Princess Arabia

Men are out here chasing women instead of chasing careers and status to attract the women. Notice how easy it is for men of status to get women. Instead of calling women gold-diggers or money hungry or manipulators, maybe try and see from their point of view. Lots of men don't mind providing and providing protection the best they can for the 'right' woman. The woman that appreciates and respects them for their efforts. Those men get their rewards just from being with the woman herself and not what she brings to the table. Her presence is enough for them which enables her to be in her feminine in their presence. She can maneuver both traits back and forth when needs be but usually is almost in her feminine around him. He feeds off of that. A lot of women become masculine because they are left on their own to fend for themselves. They get chewed up and spit out by men who can't see beyond her on a sexual level or the beauty that emanates from her being. They'll want to use her for their pleasure and also expects her to do all the work like raising children and doing house-work. That can mentally drain a woman and cause her to become bitter towards men and causes her to be in her masculine and close off her feminine side as a protective mechanism. Wrong journal. Just noticed. Anything can appear.

This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣See the difference. @integralYou done it again, you instigator you. You made me start thinking about the best sex i ever had. Maybe will never be duplicated and doesn't have to be.

Yeah, I guess it depends on the circumstances. Here in the US when I lived in apartments they always had extra keys that could access the apartment but only for emergency or if locked out and was free of charge. This was years ago and things could have changed now with all the digital stuff going on. So yeah, general advice there. You're right, though, locksmiths are brutal and the business can be a rip off. Just don't break into a locksmith shop, they'll fine you double in court and charge you triple just for showing up. Hehe

It's love because love is the absence of separation and there's none. Love is unity. The individual wants to "stick that dick into that ass" a forum member said that and because it seeks love and unity. I got upset by those terms because I saw a lack of love and unity. We seek what we think we lack. There's actually no seeker, only appears that way. Those words were said but by themselves. The anger towards those words was anger appearing. Energy turned to anger. No one did that. There's no one to do anything. It's all energy appearing including the person that may seem to say there's an avoidance of responsibility for one's actions. I invite for anyone to explain to me in detail or even slightly how they get angry or sad or moody or happy or whatever. Please explain to me the mechanics involved. Not why you got angry or the thing or circumstance that made you angry, but how you made anger appear. How you made sadness appear. How you build a chair and a house can be explained and taught. How the hands moved to build the house cannot be explained. Maybe scientifically but there will always be a gap somewhere as to how the motion was generated. It will always lead back to energy. God is energy it us how the hands moved. It is how the hands appear to not move (maybe a stroke or an accident). Also an appearance. God appearing as a stroke or accident victim. A new car can appear to make someone happy but that someone cannot explain how that happiness was generated. It happened all on it's own. Everything is happening all on it's own including the appearance of a dead body. That body is no more dead or alive than you seem to be. It's an appearance just as a chair is an appearance. There was never anyone in that body. No soul or entity. Just a body. A dead body is not a body that died. There is just an appearance of a dead body. There is no real continuity. That's the dream. When I say this is magic, that's what I meant simply unexplained magic. No one can explain how this is done because it's not being done. It is simply BEING. Being cannot explain being, it just simply fucking is.

God doesn't dream up crappy lives. There is no God that's dreaming. There is no one that's dreaming. THE DREAM IS THE INDIVIDUAL. The dream is the one that thinks God dreams. The dream is the one that thinks it has a life and stands on its own. The dream is not real. There is actually no dream, meaning there is no individual. There is just energy appearing to be an individual. God is energy. There are appearances. Appearances means there's nothing actually happening only appears to be. A rainbow appears when the conditions also appear for it to be a rainbow and those conditions also appears when conditions appear for them to be so and so on. A sneeze appears maybe after being exposed to pollen and a cough after exposed to smoke and a yawn after feelings of tiredness, etcetc. Everything is in relation to another thing simply because they have no true reality on their own. They are appearances. There is actually no relation, only appears that way. All appearances are empty. They have no substance to them. They cannot be grasped or held unto. They are not owned. They don't belong to anyone. That's the dream. This is energy speaking to energy. Responding and relating to energy. There's energy that has taken form to appear as........it's empty. Energy can become anything including the appearance of people seeming to be living crappy lives; including a forum where a poster asks why does God dream up crappy lives; including a reader that reads this and says she's full of shit. That's energy. The thoughts are energy, the ideas, the concepts the chair and the dog. The blood, the heart, the everything. All appearances, all empty and void of meaning and substance. There's a type of energy that thinks it's a separate energy. Somehow it ate from the tree of knowledge that knowledge thinks it knows (metaphor and analogy , didn't really happen, but that's what the story means). Now that energy appears to have a life of it's own, appears to have free will and choice, see other and thinks they're also separate from it and the rest of the shebang. Energy itself isn't dreaming, the body, which is also energy, feels like there's someone in there driving it, it appears to have feelings, emotions, sensations and is thinking and have control over itself. That's an illusion and the dream. It's not happening be cause that energy was never cut off in the first place and is not separate. I'm not teaching anyone anything, this is energy appearing as someone trying to convey a message to other energy forms. It's an illusion. It feels real to the individual and can appear to have consequences. This is not to say life doesn't appear to go on and the felt sense isn't real. It is but tell me one person that ever made it out alive. Not one. Why is it that no one will ever live forever. Ever. Because it's just bodies, an appearance. Do you ever see a rainbow lasting for 100years. Do you see anything that appears, appears forever, maybe suffering but you get the drift. Nothing can appear and last forever. It cannot stand on it's own. It's not appearing out of anything because that thing has had to also appear out of something and so on. IT IS NOTHING BEING. Full on. No middle man.......to be continued. The brain is seeming to shut down and the thoughts appearing and the mind believing...lost it.

I believe if it's an apartment building with an office and onsite workers, they'll have access to his unit if he's ever locked out, if that's what you're referring to about the locksmith.

It doesn't matter anyway because there's no one to decide to do or not do anything to not get anywhere or to get anywhere. Things are going to happen regardless and they are seemingly happening all on their own. So if someone goes in a cave because they believe they won't get anywhere or if someone keeps doing spiritual practices because they think they'll get somewhere, it's all being done by the Absolute being those circumstances and situations without a person in these bodies. Nothing can be done or not done to avoid, get or not get anywhere. It's life being life. Even your message is the Absolute talking to itself using a computer screen. One cannot apply non-duality. It's not even a real thing anyway. It can't be escaped. It tries to escape itself but it can't. It's stuck, but it doesn't know that or maybe it's just pretending. It's all there is. It's not getting anywhere or going anywhere but it can still appear as it's going somewhere or not. It can appear as anything.

Anything can appear.

Lmfao. Now I'm laughing at you. Have to admit, that vodka joke was funny.

It's fun to see the Absolute at it with itself on the forum. This is the ultimate magic. I know I wasn't saying that when I was pissed yesterday. This is why I just can't hold grudges for too long or at all. Never was like that even from I was a child. Half of the time I'll even forget what I was pissed or arguing about. Something really bad like if I got raped or something or someone tries to kill me, sure, but for normal interactions and disagreements and arguing, I can't stay mad at the person for too long. Not in me. If I ever argue with someone and only interacted with them once, I'll be forgetting who it was and probably say something nice to them on the next interaction while they'd still be fuming from the last one. Remind me please, because I'll forget.

Lmao

"Normal people", as you put it, are probably less neurotic than spiritualists and something in their sense of self probably realizes there's no one there that needs fixing, but they can't put a handle on it. They don't know this. The sense intuits it on it's own. Since spiritualist and self-help junkies have a bit of neurosis in that sense of self, they call people normies and the rest high conscious, spiritual and knows better because they work on themselves. Another form of delusion. Nothing wrong with it, but there's nothing to fix or work on because this is already perfection. Even the fixin' and the improvements is perfection. Either way, it's perfection.

High conscious VS low conscious in spiritual circles is equivalent to sin and morals in religion. They judge by sin and morality and spiritualists judge by low and high conscious. Both are guilty of all by their terms, meaning they both do and say things that breaches what they've categorized the terms to mean or stand for. For example, a religious person who preaches against sin and immorality engages in sin and immoral behavior by the standards they use to represent these terms. A spiritualist that calls people out for being low conscious, also engages in low conscious behavior. Can't help it because no one is doing either. If you can't see the inconsistencies in life, I don't know what to tell ya. This is free flowing and does and says whatever the hell it wants. Go ahead and do your high-consciousness behavior but when you cheat on your gf, tell a lie, drink to get drunk, smoke that cigarette, curse that person out, fornicate in your mind, think ill of someone,,,,,I could write a book here, don't judge yourself or be shocked and disappointed in yourself. That's what happens to the me, it wants to be and become, wants people to be and become, then whenever the Absolute appears however the fuck it wants, neurosis kicks in, guilt, kicks in, shame kicks in, regret, envy, all sorts of emotions and feelings arises. So we go meditate even harder to try and become something that's not appearing in hopes the Absolute appears as that holy person one day and we'll be saved and liberated from our sins and low conscious behaviors. The Absolute is also being that. Can't escape itself. Neurosis galore.

There's no 'other side'. This is it. No one dies and reincarnates or end up on the other side. THIS IS IT. Stories galore.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around this Truth thing. For me Truth is simply what is. From reading Leo's new blog post, I see his version of Truth seems more nuanced. More involved, More relative, though, and not Absolute. I think what he means by Truth and Truth seeking is on the relative domain. The Truth about the world; how to live in truth and not be self-deceived. Truth of how life should be lived, how to reach certain states of consciousness by seeking truth. If that's the case, then it's different from what I viewed truth to be. First of all. I say there's no truth, just what is. It's all the same on the Absolute sense but the relative is also Absolute so truth is relative in terms of the human and sense of separation. I'll further contemplate this a bit to see where it leads. I cannot just blindly follow if I'm genuinely curious and love this path for it's own sake. I don't consider myself seeking for spiritual gain but out of love and passion. That's the serious part for me, not whether I gain something from it or not but how seriously passionate I am about it but not in a neurotic way and more for the enjoyment of it. There's always room for growth and change on the relative domain even though it's all encompassing and there's no real separation. Cannot live from the Absolute level because that's death.

"God is pure power". That explains the power dynamic in humans. Why it's so essential to obtain it for some. Energy is power. When we're separate and seeking, we seek for things we deem we're lacking in. It's very painful - separation that is. If we have no power over something, we feel worthless and useless and lacking purpose and value. Power gives a kind of control over things and that's where the ego gets it's strength and motivation from. Without it (power), it weakens it. I'm just writing out my contemplations and having new insights from what Razaard just wrote on Squaad's post about God not caring about people's struggles. New way of seeing things and I'll try to fit it into my existing views to see if it fits. If there's a missing link, that's OK too because it will just open the doorway for more curiosity and musings. I never have a closed book. It's always open.

Those statements, when I read them in terms of energy, it made a lot of sense and put a new meaning on energy for me. It really did. Especially when you said God is pure power. Wow! That hit a spot. You know, I'm stubborn and will call out something i don't see to be the case even though they are only my personal pov's, but these statements really hit a nerve and made me see things in a way I've never did before. Something to contemplate on and put into new perspectives. Even the suffering part, I never really saw it that way, but from now on, I'll try to see where that fits in the picture for myself - the way you put it and why we suffer.

Lol

Children are so loveable and great to observe. They don't have a care in the world and they're not trying to impress or be a particular way. They just act. They do without thinking and are spontaneous and free. They always put a smile on my face. They have temper tantrums because, instinctively, they just want what they want, no excuses. They need to be trained and disciplined and told what to do and not do because they are raw and direct. They are without filters and a sense of identity. The very young ones. Both children and animals put a smile on my face except for barking dogs. I grew up with barking dogs and open gates and I developed a small tiny phobia surrounding that. Jamaica didn't have dog rules and laws and they would just roam freely around the neighborhood. Mongrel dogs. Most were tame and of no threat and the ones that were, were usually behind a gate, but sometimes you'd get a couple that were not and started barking at you. Never run from a barking dog, just act normal. I was a kid then and never got bit by a dog, but just the sound of one barking gives me the creeps. I'll pet a dog now especially over here in the states where most are just house pets, but I'll ask first if it's ok. Little chihuahuas don't scare me but the Rottweilers do. I've never petted a Rottweiler. I love service dogs, so quiet and loveable and smart. I just love animals. My fav, of course, are cats but I like them all. I love going to the zoo. Some people don't like the zoo because they see them as caged animals that need to be in the wild. They don't understand that most of those animals wouldn't survive in the wild as they were born in a zoo and that's all they know. My favs at the zoo are the monkeys, tigers, apes and dolphins. I like the elephants too. So intelligent.

No, that's how women fall in love, not men. Men will fall out of....if the woman loses her attractiveness. A woman can fall madly for an unattractive man who cares for her and he becomes to her the most attractive man in the room.

Not to keep breaking your ball's but I counted 19 threads that were started by you, all on the first page on the list and all just in June. Stroll down the pages and all i see is Santiago Ram. Don't you think that's a bit much and most of the comments are all made by you in most. Looks like you need a journal. No judgement, just observation. Are you drinking while posting? I only ask because you keep mentioning AA.

Funny how OP says men are more into truth seeking than women then goes on to speak about his gf's experience with 5meo. @OBEler Explain this please. Just asking out of curiosity and trying to understand why you say what you say.

I see.