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These girls are rare but occasionally some will try to ask for things form guys they aren’t even with. One chick asked me once if I’d meet her off tinder but in exchange for a gift. It’s happened to me several times in different ways. You will come across it a lot when you put yourself out there often. It can be sorta scammy sometimes too so be careful. There are simp guys who will actually do this so they are sorta screening for them. Just ignore such women. Don’t even try to “game” them or change them.

Too damn long. If you ain’t getting married after two years it’s time to move on!

“Dating for 4 years and engaged for a year” wtf ? these Reddit threads are crazy. I would NOT go there for advice ever.

why bother eating? why bother showering after passing a turd?

Just don't be this guy Ukraine is SUPER SCAMMY and they take desperate guys looking for a girl there for a ride all the time

I was pretty awful at falling asleep till recently. I was staying up incredibly late at night (bed at 5am, wake up at 1pm). I wasn't sure if it was physiological or mental. I wasn't pressed to fix it so I just let it stay like this. Have you recently went on a holiday? I went on a holiday with my gf and we started going to bed at 9pm every night there. It was at the beach. When I came back I noticed the resistance and sleeping problems I was having were gone. For me it was all mental. I think finding a way to tackle this side is important if it isn't physiological. Talking about it with trained professional or seeing a sleep therapist. The good thing is this is something that can clear up quick if it isn't too serious.

ah yeah, this is tricky. I still feel this way kinda as well. I'm kinda at a point though where I don't give a fuck. I am who I am. Just got fed up and found myself letting go. I think it's about just surrounding yourself with people who will accept you for you flaws and all. Treating those around you with at least the amount of respect you'd like to be treated with. idk I just got so sick of feeling shame and working on it and exploring it that I just found myself letting a lot of it go. I've done literally hundreds of hours on shame and hard inner work related to regrets from the past and thing I felt ashamed of about myself. I think I just got tired of it and realized I was wasting my time. Exploring it was necessary though, and still is sometimes. I think finding a balance of authenticity where you explore it through all the various means that have been discussed on this site but also then changing focus to other stuff you'd rather do that is fun or interesting. It's a lot about balance I've noticed. Self work needs to be balanced with rest needs to be balanced with creating needs to be balanced with more rest.

half of all hook ups probably happened cause of alcohol I'm fine with having a few cocktails. It's part of having fun. Talking to women is then just a natural progression of the night.

stayed, but tried to do a more honest job gotta pay the bills

Yes, the thing is Belle built her image mostly on her own. She is/was a semi performing artist. I believe OnlyFans took their cut and that is it. Lana went into traditional porn which means she had all sorts of leeches on her, exploiting and manipulating her. I think some women love feeling desired and doing porn. I have had friends in the OnlyFans/Porn scene and they seemed to like the glamorous lifestyle, money, no need to really think about what to do (just make sexy content). It's a pretty comfortable and easy lifestyle that pays really well, especially onlyfans.

I don't rank women with numbers either or talk like there is some objective scale. It's kinda ridiculous and the guys that are unconscious enough to do it are unwittingly putting themselves on a scale as well with an end goal they'll never reach. It does tremendous subconscious harm. Making life for themselves and getting what they want way harder as well but some people unknowingly like to make things hard for themselves cause they got nothing better to do. It's fine to evaluate looks according to your own preferences and state those preferences though.

I’d look over how much savings you have in the bank and also even consider studying if you can. Maybe you can study for a year there intensive to learn the local language some. From there lol just your CV. A lot of jobs are online these days so see what’s available in your current country that let’s you work remotely. Do you have a university diploma? I’d get your education and finances in a bit of working order before traveling. You could always look for jobs in these countries but it’s not really possible if you don’t know the local language. There are opportunities though to get here. I think the student path is a good one if you are young and haven’t finished all your studies yet.

This guy gets it

Well, I would say it will depend more on the city. Any of them that has a developed city will be great. Poland, Russia, Hungary, Czech, Baltic states, Romania, even heard capital of Ukraine is great. That's the thing about Eastern Europe. There will be one or two cities in each country that is modern and nice but the rest of the country is sketchy/ghetto. Society will have stage blue/orange vibes with extremely rare green circles in the capital.

lemon slices, a tiny bit of ginger, honey and hot water is also a really good drink for this I'm feeling better too but still have 37c fever. Hope I'll be better Monday.

Not that hard at all. I wouldn’t do it if you are like OLD though. Hospitals aren’t as amazing as say the US but if you are in your 20-40s you’ll be just fine. Plenty of language schools to study the local language by day and it’s not a op expensive. It will take some adjusting if you don’t like traveling but if you like traveling I’d say it’s amazing. Having been to Asia id say Eastern Europe is easier to adjust to.

I’m not sure on that. I just don’t feel ready for it. I’m young. It’s kinda separate. I see love and relationship as separate. You can love someone to pieces and not want what they want or be on the same path and you can be on the same path with someone and align in some domains but have lost all passion and not be that into them. Loving her more or less wouldn’t change this it’s just a life path difference. I’ll mull it over and see if I’m willing to compromise on this and go with the flow and settle down or not. Idk man.

I sometimes feel bad knowing I may be wasting my gf's time. idk if I wanna get married or have kids and she really wants this. I love her though and we both very much wanna be with each other. she's 26 so realistically she has like maybe 4-6 more years before she enters the "dating divorced men" phase if she isn't hitched yet. is it a man's fault for wasting women's time? I feel I'm pretty up front about my long term plans, no kids or marriage in my early 30s.

Nah I’m super into her ? I’m just a horny bastard ….

Move to a place where beautiful women are the norm. Digital nomad lifestyle. Join me. So many USA guys thinking they have the best looking women when they are a dime a dozen here in Eastern Europe ? Will literally see physically fit attractive men dating the most average looking women in the USA. The only exception to this is if you’re rich like Leo and have time to go out to exclusive night clubs. You’re playing on hardcore mode if you’re in the USA and want abundant beauty and you don’t have some badass job or some inner connections. Stop playing games. You aren’t going to think your way to abundance like some BS puas teach. Just like you aren’t going to think a million into your bank account. You are either rich or you aren’t. You can either skip from beautiful girl to beautiful girl and not worrying about it or you can’t. Your environment is super foundational and if you are in a country where women don’t put a ton of effort into their looks then good luck fighting over the top shelf that you and like 1000 guys are dming at a time.

She made bank and is gone now. She made like 5 million dollars or more I think.

Men are most sexually attracted to women in their 20s. This does not tend to stop for most until they get much older and then it’s women in 30s when they are like 50 and then 40s when they are like 60. Guys that are like 50 and still going after early 20s are a bit creepy though. They need to grow up and stop with the Peter Pan lifestyle. I plan to date chicks in their 20s till I’m at least in my mid 40s.

My temperature is back down to 36c. I'm taking some vitamins now. Feeling better. I think I had covid and then I got the winter flu. Cause the first week was more like COVID symptoms. I even lost my smell but it's back now. But I then got sick again with slightly different winter cold symptoms. May have picked up what my gf's roommate had. Sucks. Finally feeling a bit better. Will rest till Monday. How you feeling? @Preety_India

The thing is there is value in going to retreats like this. They provide a strong container for people with weak psychology and who don't know what the fuck they are doing. Hell, even half of the budget retreats don't even know what they are doing. Tons of people have left fucked up (often mentally but unfortunately sometimes physically) after going to some cowboy Ayahuasca retreat. The actual market value of professional safe Psychedelic therapy isn't really clear yet. It's in it's infancy and poorly overseen. In the meantime cowboy retreats and these rip off retreats will flourish. I wonder how much a solid 3 ceremony retreat would cost in 30 years from now with trained facilitators and therapists? I'd imagine it would still cost a solid 5-10 grand clinically speaking at least in the US if it isn't covered by insurance. Mental health services are very expensive.

actualized def could have been milked A LOT more than it has been