmalleable for outside forces to influence you. I'm not there yet, but I've experienced spurts of it depending on my state.

Beautiful. All your explanations are beautiful to read. Something within me feels something when I read them.