Princess Arabia

You don't trust that women are involved in picking who they date or enter into relationships with and assuming they are all just settling for the first guy that approaches. No, disrespect but you have a lot of false notions about all this. You're probably going off of the few relationships you've encountered, but relationships doesn't just happen to women. What kills me with narratives like these is they are implying the female is all by herself and having make belief bfs. Arenlt there men getting women then, if you say relationships are just happening to women and they can get men easily. Are these men real men, or are they blow-up dolls. Check the validity of your statements and realize they are contradictory. Women aren't easily getting into relationships with themselves, so there are men out there who are in relationships too. You keep saying men can't find women and women are in relationships left and right. With whom, monkeys.

Your mind has told you this and you've believed it. Doesn't even make sense when you look at some of the kinds of guys that are with women. I've seen men who barely even talk and have women and I've even seen men who are dumb with gfs. I used to date a dumb guy myself when I was an older teenager in Jamaica; and I was just getting into modelling then, so it wasn't like I couldn't do any better. That's not the point, because I could name numerous other circumstances where skill wasn't involved, the girl was just attracted to him for some reason regardless of him being handsome or not. I'm constantly seeing ordinary couples all over the place. When I go out, I see mostly couples or lots of young guys with girls and I definitely don't see guys all over the place crying because they can't get women, why? because it's the guys that stay home and not out approaching complaining. Another thing is lots of guys want hot women, then they complain how they can't get women because they never look at the ordinary average woman as such; they might approach her, but don't take her too seriously because they were just testing the waters or thinking they're missing something better. Even if they're sleeping with ugly girls or below average looking females, they'll still say they're having problems getting women because it's not the hot chick that they want. I also find that the younger, the worse the situation with men finding women is, because they're so immature and lack certain things and insist on their way. The older the man is, the more he knows how to engage. All factors involved. A place to start for guys looking is to STOP ASSUMING IT'S EASIER FOR WOMEN. It's not hard to get laid for women but it's still not that easy to find a bf because it takes more than just having a penis. When you assume it's easier for women, you will approach her with a certain mindset. One where you feel like you have to prove yourself because she can easily get the next guy. Only way you have to prove yourself is to show her you really like her and that's hard because half the time she's just another approach and you really couldn't care less, then you complain why women are pickier. If you had women's best interest in mind, you would understand this and see where guys are approaching left and right and she's just another number for some. That's why you have numbers for the amount of time you do this. Some guys anyway. It's treacherous for us too, but in a different way. Take that however you chose and believe whatever you want. Half the guys that approach me already assumed I had a man, but did it anyway, so I can imagine some of the one's that didn't approach was because they probably thought they'd be wasting their time. Not that I'm looking, just saying. They're always looking and if they approach its like "where's your man at". Great, cause if I don't like him, I'll say he's home. Think whatever you want. Also, some level of women are out getting skillsets to try and get and keep the kind of men they want, so don't get that wrong. The proof is in the many schools and coaches that are out there helping them to do so. Leave your mind open, and you'll be in a much better place in receiving. That's how this shit works. Not to fill your head up with all sorts of conspiracy theories and beliefs about the dating world and it all depends on the country and culture.

I'm in America but the coffee can be imported from anywhere. I buy at the convenient store or supermarket. Different kinds. Columbian, too. I don't drink much; maybe once or twice a month. I never drink expresso. Too strong for me and i do like strong coffee; not that strong, and i feel like I got cheated for that small amount of coffee.

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I only used that number because it was the number used in the conversation in question. You're right, it's probably 10,000. Don't tell me how many times I've been approached and it's not about being pretty or beautiful, it's just from being a female. Infact, guys approach less attractive women more than they do attractive ones for fear of being rejected. I'm not caught up with these numbers literally because I'm not taking notes and putting down on paper how many times I've been approached. It's just as a female it's a part of the dating world. You guys have no clue what women experience on a daily basis qnd I'm not complaining about it but I'm just saying. Most of the times when I hear men talk about this stuff who are clueless, it's usually coming from their own line of thinking and their ideas about what they think women experience on a whole and how they approach things. This wouldn't happen as much if they would get out of their own heads, start to actually care about trying to understand women and stop thinking were the same, because were not - not in these contexts. You approach it from how you approach and see it, but not from how most women actually are. That's why you're having problems. Tge player actually cares, even when he doesn't care. They are actually smart enough to know how women think and are and that's from being suave in their approach and is not only thinking of himself in that moment but really asking women about themselves so he can add to his filing cabinet. Then after words, he moves on to the next and uses his information on the next until he gets good at it. Simply projecting your own ideas about this stuff and neglecting what the female is saying about herself and how she actually is, won't cut it. And don't believe it when guys tell you that we don't know, because we do, it's just we are not willing to always say everything and love to leave somethings to the imagination of the listener.

Excuse me, it's not about being entitked.. Didn't you pick this forum. Didn't you pick your college, the place you work at, the foods you eat, etc why be sarcastic about the fact that we try to choose the men we sleep with in our personal lives. Men do too. You are putting men down when you insinuate that they don't get to choose. There are plenty of "sexfilled" men out there and you will continue to be sexless if you continue with these ridiculous mindsets. It's obvious you are or you wouldn't have these types of Rhetoric. Don't make women feel less than because they're not willing at all times to open their legs for every willing and able guy. There's no benefit to a woman for doing this. IT IS NOT BEING FUCKING ENTITLED TO BE ABLE TO CHOOSE WHICH GUYS WE SLEEP WITH. It's called entitled to be able to have that entitlement. I'm through with this conversation before I get entangled up with some stupid incel ideological notion.

This makes no sense. IOW, you're just calling the whole human population desensitized to each other. Whenever I see guys saying or thinking that, just because guys are always ready to have sex, are usually the ones having a hard time getting a gf VS females finding bfs and that it's easy for us to get laid and that we have more experience with men, I know you're clueless. Guys are just assuming shit. Where it doesn't even make sense at is that these women that you say are having more experience- who are they having these experiences with. Case closed.

I dont, and plenty of women don't. That's the problem with some of you guys. You will tell a female about herself and project your own beliefs, which are all false, unto them. This conversation is actually pointless because I'm my own person with unique qualities and I'm speaking on my own behalf. Up to you to believe what I'm saying or not but you cannot tell me that what I'm saying about myself is not true. You will see a few females acting a certain way and then believe all women act the certain way. I have eradicated from my mind that all men act the same way because I'm wise enough to do so and not get caught up in the mind's charades and engage in limited thinking. The more I expand the mind is the more I experience expansion and not just be in my own little bubble with my self-deceiving thoughts. Enough said.

That's how I drink it. Plain with nothing in it. Black.

It's not easier for women because women are pickier. We probably still go through 2000 approaches from guys to choose one. We're not approaching because we want to have sex with guys we actually like.

The mind ain't got nothing on AI. Wow, never even heard these terms before. Are these just different variations of the same thing, though. Like we say orange and bitter orange and blood orange etc. It's infinity unto infinity unto infinity, but nothing is really different but different variations of the same thing, that seems to be all these things but is actually nothing - but still a something

Who wants to raise consciousness. Is that Consciousness talking or the mind.

Lol

You can also try dandelion root coffee or mushroom coffee. (Google). You can also boil some fresh cloves and sip on that using milk of your choice - tastes like coffee but only if you use a lot of cloves to make it strong.

Lol, be nice.

Yes, I get that, just saying what I'm saying could also be the case. I'm not saying she's cold and distant and you have to really wonder if she likes you. What I'm saying is, you know she likes you because you can sense or feel it, but she still acts reserved to take things slow. She wants you to talk to her, play around with her and so on but just because she seems a little distant and she's not touchy touchy doesn't mean she doesn't like you. IOW, don't use a female's physical cues as to whether she likes you or not, use her eyes, the fact that she's smiling and appears to be enjoying your company and her body language.

I guess. I forget.

Yeah, most guys I guess when you casually meet them and give it up easily.

They are the target because hot girls aren't necessarily looking for a hot guy. Average -handsome, but he doesn't have to look like a model and not even handsome but as long as he's somewhat average and not real ugly. Nothing wrong with real ugly; but those guys will probably have a better chance if she already knows him. It's not about being worthy for an attractive woman. It's just that if she thinks you feel unworthy for her, she might get turned off because now you're saying you're lacking something and she may not want to find out more about you because now you seem like work to her when she just wants to have a good time. They might not want to have to spend time trying to make you feel comfortable with them, and make it seem as if they're too hot for you. They want you to already know this because she's not there to babysit. That alone is what's attractive to her, the fact that you're not shy to approach her.

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This is where you have an advantage..... ....and this is where you don't....the self doubt and limiting beliefs. Work on this part and you'll be good to go, just make sure you really believe it and that it's possible.

Average looking guys are the target; but they don't know this and believe otherwise, so they self-sabotage. Just like you're asking here and mentioning things that really doesn't matter to a hottie. Yes, some but not most. You'll see hot women with short guys, broke guys, not so good looking guys, etc, but you will rarely find them with low-confident guys or shy guys or reserved guys. It takes a very courageous and confident average looking guy to approach a hottie and that's where the attraction comes in, not necessarily in his muscles or height, height is more important than muscles and varies from female to female but a short guy still has a chance. IT all comes down to how the guy sees himself in relation to that woman because the projection will be obvious to her. Now, she either wants to know about him more or get him away from her. All depends on how he sees himself.

This means nothing to a woman's "standoffishness". She could be mesmerized by you and still place herself apart/away from you. (this isn't a game she's playing, it's an instinctual thing). BTW, when a female really likes you is when, in the beginning, she treads on thin ice, for fear of sending the "easy" signal or likes you so much she wants to prolong the initial stages or for any other reason and wants you to really like her back also. There's a reason she was at his place to begin with; don't know the details so this is all speculation; but women get reserved sometimes when they really, really like you. Guys can only know these types of things from other women.

Sex isn't that special by your standards so who cares. The rest of your comment is pretty much what I mean by "earning it". He was careful in his approach and didn't take it for granted. Just like people do with "earning respect", and "earning trust". Same kind of thing.