Lyubov

I think flossing is overrated. I think brushing is very important. I think you can floss once a day to occasionally or not even bother flossing and be fine. There is even some evidence that suggests flossing is overrated and gives such a tiny benefit that it’s not even that noticeable. I think diet plays an important role as well.

Ok fair enough, just seemed like you were trying to paint things more grimly than they are about infidelity. Maybe I misread your point.

This is where Vegas and your Peter Pan PUA lifestyle / RSD stuff is misguiding you. Like a war veteran who thinks every place is dangerous or a drug addict who thinks no friend can be trusted. You have a skewed picture of women and attraction. You are seeing low integrity all around you in the city of sin and painting it as a key component and some common thing in attraction. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but check your bias and how you formed this view. You are attracting such women into your life because there is something fundamentally wrong with your approach if you are encountering this often. High integrity attracts high integrity. I’m not saying infidelity doesn’t happen but it’s not something to be so worried about or paint as incredibly common if you are conscious enough to avoid it and find the women that don’t partake. If you have a lot of experience and know how to screen you will rarely encounter it but some will become wounded and jaded by it cause it is like all unpleasant things in life. They do happen but not that often and you can learn to avoid hitting your hand with the hammer if you are keen and wise to.

My bad I think I confused you with like two other people cause you don’t have a photo

The guy has his wings in jail like you said and went to court for rape. That automatically should disqualify him from being discussed in this community as a viable source for men to improve with women. Fox News threads and conspiracy threads are closed here. The same level of integrity should be applied to male dating advice here.

You just BURIED this John clown Dude why do you keep mentioning this guy? Holy shit you can literally spend five minutes and find a better source than him. A trash bin will teach you better habits with women then that clown.

This is common especially in southern states. There are huge racial disparities with education.

I think he had sexual assault charges brought against him before.

The cult of personality around some PUA guys is weird. I remember people used to kiss so much ass in those Facebook groups and get into arguments over who was the best coach.

Just look at all those clowns sitting in that hotel seminar room listening to this dope. People really need to watch their information intake.

I’m looking for natural supplements to help with insomnia or when a person is feeling all sorts of somatic stress symptoms, ungrounding, or fight or flight feelings, especially at night where it disturbs sleep. I’ve heard rosemary and chamomile are good. I’ve tried melatonin but it doesn’t really work well for me. What are some other things I can take to help stuff like this, both preemptively and during ?

It varies some. It depends and I can break it down in two ways Women: Some people think the excessive make up, trying to look "luxury" type is the best, some are fine with a more relaxed look. I'm not super picky, I've found the excessive trying to look rich with generic designer brands and too much make up and cosmetic surgery to be a turn off. I like girls who are a nice mix of natural but also go to the salon regularly and do their nails. There is also the hipster look and just the girl next door look. I think it really depends on the person but women are sort of painted into a corner more here with having to look more stylish and be in better shape. Men: There are much more acceptable ways for men to look so to speak to be considered handsome. I would say physical features isn't even that high of a priority. It's more so how you dress and take care of yourself. You can have a bit of a beer gut too and it's not really a big deal. Being tall and in good shape helps but it's not mandatory so to speak.

Stage orange be thirsty as FUCK for investing in anything following trends like bitcoin and tesla lol

The senate is kinda crazy and it’s difficult to reform that due to the constitution. Makes no sense why Cali has 2 senators while some middle America red state with a tiny fraction of the population gets the same number. Issues like that will be generational.

I would say I last about the same with both actually, for various reasons. Condoms I would say are like minus 30-40% the sensations along the penis. Also the intimacy and psychological factor of feeling truly nude. I think it just feels much better without and I def prefer it. I am really not interested in sex with condoms, but it's by no means bad. I would much rather do it once or twice with a woman if it isn't a ONS then offer for us to both get tested and do it raw after if she is down for it.

I totally forgot about it but do you all remember that time Musk slandered that British diver guy who called Musk out on his bullshit? I don’t think I ever really payed much attention to him before that but I think that was the time I saw through his facade as some genius and just a master Twitter / Wall Street guy. He’s not as fake as Trump though.

Not knocking your experience, but I have no need for this myself. I don't know how this is possible to do in a relationship either. Passion needs to be expressed somehow. Men who are able to master this practice are exceptionally talented people. If you are a man with a high sex drive it's kinda like eating. You can't be happy without eating some. You don't have to gorge McDonalds but you need to eat. To say you should be able to be peaceful and happy without sex is very much disowning one of your core needs. It's like saying you should be able to be peaceful and happy without food and water. "Food is a biological necessity that controls you as long as you frame it that way." It's an unrealistic, ridiculous litmus test and not the game of life.

The video seems pretty intimate and sexual tbh. I don't think it's appropriate with someone you've only met a couple times. Probably just doing some mindful breathing together or some yoga together that doesn't require contact with each other. Spiritual practices I think can be misunderstood in a relationship and used for ulterior motives so I think stuff like this is better explored when there is integrity and trust between two people. It's like doing all sorts of crazy kinky extreme sex on the first date. I mean theoretically some people may be fine with it, in fact it may just be a fuck and more honest, but some won't and require trust. The thing with spiritual stuff like this is that it often carries the same amount of responsibility and integrity behind it but it isn't apparent upon first observation. It can be weaponized and used to manipulate. Spiritual stuff but just an excuse to get sexual.

I’m more so speaking from what it’s like for my dick. Half of my family side is Jewish so snip snip for me. No condom just feels 100 times better to me. I can still perform with a condom though so it’s not the end of the world but it sucks so I don’t really like using them. Yes, pull out is risky if your girl isn’t on the pill. It can be very effective long term if done properly but that’s kinda like saying heroin can be done safely long term if taken properly. It’s really fucking hard to not get hooked. You basically summed it up. It’s not as hard to pull out when you aren’t so deeply in love with or that passionate about a woman but this builds up the more sex happens with two people and the first time you let it happen it becomes kinda like a drug and it becomes harder and harder not to each time.

I’ve gone raw dog with girls I just met before It’s very foolish. Codons are awful, especially if you are circumcised. I’ve matured quite a bit since. Pull out is fine if you aren’t in love and both of you have been tested but it’s going to basically fast track falling in love so…

dude gives me black republican vibes, at least he's more stylish. probably has the money to dress nice grifting donos from his toxic audience.

You basically just described online dating. You aren’t doing anything wrong per say. This is just the nature of the beast. You get matches and then a percent of them reply and then a percent of that give the number and then a percent of that are free to meet. The conversion rate is low when you add it up. But if you have 200 hot matches and you can sleep with 5% of them that’s not bad. All you can do is continue to improve your photos and profile. Also not internalize this and form judgements and beliefs about yourself. I would not overthink your texting. It’s online texting in a dating app. It means basically nothing. Just make small basic chit chat, a little joke, whatever, and get the number. Doesn’t sound like you are doing too much crazy or hoping for fireworks from texting but also sort of expecting more from it. Just continue improving your profile. You can send me screens of your texts if you want a second set of eyes to give you pointers in case you think you are over writing.

So let me start. Sometimes at night I can get wound up and triggered by something and it can make it hard to sleep. I’ll find myself in a mild to moderate fight or flight state. I’ll have uncomfortable sensations at the back of my neck, chest, etc. A lot of emotions. I’ll feel a little ungrounded as well. I’m very careful not to jump into my head, follow thoughts, etc when feeling like this. In general it’s just very uncomfortable sitting with the sensations. I’m doing other stuff to address the underlying causes for it but there is a time and place for that so I don’t jump into this sort of stuff at night or especially when triggered like this cause it’s kinda like a rusty valve, once it’s open it’s hard to close it. So I’m mature and carful when to navigate and explore this stuff. I at one point had what many might classify as PTSD but I’ve been able to handle the symptoms on my own for years now and overall am doing great. Some stuff in my relationship or work will sometimes trigger it and I’ll have problems sleeping at night cause I’ll be stuck in a sort of mild episode that just makes my body very uncomfortable and emotional. I’m also staying up really late at night and it’s been challenging to get my sleep schedule to more usual hours of rest. I'm looking for tips on how to handle such a situation when it’s occurring and anyone who has faced this before as well and what has worked for you. Overall I’m super grateful to be where I am though because it was so much worse years ago. I overcame facing when it was chronic and severe and now it’s just moderate to mild sporadically (2-4 times a month, maybe a bit more sometimes), usually on days I was stressed by something or during nights I have something important to do the next day. Thanks !

All therapy modalities, even basic talk therapy, can be healing in a way as long as the practitioner has integrity and there is a sense of trust, connection and safety. From there you can build on this or take away. I like that there are lots of different modalities. I think a mix of cognitive/thought based, body based and spirituality is for me. Holistic sort of approach. Sometimes I benefit from something more in one area than another. Right now I greatly benefit from practical relationship advice.

Bruh, not dick game, pull out game. And that game begins on hardcore mode when you are super in love. You’re going to nut in her precisely because you have amazing dick game. It can be insanely hard to pull out when you’re super hard and having extremely passionate sex and she’s riding your cock, cumming multiple times, crying tears of joy and sexual ecstasy is reached. Everyone that OD’d on heroin was telling themselves the same shit when they started. You can be clever and time it with her ovulation like you said though. Girls that have that period tracking app get a thumbs up from me. I personally am wary of pull out with a partner not on the pill cause the sex I have is like heroin. I could OD on it and not just be daddy in bed anymore if I’m not careful. Glad my girl is on the pill though. It’s entirely her choice and not my place to tell her what to do with her body.