Princess Arabia

You will change your mind in the months or years to come. This is just your way of coping with the frustrations you have with the dating scene. You're venting right now with this post and trying to tell yourself you don't want something when deep down you do. If you didn't, you wouldn't have made this post. It would have just been another day in the park without even a discussion about it.

Such delusion.

Did you watch the video. The man took two shots in the chest and still walked as if he was the hulk. I thought he was wearing a bulletproof vest. He didn't even budge. He just turned away, walked back to his resting place and that's when he fell to the floor. I've seen people hop while taking bullets to the feet. Police are trained to shoot to kill.

That man took 2 shots, turned around and walked back to where he said he was going to sleep at, dropped to the floor and slept like a baby.

If one feels a need to date, trying to get rid of that need will feel constricted. The only way to get rid of the need to date is to go date. The only way to get rid of hunger, is to eat, the only way to get rid of being poor is to be rich.

Ironically, these are the traits that most people who are miserable in dating have, except for maybe confidence but not necessarily.

Getting free of that need is enslavement just the same. It's a condition and it's not being free. This is some spiritual mumbo jumbo. Nothing wrong with wanting to date and it doesn't necessarily mean one is trying to feel fulfilled.

How you go dissolve the self, then seek yourself. Seems like a confused self to me.

He's fine. Just saying. Hippy me, baby. Lol

Is that you?

Not all men are into women the way you might be. Some may just be into them for the sex alone and not necessarily get anything out of feeling the warmth of a female's body, the intimacy and aroma like you said. Not all men crave or even like that. Maybe they're also into other stuff with them that doesn't involve those things, idk. Not every man loves women that way even if he's not gay. It's not about strange thinking. Women can be a nuisance for some. Don't take it for granted that men who chase after women, loves women. Look at what he said uptop. The same pussy gets boring after a while. You have to put up with drama to get that sex and it comes with a price. That can take a toll mentally on you if that's your experience with women. (BTW, it's not like that with all women and some men have beautiful experiences with some women for the most part). If finding peace and happiness means doing without women, then that tells you what I said uptop is the case here. When all you know, is all you know, it can lead you into believing that's all there is. Plenty of men are out there having drama less female relationships because they choose wisely and not just because somebody was giving it up or was hot.

There's no such thing as becoming fearless. Fear is fear. Fear is "fearing". If fear is present, it's present. If it's not it's not. It's just thoughts appearing as someone that figured out how to become fearless. There will only be different thoughts that says there's nothing to fear. Fear is just that, fear. If you were doing the fear, you wouldn't need manipulative tactics or different thoughts or ways of stopping it. You could just stop fearing instantly, or not fear at all anything. You won't know when fear is arising next. You will only attach your being to the energy and call it yours - your fear. Fear is not personal, only seems to be. Yeah, yeah, I know bullshit. Tell me when you'll be fearful again, NOW. Tell me when you'll be asleep again to the exact second, when you'll be burping again and farting again. Why is fear any different. So says the person that thinks it's in charge of it's fear.

Lol

I don't binge watch anyone in particular. I go through streaks. It's not about being correct and more about there's no teaching on the subject. You don't seem to realize that there's some kind of resonance and apparent opening here that has seen through a lot of this stuff. It's not me doing it but whatever it is that resonates.

There is no real Truth. Truth is what is. Even your silly tongue emojii😛😜😛😜

This message is still telling people who have no controller what to do. To surrender, to let and leave things alone. It is still speaking to the individual person of which there is none. There's no one doing anything, as he says, so who is it that has the power to surrender and let people go through their karma and the rest. Everything is Absolute, so there are no Absolute instructions. Everything that's being done or that's happening is just that, happening and there's no one that can do anything about it.

What if I told you that THIS is all there is and there is no such thing as falsehood.

Magnificento. Amazingly Superbo. If I say half of what is written here, I'd be called crazy. It's all the same thing. I don't understand it, I don't know it, but Oh my God i can surely be it. Not the person I think I am, but Infinity itself.

Nahm is just another cause and effect trick of the cosmos. Just like how you think you feed yourself because you're hungry. No, the body moves to feed itself and you think it's because you were hungry. Nahm got ostracized and now you think it's because of his belief system. No, it was life doing life just as life is doing you. Except there is no you, only life. Everything that happens, happens on it's own. The person is what internalized it and turns it into a story. There's no real time so how is anything in succession. There is none, it only appears that way because of the brains capability to abstract form. See through the illusion, my friend and liberate yourself. No one is actually in any trap because traps needs time and space to be effective and time and space are illusory. It's all empty and is only there because you are. Take you out the equation and life is just happening, to noone.

There's nothing to teach other than how to build a coffee table or how to build a computer to show illusory trap videos.

The fear mongering of the sense of self is contagious. It tries to trap all the crabs along with it.

Yeah, to perpetrate and deepen the sense of self. That's all. If there's a trap to fall into, it's the guru and disciple trap.

When you guys really understand the dynamics of how pain is felt, treated, internalized and/or processed, both physical and mental pain, you will start to understand what the saying "there's no one" really means. I know I say that a lot on the forum and it sounds woo woo and like some spiritual bullshit fantasy, but it's exactly why even this discussion about pain can get so technical, confusing and misunderstood. Let me give an e.g. If your hand gets chopped off, would you say, "I got chopped off", no, you'd say my hand got chopped off. Two things there. My and hand. If your heart gets broken do you say, I got broken, no my and heart. If your kidney gets removed, you don't say I got removed. Your hand gets hit with a hammer, you'll say I got hit with a hammer on my hand. Why not say my hand got hit with a hammer. You identify with your body parts only when they are attached. If they are severed they are not you anymore. When you feel pain, it's only because you've identified with the body, so now the pain is yours. When your severed hand is across the street, you don't feel the pain of the hand, you feel the pain on your shoulder, the hand no longer is you, but the shoulder part is, and that's why you feel it. You feel that heartache because you've identified with the thoughts that come with the heartache, the heart is physically fine, it's the thoughts that's painful. Thought's aren't painful, only the sensation felt. The sensation is felt because you think there's something there. Nothing is there. There's no one feeling anything. What you think you feel is not yours, but an identification with who you think you are. Once there's a you, everything else is connected to that you, but it really isn't and that's the friggin illusion. Only feelings, sensations, body parts that we've identified with. There's no one in these bodies.

Mental abuse is also a wound that can be healed. Hospitals have the words Trauma Response on their titles, referring to accident victims. Mental trauma is physical trauma internalized. The internal system went through it's own trauma. Breaking a leg is the same as breaking someone's heart. It's treatment is the difference and what type of bandages are used. A rebound relationship is a bandage one puts on the heart to mend it.

Depends on who is receiving the abuse and their perception of it. There are people who even get off on being abused. That's another topic. Nothing is as it seems.