Princess Arabia

Most criminals don't not commit their crimes because of fear of being incarcerated. A true rapist isn't thinking all this through. The urge is stronger than the consequences. Has nothing to do with morals.

I was waiting for this to come up. I'm not intimidated by this statement. It's just a way of trying to silence the female voice on these matters. I don't have to be a guy to know or understand why people rape. Your arguments are lame and only shows ignorance on your part.

There's probably 100 men right now in a particular town who are sexually frustrated another 200 that crave sex and not getting any, but not one of them is a rapist. There's probably one rapist in that same town, married with kids and can get pussy anytime he wants. Don't be fooled guys, there's a difference between a rape fantasy, and actually going out and committing the act. Or even thinking about rape from frustration and anger and actually doing it. One doesn't become a rapist by just thinking about it. Many people think about it. Just like you might think about robbing a bank when you're broke, but never actually doing it.

What I'm saying is, if one doesn't have the other attributes that leads to rape, they're not going to likely commit the act from mere sexual frustration or the fact that they crave sex. A person doesn't become a rapist out of sexual frustration. They can be sexually frustrated, but it's not the underlying reason. It's these kinds of belief systems that sometimes make these perpetrators feel justifiable in committing their acts or simplify the act of rape and boil it down to a mere matter of sexual frustration. There are men turning down pussy just so they can derive pleasure from the one that was harder to get or that they had to manipulate their way into getting. It's a type of mindset, guys. I'm not saying that rapists don't get sexually frustrated.....but it's not why they rape.

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THERE'S NO POINT THERE. Rape is not about sex.

If one doesn't already have a rapist mentality no amount of sexual frustration or craving sex will lead one to actually go out and commit rape.

It pains me to see this statement.

Yeah, you're right. It's important to note also that in the mind of a rapists, seeing prostitutes is the last thing on their mind because they don't really get that same satisfaction. It's about power and with a pro, there's no power there, in fact she's the one with the power in that instant. So a real rapist isn't interested in prostitutes, that's usually where the serial killers come in. There are different categories to this shit. It's amazing how it works. That's why they have people that study these minds. It rings deeper than some mere sexual frustration. My cat gets sexually frustrated.

Yes, yes, yes.

Couldn't have said it better.

So the many people that are frustrated doesn't include women, I guess. Because if both are sexually frustrated, then they'd find a way to satisfy their frustration without raping. Believe it or not, sexual frustration doesn't lead to rape. One might think about it but will never commit the act, if the underlying reason for the rape wasn't there to begin with, which could be a few things like hatred for women or a feeling of lack of power or whatever else goes through the mind of an actual rapist. Saying people rape due to sexual frustration undermines the severity of the act and to me is saying that sexual frustration can lead one to commit a crime of rape based solely on the fact that they were sexually frustrated. Totally undermines the crime by putting it in that category.

Great point. Sexual frustration is just that. Rape takes a different mindset. That's like undermining the violation of the act. Oh well, they were just sexually frustrated. No, something else is going on there. Most times rape isn't about sex, but about power. Plenty of people getting plenty of sex still rape.

What good work is this. What good work is Bambi doing here, I'm dying to know. Other than projecting, criticizing and judging and assuming and speculating.

I never said he mistreated me. Why would I get into this type of work because some man mistreated me. Makes no sense. You're the one projecting on me here. Nothing I've said so far indicates that I've been traumatized, have low self esteem or whatever else you keep saying I am. I was joking about my ex he never traumatized me. I'm not traumatized by anything. Traumatized...by what. The only trauma I go through is you keep telling me I'm traumatized..lol If I was fucking guys left and right and on drugs to numb the pain yeah I'd be traumatized. I would never do this if that's what I had to do. I'm older than I look because I'm not traumatized, never did drugs, have no children and live a pretty peaceful life, eat fairly healthy, holistic and don't consume too much negativity. I do have my vices, but other than that, I'm good.

I'm home, dear, just giving an example of my work. If I was working i wouldn't be on here entertaining you

haha. Way before sex work dear. I was in college. Nothing to do with sex work.

Bambi I'm so sick of you stalking me. Go stalk someone else and stop traumatizing me please. I don't need your analysis of what I do. Go and clean up yourself from all the torture and torment you put yourself thru all those years while I go have a salmon dinner with my date, where's the trauma in that.

My ex-husband traumatized me more than these sweet perverted guys I'm giving a mutual service to. No problems only once in a blue moon and life goes on. You have no idea what my work entails, if you think trauma is involved.

Lol. There goes that word again. Trauma, TRAUMA, TrAUmA. Ok I'm traumatized. Now what?. Those guys are still looking for women to give their money to. I'm traumatized, boo boo, weep, weep. 😓😓

Really, why. Did I specify on what I do and how I do it. Warp my view?. I'm in the sex industry and don't have sex. Wee wee. I don't know what kind of warping it's doing other than the fact I can do this without getting banged up. Can't say the same for a regular relationship. Look you're not familiar with all that goes on, only your idea of what you think it entails.

Ok, I'll stay home and sip on my ginger tea and listen to my jazz music and get along with everybody around me and have no problems with life only with the one forum member who keeps traumatizing me and stalking me. I don't care what you say about the industry as you're not in it. Some doctors molest their patients and some don't. You don't know how I carry myself in this field and how I've stayed grounded. Go ahead and speculate all you want. I'd be traumatized too if I had to go through all you've been through. Nothing I've said in my comments suggests that I've been traumatized. You didn't tell Emerald she was traumatized with her similar remarks as mine. You're just insisting on making me traumatized. Maybe after you're done with me on this forum, I'll have an idea as to how it feels to be traumatized. Until then, I'll pass thank you.

Where u been I've been saying this from day one. I'll give you that my traumatized self knows nothing. Someone that never did drugs, never been raped, never been traumatized . I mean when i rea7d your story I feel like a nun compared to you. Yeah I called them perverts, so what, they call themselves perverts. They treat themselves worse than how the women treat them. You're not familiar with how I worked and you are totally speculating about shit. I'm not even going to continue this convo because you seem to derive pleasure from calling me traumatized. Lol so funny when i hear that.not everybody in this business has been traumatized. Normal life events traumatize me more than the adult industry. Regular bfs are more assholes and put you through more shit, I never have to worry about anything in the field I'm in, on ly the people that judge it and their idea about who they think I am.

Maybe when people stop blaming the women in these cases, these men will start taking responsibility for their sexual fetishes. We blame he scantily dressed woman for her being raped. We ostracize women and blame them for this stuff and these stings usually only target the women. Put these men responsible for their shit and leave these women alone. They are not responsible for men who love to whore down the town. They're just trying to eat. This shit will never end if we keep giving men a slap on the wrist. They know this, and they know they won't be looked down upon, that's why they keep doing it and they don't care.

This is not porn addiction.