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This is where you have an advantage..... ....and this is where you don't....the self doubt and limiting beliefs. Work on this part and you'll be good to go, just make sure you really believe it and that it's possible.

Average looking guys are the target; but they don't know this and believe otherwise, so they self-sabotage. Just like you're asking here and mentioning things that really doesn't matter to a hottie. Yes, some but not most. You'll see hot women with short guys, broke guys, not so good looking guys, etc, but you will rarely find them with low-confident guys or shy guys or reserved guys. It takes a very courageous and confident average looking guy to approach a hottie and that's where the attraction comes in, not necessarily in his muscles or height, height is more important than muscles and varies from female to female but a short guy still has a chance. IT all comes down to how the guy sees himself in relation to that woman because the projection will be obvious to her. Now, she either wants to know about him more or get him away from her. All depends on how he sees himself.

This means nothing to a woman's "standoffishness". She could be mesmerized by you and still place herself apart/away from you. (this isn't a game she's playing, it's an instinctual thing). BTW, when a female really likes you is when, in the beginning, she treads on thin ice, for fear of sending the "easy" signal or likes you so much she wants to prolong the initial stages or for any other reason and wants you to really like her back also. There's a reason she was at his place to begin with; don't know the details so this is all speculation; but women get reserved sometimes when they really, really like you. Guys can only know these types of things from other women.

Sex isn't that special by your standards so who cares. The rest of your comment is pretty much what I mean by "earning it". He was careful in his approach and didn't take it for granted. Just like people do with "earning respect", and "earning trust". Same kind of thing.

USA food manufacturing sucks. Bottomline. They put extra shit in the food that's not needed. It's cheaper; I guess that's the main reason.

That's what the internet is for.

Caffeine is a stimulant, that's why, and gives some people a dopamine hit. You're probably addicted to something right now that gives the brain a dopamine hit, and coffee isn't needed for you. For some people it's actually dope that does it. It's not the coffee perse, but the effects from the caffeine.

Please do not think this way. It seems as if you're saying Leo gave you permission to do it. Please remember he also said he doesn't advise people under any circumstances to harm themselves.

NEED I POST MORE, because I can. This is just the appetizer.

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He didn't ask our pov on the drinking of coffee and if he should drink it or not, but how to drink it so as to not cause an addiction and the ways in which he can consume it safely. Not to tell him not to drink it or giving our opinions on coffee-drinking in respect to if it's worthwhile or not.

Yes, I did. I overindulged for about a month and developed inflammation in the knee. It got swollen where I found it difficult to even walk. I almost took my self to the emergency room because I wasn't sure what was going on. My own intuition kicked in, I took action based on the knowledge I've acquired, saw the peanuts as a probable cause because I'm aware they contain phytic and other acids and can cause inflammation. I took the necessary steps, eliminated peanuts from my diet took some black seed oil, drank lots of sour sop tea and celery juice and in no time that knee restored itself back to normal. Also, coffee has been known to cause heart palpitations in some people, it eliminates calcium from the body through urination and contributes to weakening of the bones if consumed too regularly and is a diuretic. So don't take these foods too lightly as people are unaware that sometimes it's these unsuspecting foods and others that are causing their bodies to react negatively.

Ok. Have a nice day while I go somewhere else with my respectable bullshit. Don't want to stir up my pebbles and create any unwanted ripples. With love and respect.

So many of us wouldn't be clashing with his character if it wasn't problematic. Sometimes it's not what's being said, but how it's being said. Being condescending is not what conscious communication is about whether the person speaking is right or wrong, it's being respectful and cognizant of other's right to their opinions. Everyone, or most of us here, understands that we are not professionals here; it's a public forum for people to express their ideas and suggestions and not to use it as professional advice and that we are all from different walks of life and cultures and have had different experiences. Constantly criticizing and judging and speaking in very derogatory ways to others and constantly finding reasons why you're doing so, even when confronted about it by so many, shows there is no attempt to even self-reflect to see if maybe you're out of alignment and maybe adjust the way you communicate with others.

I used to have this mindset until I grew to understand why people, including myself, act and behave in ways we do. I don't get disappointed anymore, empathy grows. Not in the way of something is wrong with them and i empathize, but understanding. I don't like to bring spirituality into things all the time but it's important if you want to gain composure in life and to not let the world unsettle you. People have constructed an identity which entails all the building blocks from their thoughts, experiences, beliefs, ideas and their own world view. It changes like the wind depending on various factors and where they're at in life and their development. They themselves are trying to stay with the flow of their inner changes and the current is so wavering they become unsettled inside. So, please don't take it too seriously and literally because someone else is viewing you the same way without the proper understanding of who you are and without knowing the stories you're telling yourself and how that has to be aligned with your identity. You being disappointed or feeling that way, is only you not realizing this and have identified as your constructed egoic mind identity and comparing it to theirs. I do the same thing, so don't think I'm above this; the difference is I'm aware of what the mind is doing and I'm not invested in it to feel disappointed anymore. Not even in myself because that just leads to more unconsciousness.

What this statement reveals to me, and it's my personal opinion, is that it is special, but there is a conscious intentional motive to let it not be so, in order to leave room and space for there not be attachments and to gain more freedom in this respect. There are actions there to prevent it from not feeling special intentionally for some kind of protection. If there wasn't a chance for it to ever be special the guy would see no need to actively want to do anything.

Most men will only slut shame the women they're not sleeping with, unless they are arguing some how, but as soon as that woman becomes a prospect for them to have a chance at sleeping with her, like you said, they are loving that slut. As soon as they break-up or she sleeps with someone else, she's back to being slut shamed. Women call other women sluts because they fear she takes her man or the man she wants chooses them over her - other reasons too but it's usually for jealousy reasons. She looks better than her, sexier than her.....things like that. People usually don't hate on the poor or people they consider beneath them.

You have to remember that not every guy sees women the same or even view sex the same. What you're asking is quite personalized and the answer will only reflect how the person answering feels personally about this topic. I've personally encountered guys who view sex as something special and, not only that, view the woman as special IN THOSE MOMENTS and it shows in the way they respond to you. If it weren't special then there wouldn't be videos made about how to get laid and so many coaches on both sides teaching and recommending things to people on how to accomplish said things. Some people are so invested in these things uncontrollably and not to their liking and it has become an obsession or addiction that the only way for them to cope with it is to deny it's importance. I'm not saying this is the case here or with anyone in particular, I'm simply mentioning that this may be the case with some people both men and women. All you have to do is see how a person reacts to something with strong emotions and the intensity in the way they dismiss this premise. Take every advice, suggestion and recommendation about dating and sexuality as just that and not actual because it's a very personalized topic and people's attraction to various things and why they're attracted is a complicated thing and most are not even aware themselves on how this is happening.

Nah, it's the top percentage.

Don't get me started on that. I'd be accused of conspiracy theories. The most I'll say is the masses is being dumbed down and stuff is being pushed to try and keep us dumbed down. That's why it's important not to watch the news as much and to scroll endlessly on social media. We're easily programmed.

I've seen where women are called sluts because of the clothes she wears. Women are being shamed all over the place. Instagram models, porn stars, prostitutes, OF girls, women in short skirts, high heels, cleavage showing, belly out, if you twerk you're a hoe, if you wear red lipstick, paint your nails, wear long hair, have a ponytail, suck on a lollypop, I mean, it's endless. Then guys just wanna get laid. That's all i see. They'll even move just to get laid. They'll lie to get laid. Talk shit to get laid. Change their personality to get laid. Nothing wrong with that. Lots of us do shit in life; but why call women sluts and whores and say they're easy and worn out. Shame OF workers and belittle women trying to get paid. Not all guys, only some; let's make that clear.

Check this guys channel out. He has a few videos on this topic.

Well smart women don't give it up easily because there's nothing special about him wanting to sleep with you. So that's why they hold off till you've invested somewhat. Lots of angry women around because they slept with the guy, and he didn't do a damn thing but whispered sweet nothings in her ear. All I see is men trying to get laid. All I see is men going half- crazy because they can't get a gf. Must be something special there.

You know I love you. You can never offend me. You're the light that brightens my day when I come on. I think of you as a cute little cuddly teddy bear. Please don't break my heart by thinking you offended me. Doesn't even matter what you say to me. I can't get mad at you. You're my cuddly little Prince. Now that Bazooky is gone.