Princess Arabia

Why do you sound so different as of late. Something changed. Not good or bad, just a different energy from what I'm used to from you.

Where in my journal do you see me criticizing Actualized.org's forum and calling it low conscious and that this place is only for what's needed and to let it go when not. I also didn't say you never agree with any posts or comments.

There's no escaping human bullshit. Let it go to go with the same mindset you've let it go with. If you see abuse here, you'll see it somewhere else. All your criticisms here will just carry on to somewhere else. You have nothing good to say about this place but you still log on. You criticize and criticize but it's because you also criticize yourself. Anywhere you go, you'll see something to criticize and call low conscious. People are where they're at and people grow and mature. Can't force ripe the plant.

Abuse. Hehe. Start a thread about member abuse. More fitting.

What does it mean to be human: Exactly how we see humans act. Exactly how we see humans interact. Can a human act like a dog, a cat, a giraffe, an elephant, a tree. Maybe, but only temporarily and as, just that, an act. They cannot BE those things. So to expect anything else from humans from what you already see and how you see them acting is a fantasy and shows how you THINK they should act in your mind. Your expectations. Some silly little immature notion of blah, blah, blah love fantasy. We have emotions, we're loving people, we're not mechanical and we show love towards each other and should embody our human side of love care and compassion. BULLSHIT. What you see is what you get. How you see humans act is exactly what it means to be human. In every meaning of the word. We think we're so special and then when we see evidence that we're not, we condemn and say that's not how we should act as humans and that we're not robots. The Robert Green's thread about pornography by Anion inspired me to write this post. I made a comment there regarding this. I see all the time how we're trying to make humans into what were not. We're exactly how we ought to be. Confused, alienated, sadistic, neurotic, impulsive, filled with hate and anger, jealous, envious, stupid, silly, foolish and also every word that is the opposite of what I just listed, e,g kind, smart, generous, loving...etc. Just like how we chase happiness and avoid pain, we're trying to see humans in a specific light. We want to see humans act in a specific way so we can see ourselves in a specific way. If a human acts a certain way that we don't like to see in ourselves, we condemn it and say that's not human. Yes, it is. Who acted that way...a monkey? No, it was a human. That's what it means to be human. Look at nature. We see the sun and the stars and the beautiful trees and rainbows and lovely weather and the birds chirping and the beautiful beaches and so on. We also see the hurricanes, the earthquakes, the tsunamis, the tornados and you name it - every destructive event there is. We don't say that's not nature and that nature needs to act differently and it needs therapy and how it needs to be loving and not robotic and however else we try to describe our lovely notions of how we think humans should be. No. We accept it and say, that's nature for ya. With humans, we want to fix things and try to see our species as all loving and caring and with no acts that will jeopardize our silly notions of what we think a human should be. We are so neurotic and narcissistic and filled with psychosis that we cannot accept the fact that we're not special and that we're a part of nature that doesn't discriminate and that there's nothing personal about anything in life....THAT ALSO INCLUDES THE PERSON. There's nothing personal about the person. We have made it about us. We have made life about us. Life doesn't give a shit about who you think you are. Life is just life. Life is just doing it's thing. Life is showing us that fact every day and we insist on making it about us. We invent terms like depersonalization. Haha. That's funny. There's no person there. It's all a facade. We say we feel empty inside. Haha. That's because there's nothing there. The brain and mind is there to create problems so we can feel like there's something or someone there to fix. That's another trick of life. To make us feel important and special. Can't you all see it. Can't you all see how it never ends. Always trying to fix something. Well, there's nothing to fix and nothing to mend but the broken chair and that's also another way that life expresses itself and is using us to do it's thing. It's all an expression of life, both the good and the bad, the right and the wrong, the good feelings and the not so good feelings, the pain and the sorrow and the happiness and the joy. Everything in the 3D world is made to keep us trapped in the facade. To keep us hallucinating. We search for enlightenment to escape from the mirage. We want to get enlightened so we can escape the mind and our thoughts. We suffer our own demise. We look to gurus to help us. They also have their own pain and sorrow they're dealing with. They are just distracted from them and use their followers to mend their wounds. If they didn't have us to lean on,, they would also be a hot mess. Notice how when you meditate and do your spiritual practices how you feel better. You have to keep doing them or you'll fall apart and go back to your old ways. It's a crutch. A band-aid. Nothing will take the place of BEING. What I mean by that is 24/7 BEING. If you're not there yet, just practice BEING 24/7. No need to set aside time for anything mental. Get to the point where nothing bothers you, nothing in life troubles you and you can walk in peace at all times knowing you are always one with life and there's nothing that can happen to take that away and that you are an eternal being and nothing can ever take that away.

It's funny how after the video ends, there's a pop up recommendation video of Robert Greene titled "Do not run away from your dark side". Obviously, he's aware people do have a dark side to them and that pornography can feed into that dark side. He's just rambling on about how he thinks humans should be. He's in a fantasy world. Not the "real world". There are people in relationships or marriage who feel nothing and are just mechanical beings when having sex and feel no emotions also. Doesn't take porn to bring that out in people. Porn is porn. Can't reflect real love and loving emotion. So, to describe it in the way he does is exactly that - pornography. It's like looking at a wall and describing an orange or expecting porn to be any other way. Some people need to experience something in life to know what they don't want. There are people who, after watching porn, turn out to be in the most loving relationships because porn disgusted them so much and they didn't want to be like that. That's how you have to think about life. Everything is leading us to LOVE.

This thread is a joke and will be locked...guaranteed. The word abuse gets overused also, imo. Stand up for yourself and take responsibility for your feelings. I've learned that the hard way. Be an alchemist and turn your defeats into triumphs. Unless you're a child, no one can abuse you without your permission or your ignorance of how to deal with the situation. I must also add I'm not referring to real abuse of people traumatized, terrorized, assaulted or who have been kidnapped, tormented and held against their will or in extreme circumstances and situations.

Lol

You want proof? More proof, please...lol

You don't go back to being one with everything you recognize that you are NOT DOING ANYTHING and the mental struggle stops. "But it's really important to get things done" like you said, is the thing that puts us in the struggle. It's only important to the egoic mind structure that thinks it's in control. Things are getting done but it's not by you,it's by life's will. When you start to observe you'll start to recognize this. It's not about surrendering and letting go but to realize there was never anything to surrender to or let go of because those things happen automatically when you realize it's all energetic and it flows in unison with the energy that you're embodying. It goes hand n hand. Struggle and fighting life carries with it a different kind of energy than one that's at ease with everything.

@Leo GuraBeautiful video. Thank you for your service and hard work.

Been watching a few of her videos and I love her channel. Thanks for posting. Never heard of her till you posted this and I love her. Just finished watching this one. A masterpiece. She reminds me of someone sent "from above" (figure of speech). I have seen a lot of spiritual videos and have my own way of thinking about these things and she has integrated a lot of the things I know to be true from my experience into one. All the crazy stuff I talk about isn't integrating the whole but she does it perfectly. I'm not saying she's got it all, because nobody does, but it's the best person I've seen thus far that speaks of oneness and wholeness in a beautiful and unique way that I love. Thank you for posting. She's so beautiful inside and out and I can feel her energy. I've stopped watching a lot of spiritual videos, only a few now but I'll be adding her to my list.

I forgot. I know it's make Leo something, but I forgot what the W stood for. Maybe wise, woke or well. The comment was just so spontaneous.

Your nephew does not represent the entire human race.

Try separating a finger from your hand. Imagine you have succeeded (mentally). Now imagine trying to put it back on all by yourself. Wouldn't that be a struggle. That's what's happening here with the human energetic experience. We are trying desperately to put that finger back on not realizing it was never separated to begin with - just in imagination. We are suffering because we believe we are separate from the whole and it is a very painful experience. Quite different from when the body hurts itself. Those sensations are real and is felt because of identification with the body, but the mental pain the mind suffers is being generated from the thought of it being a separate experience and the belief it holds that it must make things right because this isn't perfection already.

The "me" is in a desperate state of despair. Just check out the forum threads. It seeks and can never find. It doesn't realize it doesn't exist and that it's life is all imaginary. It doesn't have a life and it seeks the end of itself. It's pretty obvious at this point. I this and I that, I, I, I, I, I. My life this and my life that. I can't seem to this and I can't seem to that. Oh my, what a dilemma. So brutal and yet so beautiful to recognize that there's no one there doing that. It's this appearing as that. This is unconditionally free. So free it can appear to be bound and enslaved. There's no point in even giving any advice in these situations because advice is not what it seeks. It seeks to DIE. Sob, sob.

This melted my heart.

They are feeling what is there. The opposite of that is all the stories we're telling. It's what the true nature of existence is. Empty. Emptiness Void. Nothing, zilch, nada....but an emptiness that's filled with stories. Don't be fooled, it means they are more connected to life than us but only on the mental level because there's really no disconnection. Impossible. Everything you've said about yourself as to why do don't feel empty are stories you've constructed.

Seriously? From Dec 2023. OP, you need to learn the art of letting go. Especially from someone you don't even know. I'm saying this with love in my heart. Almost every post from you is about someone abusing you. Not to mention the women in your past. Please understand that life isn't about you but how you respond to it. Life is cruel and will eat you alive if you let it. You have every right to feel the way you do, but understand that "the feeling is the secret" slogan is exactly what life is about. We're trying to feel a certain way but life isn't cooperating because life is neutral and doesn't base how it operates on feelings, we do. THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO MASTER IN LIFE IS YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS IT. That's it. Everything else is happening on it's own. This is what "the feeling is the secret" actually means.

I hear you and understand where you're at with this. Very thoughtful of you to consider the feelings of others and how you're impacting them. Sometimes we just need to reflect on our own state of being and try to see what it is inside of us that's making us so angry. I've learnt to stop putting the blame on the circumstance and the people involved and to recognize its something deeper than that that's troubling. It's usually fear of something. Once I recognize the root cause of the fear, I try to resolve that or come to grips with it. There's usually a deeper issue at hand like fear of abandonment, the loss of something, feelings of lack, self-love etc. Try to identify the root cause and not pay so much attention to the contents and maybe that will loosen up the contracted energy a bit. I know it helped me, even though I never really had that much of an anger issue. My main issue was needing to be understood, bur I've overcame that by understanding everyone is where they're at and are seeing the world through different lenses and not everyone needs to understand you as long as I'm being respectful and giving people their space to be themselves and trying not to compare.

Would you make a post asking how to deal with happiness. Why single out anger. Stop picking on anger and it won't bother you. Do you see how we create our own dilemmas. Let life flow through you. It's only a problem because of your stories surrounding anger, like the ones you're giving in this thread. They're just stories. Life is present, why bring up the past. You will be 80yrs old asking how to deal with anger. What I do is, I get angry....I notice it and I move on. No issues. I don't chastise myself or blame myself or judge myself or criticize myself for it. In two minutes I'm fine again. Keep doing this with every emotion and you'll notice how they pass like the clouds. Happiness, sadness, joy, anger, doesn't matter. Stop making a big deal about them. This is why the search for happiness is a curse. Can't have one without the other. Bliss my ass.

The me is never satisfied..hehe

Who says shit like this. An insecure person who doesn't value themselves and looking for others to value them. You see Brad as worthy, maybe she doesn't.

You have entered into this with the mindset that this woman has caused you suffering before. No matter what she does or not do, this relationship is doomed. You will see the suffering in your mind and the brain will concoct up some images before hand and create a suffering story behind everything associated with this woman before anything even happens. This is what I mean by we're living life and responding with trauma. All this "decent girl" has to do is do something you're not comfortable with and now she becomes not so decent. You're like a child whining and throwing there tantrums about life and looking for it to be about you. IT'S NOT. Be prepared for more endless suffering if you haven't seen through life's dilemma. Drop the seriousness, laugh a little and stop labeling it as much. That's a sure way to feel disappointed when it doesn't live up to your labeled expectations.

I will stay on this forum just to see you keep coming back for more and more and more and never getting anywhere. One cannot deny the me because the me is it's own "entity" so to speak. It doesn't even recognize itself muchless to deny itself. All that you've described above is life appearing as those things, spontaneously. There's no me really doing those things. In fact, there's really no me because it's THIS, whatever it is, appearing as a me. So it's all good. Even all your endless judging and criticizing of people on the forum is THIS appearing as all that. Its just that the experience of me in your case is so unsettling and doesn't feel right, it looks to others to settle itself. Doesn't matter either way as there's no one doing either. I'm a perfect example of what life is doing, thank you very much and it can't be any other way, just as the me cannot stop itself.